Before the modern era, men and women were ADULTS when they reached puberty.
There was no opportunity for the "extended adolescence" we see today, where men and women in their 30's and 40's still haven't matured.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8264381 maturity is a body function , not a mental function.
Mental functions are only learned behavior.
People believe what they are taught right or wrong.
Life experiences make a person who they are.
Not you make the life experiences what they are.
Its all about the false Dream of controlling your own destiny.
Just be a natural creature and do the best you can.
People believe marriage is a social idea.
Marriage is a religious idea from the start.
Sex is a body functions, not a mental function.
Thus the body wants body, not because it was taught to want it.
You are taught only to fight the want of the natural body function.
Very simple really... stop beating yourself up for your eyes sake.