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How will I know when its love?

 
Scubaseven2
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How will I know when its love?
I am trying to move forward with my life, but a part of me (the main part) seems to be stuck on a woman I met last year.

I was in New Orleans, and I was high on life. I was doing things that most would dream of. And I was in the sleaziest street of the US. So, not only was I living in a bit of a dream state, I was a bit of an asshole as well.

Anyway I met a girl, whom I chased, but was really only trying to shag. But I was fighting myself at the same time. The real (good person) inside me, vs the horny asshole. It didnt work out, but I was having fun just chillin.

Along the way she introduced me to her sister (Amber), who was really nice. But I was not looking for anything long term, just some "fun". So I pretty much ignored Amber, even tho she and the real me (not who I was at the time) were a pretty good match.

And now, 6 months later, I cannot stop thinking about her. Not in a sexual way, but in a close, deep, caring way. I now realize how mature, intelligent, unselfish, caring, open, honest, and confident she was. And I am halfway around the world, back in AU.

Thinking of going back there, but the chances of her working in the same place, 6 months later, are pretty slim. So I guess I need to move on. But was it love, or just something else? I need to know, so I do not make this mistake again.
Do not take memories of what happened yesterday, into what might happen today.

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04/06/2012 08:03 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
If the thought of her having sex with another guy makes you want to punch something- it's love.
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Re: How will I know when its love?
So I pretty much ignored Amber, even tho she and the real me (not who I was at the time) were a pretty good match.
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jerkitcrazycrazyjak
Why?
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Re: How will I know when its love?
It's not love. It's infatuation. I takes 2 to love. Move on.
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Re: How will I know when its love?
If the thought of her having sex with another guy makes you want to punch something- it's love.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13696063


^^this
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04/06/2012 08:07 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
if you an afford it, take a vacation. you will always wonder if you don't do that.
thinking about someone all the time is an indication of a potentially deep connection. if you are ready for it, it can be life changing.
you sound really young (re: not acting like the real you before.) if you have never been in love, now is your chance!
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04/06/2012 08:08 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
If the thought of her having sex with another guy makes you want to punch something- it's love.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13696063


^^this
 Quoting: daisy 10695873

the opposit is true too.
clappa
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04/06/2012 08:08 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
You won't have to ask,.
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04/06/2012 08:09 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
thinking about someone all the time is an indication of a potentially deep connection.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11698818


Lol. Yeah, OP, listen to this guy. Fantasy love is the best love. Until reality kicks in that is.
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04/06/2012 08:11 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
You won't have to ask,.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13871165

yup
watch and learn children.
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04/06/2012 08:13 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
So I pretty much ignored Amber, even tho she and the real me (not who I was at the time) were a pretty good match.
 Quoting: Scubaseven2


jerkitcrazycrazyjak
 Quoting: Bleeding Knuckles O'Leary


^ Perfect summary of OP ^
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Re: How will I know when its love?
You won't have to ask,.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13871165

yup
watch and learn children.
[link to www.youtube.com]

 Quoting: AdameHmaI


Love is something that you build. Not something that preexists.

Or maybe you want to tell us about Kat?
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04/06/2012 08:15 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
send her a ticket
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Re: How will I know when its love?
You won't have to ask,.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13871165

yup
watch and learn children.
[link to www.youtube.com]
 Quoting: AdameHmaI


Love is something that you build. Not something that preexists.

Or maybe you want to tell us about Kat?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13573351

the matrix choose before they meet in the real world,true and pure love is rare, Destiny is real, like Karma, but that is another subject, very interesting.
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04/06/2012 08:17 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
their relation.
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Re: How will I know when its love?
You won't have to ask,.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13871165

yup
watch and learn children.
[link to www.youtube.com]
 Quoting: AdameHmaI


Love is something that you build. Not something that preexists.

Or maybe you want to tell us about Kat?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13573351

the matrix choose before they meet in the real world,true and pure love is rare, Destiny is real, like Karma, but that is another subject, very interesting.
 Quoting: AdameHmaI


Then explains why she did not come?
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Re: How will I know when its love?
Puppy love isn't love.
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yup
watch and learn children.
[link to www.youtube.com]
 Quoting: AdameHmaI


Love is something that you build. Not something that preexists.

Or maybe you want to tell us about Kat?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13573351

the matrix choose before they meet in the real world,true and pure love is rare, Destiny is real, like Karma, but that is another subject, very interesting.
 Quoting: AdameHmaI


Then explains why she did not come?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13573351

only she knows that, both are awake, the clock will create the weather.
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Re: How will I know when its love?
I am trying to move forward with my life, but a part of me (the main part) seems to be stuck on a woman I met last year.

