Girlfriends daughter and her boyfriend sleeping together...need input

It is the man's place to ask her to marry him.......be a man and ask!!

get a new gf...she sounds like a very irresponsible person.

some boy coming into your home to steal a bit of fluff, will on his way out decide to take some of your own stuff.

If you werent worried about steady snatch, would you still be a perfect match?

You are responsible to protect your 13 & 15 year old.

Kick your GF & her daughter out.

If it ends the relationship that's the cost of raising your own teenagers with the values you want them to observe and have.

I agree, it's YOUR home man. If she is acting like that with her own girl, how are you going to explain that to YOUR girls? Will you allow her way of life change your girls?

What is your EX going to do about it when she finds out? Stop letting you see your girls? I wouldn't even take the chance.

First of all GLP is rough place to ask for advice like this...so expect some off the wall bullshit, with that said...

Sounds like the adult gf doesn't want the confrontation with the daughter over the situation. Maybe there's some component where she thinks it's going to happen anyway and choose the battle, maybe she doesn't really care, whatever. Either way it is not a good situation to be exposing your much younger daughters to, so it seems like you're trying to be a responsible dad for them. The gf is using her leverage by saying "maybe we'll move out" maybe I'm a hardass, but at that point my response would have been something like, "You won't have to think about it, you're done, pack up and GTFO" Girlfriends come and go, your daughters are your family, do the right thing by them.

Sounds like you need to make a stand. There isn't going to be any screwing around in your house with a 17 year old chick and some dude because you have your young daughters to think about. Be a man about it and that is that. The gf will either appreciate and understand, or she isn't worth having as a gf and you're better off with them heading down the road.

I wish I could give you Karma for this. You are a modern day Nipsy Russell.

Some background: I am 47 and my girlfriend is 46. We are both divorced and have been dating for almost 4 years. She and her daughter (17) moved in to my house almost a year ago. Problem: she, my girlfriend, feels it is ok for her daughters boyfriend (of 5 months) to spend night with her in her room...door closed. I have two girls 13 and 15. They are with me half of any given week. I told my girlfriend it is NO WAY acceptable for them to sleep together when my kids are here. I hate to even allow them to sleep together when my kids are not here, but I have acquiesced because she is my girlfriends daughter and don't want to violate boundaries too much.

I told my gf recently that I don't want them sleeping together at all in my house and she said well maybe we need to move out.

Finally...don't give me the "they are going to have sex no matter" story...it's not about that...its about my "non liberal" view of two young people "shacking" up at my house...playing house.

Yeah, I'm sure he wants to do that again. Lose half of the half or less that he got from his previous divorce! Lol. Anyway, has it occurred to you that maybe he and the his GF already had this conversation and said Hell no!?

Then if he has such high "non-liberal" views he should not have moved in with his gf. What is that saying to his two daughters???

Riiiiiiiight, they are working on their maths homework
all
night
long.

Then someone misses her monthly...
so, who to blame?

American jurisprudence is about finding who has the money, and then going for it. Whether it's fines or awards against you, if you are recoverable, more likely you will get sued.
The only safe place is to be a broke ass loser with nothing to take, then you are mostly left to whatever you want

Jeeez they are young and in love , leave em alone.
I was sleeping in the same bed as my girl, when she was only 15 (i was 17).

But yes its your house bud , so just tell them what your problem is and have a nice day.Stop being a big baby.

'May' not be true? And do you think this babe-in-the-woods of an OP knows which it is? Certainly you have been here long enough to have taken note of our developing police state and our crashing economy, leading many states and counties to bust people indiscriminately in the pursuit of money and property. Local law enforcement can accuse him of running a brothel and take everything he owns.

And oh yes, there are restrictions about children staying with you, which can differ from state to state or county to county. Some of my in-laws wanted to send their kids to school in a nearby town and since they lived out in the country, wanted them to stay with other relatives in that town. They couldn't do it until they went and got a 'guardianship' from the court!

Needless to say, a talk with legal counsel might save a lot of grief later. In the meantime, OP, be a man and show your slut of a GF the door.

Should add. If the daughter wants a sleep over boyfriend, what's wrong with the boyfriends house?

Hmm, she can, out of HIS fucking house.

He's not the one in the wrong here, he's accepting these strangers in his home, he's f'in 47 what he does is his business and nobody can tell him what passes and what doesn't in HIS home.

It's normal he's worried and if he doesn't do anything, soon his daughters will be following in the footsteps of the other one and oh boy that point, imagine if he said NO to them?!? That would be double standard.

Kick'em the fuck out, this is typical I'm trying to take over your house thing, starts with that ans ends, God knows where, fug-it you don't need that shit. Your daughters are more important.

Preach it, brother.

Well said SHR. I can't believe I agree w/you on something lol. But your'e 100% right on the money on this one! I wouldve told her the samething too. At the moment she spoke those words...I would've said either one of two things
1)Here, I'll make it easier for ya...Get-out! or

2)There's NOTHING to think about. Get-out!