What Is The Biggest Problem YOU Have Going On In Your Life Right Now That You Need Help With?

Why is this unpinned after only a few hours?

I karma pinned it this morning. Apparantly it is of great use to those who want to vent or seek advice or help and those who offer solutions or kind words.

Not everything has to be about global doom you know.

I will pin it again in my morning. I have about 36 karma points left, so I can do that another three times in the coming days.

Hopefully other members who are willing to spare 10 karma points for this to get pinned, will help keeping it up on the front page.

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WHAT A BUNCH OF WHINERS!!!

THese are pretty much all self-inflicted problems or easily solved ones. Consider...

- NO JOB - Move to somewhere like the oils sands part of Canada where there are more jobs than applicants.
- NO QUALIFICATIONS - Try starting your own business.
- DRUGS - What were you thinking when you first took them? That you were immune to being hooked?
- CANCER COMPLAINTS - From a chain smoker? DUH!
- STRUGGLING SINGLE PARENT? - How dare you complain when you have such an incredible gift, a child, the most precious thing in the world.
- TEN KIDS - Don' you know what a condom is?
- TOO FAT - Stay off the Twinkies.
- FACING REPOSSESSION - You were too greedy and are now paying for it. But it can be avoided by letting out some rooms. Remember, if you are evicted, you'll be sleeping with psychotic bums on the street, so at this point it doesn't matter about who you let to.
- DEBT - Well DUH! SHould have kept out the stores. SO sell it all off on Ebay, pay off some of those debts and learn your lesson.
- NEED TO BORROW TO ESCAPE THE TRAILER PARK - Buy some land in the Yukon Government land sales programme. No credit checks, $4221= down and the rest at a fixed 5.5% over 5 years to pay.

THese are all simple and easy problems, nothing like mine. All of my staggering problems are caused by someone else's AGGRAVATED ADULT MSBP - In short, there is nothing that I could have done differently that would have made my nightmare life better. Being stalked for 52 years by a homicidal, unstoppable nutter with limitless financial resources is nigh impossible jsut to survive, let alone prosper against.

Lame drama.

I am head over heals for someone that I have sneaking suspicions might use energy manipulation of some sort on many around him. I can never tell if he loves me, hates me, or is completely indifferent towards me (he is a complete mind fuck and is driving me absolutely insane)

I met someone else who I have genuine interest in besides the mind fucker above (finally) but am terrified of him mainly because he is like me in many ways, down to the paranoia.

I get myself in these situations and always end up like a terrified little girl that's about to get mauled by a grizzly bear.

Don't know why I always run away from everyone who might have good intentions.

The only thing I lack is money.
Like I don't know where to find this months school fees and the cupboards are sort of empty.

And yet I have some food growing in the garden.
I can ask the school for more time.

My mother in law is dying in our home - which is an honour and a blessing that she is living out her last days by candle light and music. She is peaceful and ready.

My kids are happy and healthy. My relationship whole.
Much joy and laughter abounds.
I am so incredibly lucky that the only thing missing is money.
I have what counts in every other way.

So what is lacking in my life is what ails my brothers and sisters all around the planet.
I wish everyone had enough to eat.
That everyone that had medical needs could have them fulfilled.
That everyone is lonely could feel whole and contained.

So allow me to put in a mass blessing for humanity.

May we be safe and protected from inner and outer harm
May we be happy and content.
May we healthy and whole to whatever degree possible
May we have ease in our well being.

For all of us I wish love.

Just being real whether you agree with me or not.This is not for everyone. So bare with me. This will resonant with just a few. Others or most will reject it. This is fine with me. It will rather long.

What I am sharing is not a feel good message at all. Nice words don't do anything for me or anyone for that matter.If it makes one feel good then you will notice it is a temporary fix.

