What Is The Biggest Problem YOU Have Going On In Your Life Right Now That You Need Help With?

i have to see a urologist friday about a seeming lump in my left testicle and dull pains. hope its an anomaly and i dont lose my left nut

So do I my friend. Fingers and toes crossed for luck but remain positive.

I find that very helpful, I'll work on that. :) I would say what religion I'm leaning toward.. But many people here hate them :/
Anyways, thanks !

Bump and karma pinned again.

I am running low on karma points to keep this pinned. Maybe other members with Karma points can jump in too.

As for the people who ask themselves if this thread has any use at all. It does. We are not all the same, so for one it might have less importance as for the other. Before all it is a means to vent and get things of your chest. Besides people will notice there are people out there that experience the same and those who offer to listen, to advice or even actual help in a material way.

As for me, I think this thread is also a billboard to show that this society is not all about doom and individualism, but a way to help those who struggle and to get back to a more colorful and less selfish society.

Emphasizing weakness and ignoring those who struggle is easy in this ever greying world where life seems to become more about me, me, me. It is much more rewarding to try and open your eyes for those in need and try to combine unique strenghts that we all carry within ourselves.

It makes all of us stronger.

Just got accepted into medical school. But the problem is: I can't afford it without taking out a loan with terrible terms. I can go to med school, and without a doubt I'll make enough to repay the loan. But will it be worth it to take out the loan for such a long period?

my wife of 12yrs cannot forgive me and wants to leave me

Buying currency? You cheating bastard.

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That's the feeling I got when I first saw this thread. My impression was that it was probing in a very uncaring kind of way.


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Hi Golden
This is really embarrassing, lol but I don't get how to send a PM....clicking on the name does not work.....Thanks :)

If you both love each other then you can try to make it work, if one has lost the love for the other then, how long do you keep trying?

I hope you both get what you want.

It may be cliche but the old saying goes "I'd give my left nut for..."

I have one of the worlds largest ministries and am having the hardest time offering people internships that will shortly turn into jobs. People are out of work, but don't seem to want a job? I am baffled.

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I'll bite.
My company who I've worked for 7 years is relocating to their newly built "state of the art" facility over 30 miles away from me. I can not make the trip with my less than dependable car plus the added expense of gas prices right now.
By not moving with them, I am going to not have health insurance for me and my family unless I can afford to pay COBRA about $700 a month to keep my policy. On top of that, my house is is foreclosure pending my modification application and who knows if I will be able to get unemployment. Everything I attempt gets cock blocked.
They can take their state of the art, spare no expense building and shove it up their corn hole!

I really like to find my soulmate, living alone for many years making me down each day.
English is not my mother tongue, but I teach English and I can't find my soulmate in my native world.
People think I am taken, as I look trendy and attractive, but I am looking for the good man who can share the similar goals in life and be compatible with me in many ways.
I am spiritual and funny, but it's hard to spend time alone feeling trap in wrong place and the time.
Nobody can understand this lonliness who has the family beside them, I really need someone special who I can call my own and be connected mentally and physically.
I am not into random easy hooking or fling, that is why it was hard for me to meet any decent guys, and I am fed up with meaningless coffee dates with creepy guys.
I hope I will find the one who has been search of me in this global world, who is ready for having a real connection.

i have a fairly asimmetric face, so girls just dont look at me and if they do they look with hate in his eyes, dont know why. Also i am very skinny so the thing is im 25 years old and only had a girlfind when i was 20 years old for one month.

im a 4th year psycolohist student and work in an insurance company. Every day i feel more hopeless, more dissapointed at myself.
So i want someone to hug me. I want someone to kiss.
im such a loser.
bye.

