Taking being a Mom seriously is a good thing.


It should be obvious, ---but ---Make sure your married to a man.
I can honestly say if you are not a selfish person, having kids will improve your life in ways you cannot imagine.

No one will love you and you will love know one on earth like your own child.

you must be nurturing in an honest way to your kid/kids, and not necessarily be good at it, just honestly try, or they will grow to resent you and in some fashion this will manifest itself in bad way.

If your a me, me, me type having kids will force you into a state of giving---I sugget you look at what you are selfish about and ask yourself if that is what you want in your life.---a good test is what would Jesus say.

if you can at all see the uselessness and immaturity that selfishness stems from, but can't see yourself giving it up, cause your scared or worried.---you are on the path to having kids---they will give you the power to kick your selfishness .

so start planning wisely----your life won't be your own.


its great 20-30-40 years later--- you will start seeing the fruits of your labour of love.----it is spectacular and deep.

God bless.


if you can't let go of the me,me,me selfishness---you will pay a price for it as time goes on.
the only way to mitigate this pain is to help family values when you can and not join in the push to wreck family values for the sake of justifying the me,me,me stuff going on in society.----LET IT GO!!! or you will lose self respect.