Does the word "water" quench your thirst ? Do the words" I am sorry you have cancer" take away the pain of cancer? Not at all. Nothing is wrong or right when words are spoken. But it doesn't hit the spot.Prayer is useless to me in that Life happens regardless. Those who pray continue if you want. Nothing wrong.

I used to be a serious Christian. Came to realize I was just as miserable pretending I was fine especially in church. Problems come and go whether you are a Christian or not. I haven't prayed in 5 years and am fine and steady. I don't go to God asking for anything. Why should I ? He/She knows what I ask before I ask. This implies that God is separate for me. How can this be? God is omnipresent and everywhere which means He/ She is in me and all is one. So God is not separate.

The way I see it is that there are no problems in life. All problems exist in the mind. This has come to me after many weeks of self inquiry and a lot of pondering and a breakdown of some sort. All I did was look. Seeing without the minds chatter.Like a baby. THe baby sees without all the labels,beliefs, and interpretations of the mind. Pure seeing. Does the baby need to believe anything to live ? It is being provided everything in life. Life is God and you or I did nothing to come into this life. It just happened. Life just happens.

Of course when you are in deep sleep there are no problems. Why? Because the mind is not active and is dormant. When you wake up then problems begin because the mind is active. Problems such as paying the bills, sickness, pain, Is my marriage going to work out, addictions, worries, anxiety etc. The mind is the source and it is doing it's job. It is a drama.

And then I realized that all thoughts are just thoughts and not real. Real is permanent, and eternal. All thoughts are an illusion. They same real but they come and go. They have no substance. THe mind also wants life to be different than what it is. It is never satisfied. And the mind is not in life. The mind has it's labels which consists of words such as, right and wrong.Good and bad. Better or worse. Beautiful and ugly. Likes and dislikes.

It is our attachment to our thoughts that imprison us. We believe our mind. Test what I am sharing. Just observe your thoughts how they arise and you don't think. Thinking happens to you. This is one of the biggest illusions of life is that we think. Thinking happens to us.

I know I am leaving so much out but I will come to a close. In the mind exists all these expectations and wants. Desires and ideas and concepts. Once these drop away then one if free. Freedom comes with the understanding that the mind is not life. You are not your mind. You are what is aware of the mind.

Now how does what I have shared apply to the suffering that is going on. When one lives life .Thinking life is what we all do.When one lives life- then there are no problems.

I was seriously ill a few weeks ago and in intense pain. I had the flu and kidney stones and I was out of town on work assignment. I rode it out for a week.So I am not talking and sitting here being wealthy and in great health .I am not.Life is no different for you as it is for me.

The suffering is that we think that this should not happen to us. That we expect to get well and feel guilty etc. The mind will say to you if you didn't smoke all those years you would not have gotten cancer etc. If I saved my money instead of on drugs I would be fine financially. All these thoughts arise and if believed and attachment happens- you will suffer and be depressed. Thoughts are neither true or false. They are just thoughts. Ignore them as you ignore the clouds in the sky.

Once understanding happens then you will begin to live from a place where thoughts will arise but they will be in the background. Just distant sounds. You won't pay attention to them.

The mind is a terrorist. Nothing bad about it. IT is necessary but a reflection of life but not life.

I welcome any comments or questions. For I know what I have shared may raise some questions and comments. I will try my best to respond. My intention is to be a help to those in going through life with difficulty.

The biggest problem I have is my schizophrenia/psychosis. My mind is like a broken mirror shattered into a thousand pieces. Nothing left but chaos and disorder and self-destructiveness. I wish the meds would work, I wish god would help me, I wish I could help myself and pick up all the pieces and put them back together again. The damage done seems irreversible and i will never again be 'normal'. Give me a miracle or kill me already.

Lighting a candle for the most profound healing.
There is a teacher in australia who was instrumental in freeing me from the tyrrany of my mind. He is powerful, does not play games, is not looking to be a guru and will show you the truth of who you really are.

He is available via e mail but I stress only approach him if you want to free ..... let me know if you do..