Even though I don't know you at all, or may never get to know you in the future. I'm really sorry to hear about this. I can't really imagine the emotions running through your being right now. Although it isn't the best of news the great thing is that you're still alive today. And the fact that you put down the cigarettes shows that you are making an extended effort to stick around with us a while longer! If you start to have really bad withdrawal symptoms later on I would at least suggest getting an E-Cigarette they usually don't have nicotine and are very good to help stop smoking all together. Its a way of tricking your mind into thinking its smoking although you're not getting any of the negative effects of it. As for breaking the news to your son, I haven't personally done it but if I were to be put in your position I already know it wouldn't be an easy thing. All you can say is exactly what you've told us here. You knew it was coming and its better to start fixing it now than wait till its too late. Aside from that its best you acknowledge the fact that this isn't going to be an easy road but with persistence and enough laughter you're sure to be fine. I hope for the best in a quick and speedy recovery!

well, you might try to drink some sodium bentonite to at least rid your body of the infection. It is fairly inexpensive at about 9 bucks for a pound of it. Calcium bentonite is kinda gross to drink, but the sodium is better, and you can use it all kinds of ways.
Drink it with juice.
You can also make a paste with it, and put it directly on the tooth that is infected. It will pull the infection out.
That will also help to detox your liver.
You can't get it at just any store, but you can order it online almost anywhere. I use herbalremedies.com. Very good stuff!!


ty but can i do this with a heart that is at .20.thanks for your help.

Financial help to pay for school.

Got accepted to a university but can't possibly earn enough to pay tuition and family is having enough financial hardship as is. Already work a full time job and a part time job and full time school.

Work work work! I was a banker and than I woke up. I became a school teacher instead. When the economy tanked, education was the first thing cut in California. Now, its like pulling teeth to find work. Been a year now!

My wife and I are trying our hardest to raise two kids on the Autism spectrum. We have a boy(8) and a girl(6). Things are incredibly difficult. We get by financially but its tight because I am the only one working now as my wife tries to finish up school for medical diagnostic imaging. Its not the money that worries me, but rather how my children will manage to cope in this world, not just as they grow up but also once were gone.

This is no problem that can be solved. It wont ever go away. We live minute to minute in this family, where once minute things seem ok and the next it is a complete train wreck where were just trying to keep sane and not lose it on our kids. Even the most simple tasks can spark entire disruptive outbursts which just wear us all down time and time again. We rely on some local assistance from experts in this field to help our kids progress and without them we would be completely reliant on the Internet and books for behavioral support and practices. Our kids are smart, my son is actually in a gifted program as well as special needs at school and has managed to do very well in a public school while my daughter shows great aptitude towards sports and outdoor activities but has much difficulty interacting with her peers.

My wife and I know personally how much patience is needed to just get things going in our house. The amount of concentration and devotion necessary is staggering and I know its only a matter of time before they cross paths with someone who lacks such patience and may unfortunately see my kids as easy targets for whatever maladjusted thoughts cross their minds. All the more troubling considering the completely innocent temperament these kids have.

Most people simply don't understand, even other parents. Not that I blame them, this is no problem people are ever prepared for. I know I wasn't. All I would ask is that the next time you cross paths with someone who doesn't fit your stereotypical social template, think twice before you launch into a verbal or physical assault of this person. They could easily have a behavioral disability such as Autism. 1 in 88 is the number thrown around now. That could easily be your child or your grandchild. Families dealing with these disabilities aren't asking for special treatment, unless patience is some sort of special treatment these days.

That was fantastic, thank you so much for posting it :)

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MOVE WITH THE COMPANY

DONT BE STUPID

IF YOU DONT YOU COULD END UP ON THE STREET HOMELESS FREEZING


WITH NOTHING

SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE

JOBS ARE TOO HARD TO FIND

OUT OF WORK 3 YEARS NOW


I used to go to wallmart and buy anything I wanted


Ive got a stack of dvd s

I would just buy whatever

now its alluminum cans for an income with a few side jobs

If the people of this country dont start acting like they did AFTER 911 hit

WE WILL SINK

(REMEBER HOW EVERYONE WAS PRO AMERICA?)

I need a fucking job

Got diagnosed with Parkinson's 3 years ago and I'm in my mid 30's. It is accelerating quickly. I lost my job because it required fine motor movement. I have to use 2 hands just to drink a glass of water. Money is flying out the window and may have to move back in with my parents. Extremely depressing.

