Maybe you should tell him if he wants to lay down and die you are going to leave because you dont want to watch it while he sits and does nothing...

I feel for you Tiger.. I am glad I can reason with my husband.(at least most of the time) I can only imagine what you are going through. Have you really talked to him about what it is doing to you? Or your kids? Any family you can get involved to help? Ask him if it was you would he tell you not to go to the doctor so he wont have to pay the bills?

Ill pray for you best of luck.