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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1557272 United States 04/18/2012 10:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I rest my case that women make consummately poor choosers of men. Case closed. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1461298 You are right. I tried to warn this woman about a man she was dating. He is a bum. Home in foreclosure (actually foreclosure on TWO homes), proven cheater, proven liar, sleeps in late, doesn't work, owes back taxes, child support, and he is an animal abuser. Guess what? She is marrying him this weekend. In one ear and out the other. That means he is really good looking and great in bed. Nah. He has a banana in place of what should be his nose. Don't know about the bed part. She'll figure it out and I won't wanna her damn sob story later on when he rips her off. |
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Rabid_Wolf User ID: 14675211 United States 04/18/2012 10:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well played Rabid. Well played. Boring normal Wednesday night....well played. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 Thank you kindly. Of course, most people won't notice my posts anyway, so you should be able to continue to play. I do hope you have a good night. It may be boring, but if you are warm, dry, and ate today, it can't be too bad! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14677492 United States 04/18/2012 10:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When we were kids he was popular. He played sports and everything and was a real big shot. I was just flattered he picked me!! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 Now, its like we try to hold on to those glory days....the whole 2-3 years of them.... we havent done well financially but we arent poor....but its tight. I dont even care about any of it anymore....I just want away from him. the we he views the world. the way he clings to his glory days at age 18!!!!! grow up , you stupid fat fucker!!1 that is how i feel at least.... Is your name Peg Bundy? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1459834 United States 04/18/2012 10:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not trying to trade up or even looking for ver2.0! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 I just want to get away from hi negativity towards life in general. All he does is eat, complain about other people, drink beer with his brothers.....he goes hunting and disappears with his "friends" for a couple days and to be honest, i love it when he is gone! I dont care what he is doing. Just as long as he isnt bringing his 1950s style Man around me. Full of negative , hateful energy... It is like he doesnt know how else to be. He puts down women, makes fun of anybody trying to better themselves or take any kind of risks, he hates "city people", and the sex is dirty and boring and awful When we were kids he was popular. He played sports and everything and was a real big shot. I was just flattered he picked me!! Now, its like we try to hold on to those glory days....the whole 2-3 years of them.... we havent done well financially but we arent poor....but its tight. I dont even care about any of it anymore....I just want away from him. the we he views the world. the way he clings to his glory days at age 18!!!!! grow up , you stupid fat fucker!!1 that is how i feel at least.... Other than the fact this thread is complete BS and the OP's story is Total Fiction it is actually good .... Chase after and marry the Alpha Cock Thug who looks good and treats the female like shit ... and then complain about it. Very typical female behavior actually since the hard working "boring" Beta types don't excite most women at all. One theory I have about women that I have yet to find an exception to: Once they get addicted to the Alpha Cock Thug type every other man in the universe is WAY TOO BORING. No matter how much they complain they will ALWAYS return to that type of man ... time after time (even if it is behind their husband's back), without fail. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 6493463 United States 04/18/2012 11:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Drink. That's what I do. Oh, and learn how to use your mind to create an inner world. I can be with him (not necessarily sexually) and not be with him, you get what I mean? Just learn to be in your own world. Is he older than you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1324238 He is 3 years older than me. We met in our 20s...knew each other growing up. it was all good when we were younger, i really loved him, or thought i did, for the first 3-4 years, but now, i cant even stand to look at him. Everything that comes out of his mouth is just shit from his family. he has no originality!! I know i will end up divorcing him, I just have no idea how to begin to do that. He, and his family, think I adore him to pieces!! lol.....they have no idea how much I fucking HATE HIM!! You should write a novel about a woman in a marriage like yours. Wouldn't that be a hoot? I like your writing style. Then someday get that sucker published and see if he notices ... Bwahahaha! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 6493463 United States 04/18/2012 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The only people who like us are church people. Everybody else avoids us. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 I am submissive and just followed his lead in life. And he has lead me too a miserable life of looking at his fat, dorky, stupid, ugly, ass. All we do is "pretend" to have this great marriage and family...its all a show. The kids are decent kids, but i think our daughter senses all the fakeness and I am starting to find pills in her bedroom??.. we barely have sex and when we do, we really have to get triple xxx rated and nasty to just get off...the things that go on in his mind!! then he puts down everybody else.....he is a fat hypocrite and I cant stand him!! But , I am stuck. I am just as responsible for allowing our lives to become this way......everything is just "pretend", a big show, and no one even gives a shit!! What am I going to do? Wait til the kids are out of the house then LEAVE HIS ASS. |