I would agree with the above, if your family agree to it, it would be for the best. If it doesn't work out then you can look for something else or try looking for something else before the move, you may get lucky.

many little problems that keep me unhappy, and they are going on for years now.

but first I tell you the good things I am thankful for:

- was able to pay back a large credit finally end of 2011 which I paid for the last 5 years

- my mom was diagnosed with "oh, the lung cancer has completely vanished, don´t know why" (after her being diagnosed june 2011, nearly died of pneumonia, nearly died of bacteria they accidentally inserted in her lung, nearly died of side-effect of antibiotics)

so, now the not-so-good things:

Job:
- went unemployed (not my fault, company hired Ernst&Young and they decided, a woman in her early 30s is a risk and paid too much,dropped off some others as well) in 2009
- couldn´t find a similar/nice job afterwards (economical crisis), although I am a professional.
- finally found a shitty, very bad paid job in a newspaper stand in 2010 - who betrayed me financially as well (did not pay what we agreed on), was barely able to pay my rent and the credit, but due to working hours not able to get a second job
- they set me off Nov 2011 and told me to come back Feb 2012, as it is cheaper for them if I get unemployed money during winter (because they don´t make huge profits in winter), once again did not pay me what we agreed on, and, of course, they are sooooo bad off, they couldn´t employ me in Feb again..so, unemployment money ran off and I was really having a hard time paying rent ..
- finally found a new Job now, will start next week there, but I am not sure if I can meet their expectations as I am more than 2 years out of this kind of business, but will give my best (If I don´t, they can fire me right away..)as I have no unemployment money left.

Love/Family:
- I am single now for about 5 years, I am a pretty normal girl with a good heart (sometimes too good, that´s where the credit came from: spent too much money/lent it to former boyfriends), not ugly, not fat, 33years now.
- in Jan 2011 I met a man who I thought I want to have a relationship with.. but.. he wanted just someone who is nice to him and going through hard times with him (as his wife left him 2yrs ago, lost his job and so on), we had something like a relationship (spent nearly every day/night together), but he was never there for me (e.g. as my mum got the lung cancer diagnosis).
He found a new job with my help and everything worked out fine for him. So finally, after 11 months I left. and he´s not spending one little tear for me.
- in Jan 2012 I met a nice man who seemed interested in me, we met often, but, he didn´t want a relationship, just casual sex from time to time and after 3 months I left this one again. As far as I know now, this guy was a classic "pick up artist".
- everyone else I meet when I go out (disco, concerts...) is men who don´t want relationships, just fun.

I am getting depressed on this, as all I ever wanted was a nice family on my own (I have no siblings and my dad died 9 years ago, I am afraid of being all alone in this world very soon).

Everything else:
- people who I thought are my friends (some of them for more than 18years) aren´t there for me when I need them. I barely ask someone for help, I am one of those "oh, I can do it on my own"-girls. But when I had to build a new kitchen in my flat (after not having one for 4 years and cooking on a camping gas stove), no one wanted to help.
- money is always too short. I do own a car which I had to bring to the garage yesterday, there´s more broken than I knew and I have to fix it, I will not be able to pay the bill for it.
- I live in a very small flat ( I am ok with that), but I nearly have no furniture or working things.
I just have a small bad (second hand), some cheap IKEA shelfs, no sofa, no nothing. My kitchen has no working oven, just 2 out of the 4 cooktops are working.
- as I dropped 15lbs over the last 3 years, I have no business clothes and no money to buy them (we don´t have those salvation army shops here like you have in the US!)

But what bothers me most on these things, I´ll have to ask my mother who is paid just a very little pension for some money to pay the garage bill and buy 1 blouse and 1 pair of trousers.. I am really ashamend.

Finally, I have some hope, with the new job, everything else (financially) can be fixed step by step. But if I loose this job - I do not know what to do then.
I feel like I did everything wrong in my entire life.