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Anonymous Coward User ID: 10410199 United States 04/13/2012 11:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I did. I watched through the years those that hid the truth from their loved ones.It's almost painful to watch. Ridiculous even. Quoting: KonaCoffee Im not talking little white lies. Im talking about things that if it were to come to light, you are ok because it was already a known fact because you owned it early on... While you watch others squirm year after year with their lies and hidden lives. Getting older has afforded me this luxury, getting that naughty truth out while it was in it's infancy. I was around when the 'bad thing' that others also did in my era was perpetrated and there's no acknowledgement of it. Instead? These same idiots go around condemning those of us that 'own our shit', while pretending to go around with their conscience intact, like they never EVER did so much wrong. Whatever. Enjoy your lies. My hope is that you finally accept it and make amends. It's the only way, really. Nope, I never had to decide. I was born this way. You decide if that is a good thing or a bad thing. In the words of the Grand Wazoo, f**k you if you don't like my hat. :-) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14359044 United States 04/13/2012 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes sir. One day i grew tired of dancing around peoples' childish sensetivities. Now i traumatize everyone with brutal truth. But over the years it is i who people come to when they need help or they need a trustworthy and candid friend. Screw the bullshit. A life of pure honesty makes you feel so damn free it makes me want to cry. |
KonaCoffee (OP) User ID: 11668093 United States 04/13/2012 11:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I did. I watched through the years those that hid the truth from their loved ones.It's almost painful to watch. Ridiculous even. Quoting: KonaCoffee Im not talking little white lies. Im talking about things that if it were to come to light, you are ok because it was already a known fact because you owned it early on... While you watch others squirm year after year with their lies and hidden lives. Getting older has afforded me this luxury, getting that naughty truth out while it was in it's infancy. I was around when the 'bad thing' that others also did in my era was perpetrated and there's no acknowledgement of it. Instead? These same idiots go around condemning those of us that 'own our shit', while pretending to go around with their conscience intact, like they never EVER did so much wrong. Whatever. Enjoy your lies. My hope is that you finally accept it and make amends. It's the only way, really. Nope, I never had to decide. I was born this way. You decide if that is a good thing or a bad thing. In the words of the Grand Wazoo, f**k you if you don't like my hat. :-) haha, I guess decide was a bad choice of words. I always wanted to keep it truthful and real, while those around me wanted to hide their truths. My hat is big and scary..and I like it that way. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3170602 United States 04/14/2012 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes sir. One day i grew tired of dancing around peoples' childish sensetivities. Now i traumatize everyone with brutal truth. But over the years it is i who people come to when they need help or they need a trustworthy and candid friend. Screw the bullshit. A life of pure honesty makes you feel so damn free it makes me want to cry. [\quote] I feel the same way. I have no tolerance for liars. Honesty = Freedom |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 12951669 United States 04/14/2012 12:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The truth will set you free. It is liberating that's for sure. I'm still working on 100% honesty though, I'm ashamed to say. I still lie in situations where I think I'll be judged. It's so dumb. I've tried not caring what people think and was completely honest in situations where I could've lied to save face, and hated that I felt like I didn't meet people's standards... HOLY SHIT!!! It just now dawned on me that I myself am judgemental... I feel like people are judging me and holding a magnifying glass up to my flaws because I flipping do that to other people!! Wow. I just looked in the mirror and DID NOT like what I saw... |
KonaCoffee (OP) User ID: 11668093 United States 04/14/2012 12:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The truth will set you free. It is liberating that's for sure. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12951669 I'm still working on 100% honesty though, I'm ashamed to say. I still lie in situations where I think I'll be judged. It's so dumb. I've tried not caring what people think and was completely honest in situations where I could've lied to save face, and hated that I felt like I didn't meet people's standards... HOLY SHIT!!! It just now dawned on me that I myself am judgemental... I feel like people are judging me and holding a magnifying glass up to my flaws because I flipping do that to other people!! Wow. I just looked in the mirror and DID NOT like what I saw... What you speak is honesty. It's an acquired taste for some. Admitting that you yourself and your own ego fucked up is hard. Now wait..what is HARDER is when you realize this fact and don't go around shoving this reality in everyone's face. Truth doesn't always mean less tact. It's a helluva balance. Otherwise, what's the point in your hardcore truth without some balance in your delivery? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 10383712 United States 04/14/2012 12:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I did. I watched through the years those that hid the truth from their loved ones.It's almost painful to watch. Ridiculous even. Quoting: KonaCoffee Im not talking little white lies. Im talking about things that if it were to come to light, you are ok because it was already a known fact because you owned it early on... While you watch others squirm year after year with their lies and hidden lives. Getting older has afforded me this luxury, getting that naughty truth out while it was in it's infancy. I was around when the 'bad thing' that others also did in my era was perpetrated and there's no acknowledgement of it. Instead? These same idiots go around condemning those of us that 'own our shit', while pretending to go around with their conscience intact, like they never EVER did so much wrong. Whatever. Enjoy your lies. My hope is that you finally accept it and make amends. It's the only way, really. Nope, I never had to decide. I was born this way. You decide if that is a good thing or a bad thing. In the words of the Grand Wazoo, f**k you if you don't like my hat. :-) haha, I guess decide was a bad choice of words. I always wanted to keep it truthful and real, while those around me wanted to hide their truths. My hat is big and scary..and I like it that way. Well, OP, I guess it doesn't really matter HOW you get there. It's the "there" that counts. |
KonaCoffee (OP) User ID: 11668093 United States 04/14/2012 12:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I did. I watched through the years those that hid the truth from their loved ones.It's almost painful to watch. Ridiculous even. Quoting: KonaCoffee Im not talking little white lies. Im talking about things that if it were to come to light, you are ok because it was already a known fact because you owned it early on... While you watch others squirm year after year with their lies and hidden lives. Getting older has afforded me this luxury, getting that naughty truth out while it was in it's infancy. I was around when the 'bad thing' that others also did in my era was perpetrated and there's no acknowledgement of it. Instead? These same idiots go around condemning those of us that 'own our shit', while pretending to go around with their conscience intact, like they never EVER did so much wrong. Whatever. Enjoy your lies. My hope is that you finally accept it and make amends. It's the only way, really. Nope, I never had to decide. I was born this way. You decide if that is a good thing or a bad thing. In the words of the Grand Wazoo, f**k you if you don't like my hat. :-) haha, I guess decide was a bad choice of words. I always wanted to keep it truthful and real, while those around me wanted to hide their truths. My hat is big and scary..and I like it that way. Well, OP, I guess it doesn't really matter HOW you get there. It's the "there" that counts. yup yup |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 12447381 United States 04/14/2012 12:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Now I am kind of glad I did not since he has since disappeared off the face of the earth. Last thing I would want is to leave my husband, who for the most part is a good husband. It was just the spark blew out with my husnand and I & we are having a lot of financial issues right now that put even more stress on our marriage. I just want to wake up excited for a new day. I don't want to be alone either. Ya know? I'm just too scared; I have never been on my own. I was hoping to make it work with this man I loved him & slowly get things in order so we could be together. |
KonaCoffee (OP) User ID: 11668093 United States 04/14/2012 12:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was almost honest. Came so close to spilling the beans in my marriage about someone who I loved dearly at the time. The relationship I had with this other man was online only, but boy did I love him. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12447381 Now I am kind of glad I did not since he has since disappeared off the face of the earth. Last thing I would want is to leave my husband, who for the most part is a good husband. It was just the spark blew out with my husnand and I & we are having a lot of financial issues right now that put even more stress on our marriage. I just want to wake up excited for a new day. I don't want to be alone either. Ya know? I'm just too scared; I have never been on my own. I was hoping to make it work with this man I loved him & slowly get things in order so we could be together. I so like this story. Thanks. Discernment plus honesty. You had some at that time in your life. And just to add...the grass not only ain't only greener..sometimes it's downright black! When my grass starts to fade, it's my higher self waking me up. it says. WAKE UP, cause NO ONE ELSE really CARES if you do or NOT. So get UP, and DO SOMETHING! so i do...even if it's just to make coffee..at least the coffeemaker is acknowledging that I exist. Therefore I can conquer, bitches! Last Edited by Five Forty Four A.M. on 04/14/2012 12:47 AM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1752472 04/14/2012 01:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All my life! And all I have found is that people don't want the truth. It hurts them and makes them resentful. The truth is the most blatantly obvious but unwanted thing. Lies are accepted because they support peoples cherished 'beliefs', and you do NOT fuck with peoples beliefs. The best thing to do is be honest and fuck the rest. Religious people are the biggest liars of all yet they hold the 'truth' to be the most important thing. Strange bastards. |
KonaCoffee (OP) User ID: 11668093 United States 04/14/2012 01:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All my life! And all I have found is that people don't want the truth. It hurts them and makes them resentful. The truth is the most blatantly obvious but unwanted thing. Lies are accepted because they support peoples cherished 'beliefs', and you do NOT fuck with peoples beliefs. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1752472 The best thing to do is be honest and fuck the rest. Religious people are the biggest liars of all yet they hold the 'truth' to be the most important thing. Strange bastards. yep strange indeed. |
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