All I am saying is 'lust' is an indulgence, and any indulgence when performed properly involves physical contact.

Using intent by way of stopping the internal dialogue and entering a heightened sense of awareness, then reaching out and connecting with another who is capable of doing so is no indulgence.

It is thought by some that dreaming attention is derived from sexual energy. So, what is the difference? A dreamer works his/her tricks through a bridge connecting his/her conscious mind while in his/her subconscious state.

A stalker works his/her tricks through a bridge connecting his/her subconscious mind while in his/her conscious state.

You were just proposing to Ss on Cheshire Cat's thread the idea of dreaming together.

I did not see you muse over the idea that doing so would create some sort of spiritual infidelity on Ss's part.

If Ss did such a thing with his sister, would that make it spiritual incest?

I could keep going. But I will pause to eat something.