I was in New Orleans, and I was high on life. I was doing things that most would dream of. And I was in the sleaziest street of the US. So, not only was I living in a bit of a dream state, I was a bit of an asshole as well.

Anyway I met a girl, whom I chased, but was really only trying to shag. But I was fighting myself at the same time. The real (good person) inside me, vs the horny asshole. It didnt work out, but I was having fun just chillin.

Along the way she introduced me to her sister (Amber), who was really nice. But I was not looking for anything long term, just some "fun". So I pretty much ignored Amber, even tho she and the real me (not who I was at the time) were a pretty good match.

And now, 6 months later, I cannot stop thinking about her. Not in a sexual way, but in a close, deep, caring way. I now realize how mature, intelligent, unselfish, caring, open, honest, and confident she was. And I am halfway around the world, back in AU.

Thinking of going back there, but the chances of her working in the same place, 6 months later, are pretty slim. So I guess I need to move on. But was it love, or just something else? I need to know, so I do not make this mistake again.
 Quoting: Scubaseven2


I think the 'Horny asshole' side is coming back to haunt you with 'what ifs' and 'maybes'. . . The horny asshole wants it on tap 24/7 so disguises his intent with 'love'
whatever
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04/06/2012 08:32 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
If the thought of her having sex with another guy makes you want to punch something- it's love.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13696063


Yep, its love.

Not sure, but the thought of two dudes being intimate, I really dont get it.
Do not take memories of what happened yesterday, into what might happen today.

When love is your greatest weakness, you will be the strongest person in the world.
Scubaseven2 (OP)

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04/06/2012 08:33 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
It's not love. It's infatuation. I takes 2 to love. Move on.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13573351


She had no say, or control over what I did.

I just left without saying goodbye.
Do not take memories of what happened yesterday, into what might happen today.

When love is your greatest weakness, you will be the strongest person in the world.
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Re: How will I know when its love?
if you an afford it, take a vacation. you will always wonder if you don't do that.
thinking about someone all the time is an indication of a potentially deep connection. if you are ready for it, it can be life changing.
you sound really young (re: not acting like the real you before.) if you have never been in love, now is your chance!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11698818


I was thinking of going back in June.

Not a lot of hope that I will even see her, but at least I will be free from wonder.

I am not that young (41) but my spirit is ageless. She is 27.
Do not take memories of what happened yesterday, into what might happen today.

When love is your greatest weakness, you will be the strongest person in the world.
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04/06/2012 08:37 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
EVERY BUDDY SAY "HO"
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04/06/2012 08:38 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
Puppy love isn't love.
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If that is not love, how would you define real love?
Do not take memories of what happened yesterday, into what might happen today.

When love is your greatest weakness, you will be the strongest person in the world.
Scubaseven2 (OP)

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Re: How will I know when its love?
I think the 'Horny asshole' side is coming back to haunt you with 'what ifs' and 'maybes'. . . The horny asshole wants it on tap 24/7 so disguises his intent with 'love'
whatever
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5847854


I dont think so. What I am feeling now feels real.

I am free, finally, and who/what I am now, must be real.

I am not a horny asshole by nature.
Do not take memories of what happened yesterday, into what might happen today.

When love is your greatest weakness, you will be the strongest person in the world.
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04/06/2012 08:52 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
How romantic. Weather it's love or not, you won't know until you see her again. Chances are she's moved on, but who knows, maybe she's thinking about you.
If she hasn't moved on and you fly there just to see her and tell her your story and that you flew there just to see her again, you'll probably sweep her off her feet.
I say, if you have the money to go, do it!
Then, report back here, I want to know what happens!
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04/06/2012 08:55 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
Call her work, never know unless you try.
Hope it works out for you that would be really cool
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04/06/2012 08:59 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
Call her work, never know unless you try.
Hope it works out for you that would be really cool
 Quoting: seasidedaisy


yep theris a saying you never know till you try

theirs another saying.live everyday like your last

how do you kow shes not knocked up or dead or married or even worse in the army..

while time is moving on for her.you are frozen in time

once you know..then you will be free and you will be like her in time moving
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04/06/2012 09:30 AM
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Re: How will I know when its love?
When you are a totally broken sniveling mass crumpled on the floor, only then will you truly recognize "love".
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Re: How will I know when its love?
Puppy love isn't love.
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If that is not love, how would you define real love?
 Quoting: Scubaseven2


Real love is what remains after puppy love ends.

Also love is shared. Here you are just building scenarios in your head. I'm not saying you shouldn't see her again. Just that the more you build up your infatuation, the creepier you will look to her, and the more you are going to be disappointed.

Also, 41? Sheesh, you sound like 16. What's your experience with relationhips?

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