We have been married 10 years.one year after marrige my wife ask for permission to cheat outside our marriage, and after the initial shock I agreed.In return she allow me to cheat 3-4 times a month. She will go out once or twice a month, and tells me everything that happens. I find myself looking forward to hearing about her dates, and I have become more attracted to her than ever. She has become more independent and confident. Our sex life (and marriage) is better than ever.