Nine's User ID: 13741588 United States 04/18/2012 11:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Deleted. Sometimes people really do care OP. Not nice to troll people. Last Edited by Nine's - IN MEMORIAM on 04/18/2012 11:22 PM |
Rammstein Fan User ID: 14679626 United States 04/18/2012 11:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well played Rabid. Well played. Boring normal Wednesday night....well played. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 What do you get out of lying and fabricating like this? Attention starved..? Youtube channel: [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14118518 United States 04/18/2012 11:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Start abusing prescription drugs to dull the pain inside? I don't know what to say. I suppose if this were the '70s, you'd get divorced. But I don't know what it's like these days. In the end - it's your pointless life, not ours. Figure it out for yourself. |
Duckduckgoosechamp User ID: 14667293 United States 04/18/2012 11:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a middle aged man, and I have to say it is hard to be friends with any man that is curious about the world because, they all seem to know everything. I only get along with men that read, have a show they watch or listen to like coast to coast, and say "I don't know" once and awhile. Last Edited by Duckduckgoosechamp on 04/18/2012 11:45 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 596042 Canada 04/19/2012 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The only people who like us are church people. Everybody else avoids us. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 I am submissive and just followed his lead in life. And he has lead me too a miserable life of looking at his fat, dorky, stupid, ugly, ass. All we do is "pretend" to have this great marriage and family...its all a show. The kids are decent kids, but i think our daughter senses all the fakeness and I am starting to find pills in her bedroom??.. we barely have sex and when we do, we really have to get triple xxx rated and nasty to just get off...the things that go on in his mind!! then he puts down everybody else.....he is a fat hypocrite and I cant stand him!! But , I am stuck. I am just as responsible for allowing our lives to become this way......everything is just "pretend", a big show, and no one even gives a shit!! What am I going to do? Congratulations You Won!!!! Smile for my day. Nice one. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1530791 United States 04/19/2012 12:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not trying to trade up or even looking for ver2.0! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 I just want to get away from hi negativity towards life in general. All he does is eat, complain about other people, drink beer with his brothers.....he goes hunting and disappears with his "friends" for a couple days and to be honest, i love it when he is gone! I dont care what he is doing. Just as long as he isnt bringing his 1950s style Man around me. Full of negative , hateful energy... It is like he doesnt know how else to be. He puts down women, makes fun of anybody trying to better themselves or take any kind of risks, he hates "city people", and the sex is dirty and boring and awful When we were kids he was popular. He played sports and everything and was a real big shot. I was just flattered he picked me!! Now, its like we try to hold on to those glory days....the whole 2-3 years of them.... we havent done well financially but we arent poor....but its tight. I dont even care about any of it anymore....I just want away from him. the we he views the world. the way he clings to his glory days at age 18!!!!! grow up , you stupid fat fucker!!1 that is how i feel at least.... lol you are one of those chicks that married the school idiots............. Shoulda paid more attention to those "Geeks" that would have worshiped the ground you worked on while they made 200 grand a year I guess! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 6493463 United States 04/19/2012 12:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not trying to trade up or even looking for ver2.0! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 I just want to get away from hi negativity towards life in general. All he does is eat, complain about other people, drink beer with his brothers.....he goes hunting and disappears with his "friends" for a couple days and to be honest, i love it when he is gone! I dont care what he is doing. Just as long as he isnt bringing his 1950s style Man around me. Full of negative , hateful energy... It is like he doesnt know how else to be. He puts down women, makes fun of anybody trying to better themselves or take any kind of risks, he hates "city people", and the sex is dirty and boring and awful When we were kids he was popular. He played sports and everything and was a real big shot. I was just flattered he picked me!! Now, its like we try to hold on to those glory days....the whole 2-3 years of them.... we havent done well financially but we arent poor....but its tight. I dont even care about any of it anymore....I just want away from him. the we he views the world. the way he clings to his glory days at age 18!!!!! grow up , you stupid fat fucker!!1 that is how i feel at least.... Ha ha, I have to laugh every time I read your stuff. I tell ya, got get this down in writing. Write a book! It will make you feel better and take your mind off him. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 6493463 United States 04/19/2012 12:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not trying to trade up or even looking for ver2.0! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 I just want to get away from hi negativity towards life in general. All he does is eat, complain about other people, drink beer with his brothers.....he goes hunting and disappears with his "friends" for a couple days and to be honest, i love it when he is gone! I dont care what he is doing. Just as long as he isnt bringing his 1950s style Man around me. Full of negative , hateful energy... It is like he doesnt know how else to be. He puts down women, makes fun of anybody trying to better themselves or take any kind of risks, he hates "city people", and the sex is dirty and boring and awful When we were kids he was popular. He played sports and everything and was a real big shot. I was just flattered he picked me!! Now, its like we try to hold on to those glory days....the whole 2-3 years of them.... we havent done well financially but we arent poor....but its tight. I dont even care about any of it anymore....I just want away from him. the we he views the world. the way he clings to his glory days at age 18!!!!! grow up , you stupid fat fucker!!1 that is how i feel at least.... Ha ha, I have to laugh every time I read your stuff. I tell ya, got get this down in writing. Write a book! It will make you feel better and take your mind off him. Oh, and BTW you need to come up with a way to make HIM leave YOU. Have a 3-year plan for him to be out of there! a) Start making up excuses not to have sex. Headache, menopause, whatever he will buy. Decrease the sex rate gradually. ' b) Take some hobby or activity that he hates. Don't flaunt it or but his face in it, be nice and even apologetic about it, but KEEP DOING IT. c) Start making mistakes when you cook food for him. Don't poison him, just make it as boring as possible. d) Allow him, or encourage him, to take up activities where he will meet other women. Maybe he'll get it on with one. e) Let yourself go. Get fat! Stop wearing makeup. Stop styling your hair. Look and dress like crap. Good luck! |
truthwillsetyoufreeagain User ID: 927177 United States 04/19/2012 12:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Drink. That's what I do. Oh, and learn how to use your mind to create an inner world. I can be with him (not necessarily sexually) and not be with him, you get what I mean? Just learn to be in your own world. Is he older than you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1324238 He is 3 years older than me. We met in our 20s...knew each other growing up. it was all good when we were younger, i really loved him, or thought i did, for the first 3-4 years, but now, i cant even stand to look at him. Everything that comes out of his mouth is just shit from his family. he has no originality!! I know i will end up divorcing him, I just have no idea how to begin to do that. He, and his family, think I adore him to pieces!! lol.....they have no idea how much I fucking HATE HIM!! Do you have an income of your own? I have a friend who is leaving her husband after 23 years (moving out May 1). She doesn't even dislike him, he's a good guy, is good-looking and in good shape. But there just is nothing there for her any longer. It's empty. She couldn't see spending the rest of her life with him. He's heartbroken, but so far they have remained civil and friends. Is there anyway you can leave him or start the process? Last Edited by truthwillsetyoufreeagain on 04/19/2012 12:20 AM ______________ As long as I am an American citizen and American blood runs in these veins I shall hold myself at liberty to speak, to write, and to publish whatever I please on any subject.” - Elijah Parish Lovejoy(1802-1837) All tyranny needs to gain a foothold is for people of good conscience to remain silent...Thomas Jefferson The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government...Thomas Jefferson When the people fear their government, there is tyranny; when the government fears the people, there is liberty...Thomas Jefferson Truth will ultimately prevail where there is pains to bring it to light...George Washington |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 6493463 United States 04/19/2012 12:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The only people who like us are church people. Everybody else avoids us. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 I am submissive and just followed his lead in life. And he has lead me too a miserable life of looking at his fat, dorky, stupid, ugly, ass. All we do is "pretend" to have this great marriage and family...its all a show. The kids are decent kids, but i think our daughter senses all the fakeness and I am starting to find pills in her bedroom??.. we barely have sex and when we do, we really have to get triple xxx rated and nasty to just get off...the things that go on in his mind!! then he puts down everybody else.....he is a fat hypocrite and I cant stand him!! But , I am stuck. I am just as responsible for allowing our lives to become this way......everything is just "pretend", a big show, and no one even gives a shit!! What am I going to do? I (as I am sure mot of us) have been in a relationship before.... "I am submissive and just followed his lead in life." You played your hand in life. So shut the fuck up. Not every bitch is capable of landing John Paul Motherfucking Jones. You were looking for a captain, were you not? I gots news for you, but there are a lot of families out there living in sewer pipes under las vegas. Be glad that you haven't got a man that doesn't give a fuck about your family. Guaranteed $1000 that OP is a white bitch. Let me tell you the truth bitchy.... Men get puss when they want it. Guarantee yo man either A.) has puss besides you or B.)Is just waiting patiently to die. Can you not get it? Women, regardless of PC bullshit, are not as capable as men biologically, mentally, et. al... A woman who is a realist has one lot in life. Find the most secure dick that will have her and hold onto it tightly. We're a spinning ball of perfectly balanced, yet easily destroyed life out here in the emptiness of space. Men rule this earth because we not only are bigger and stronger, but we have the ability to reason, and can calculate spatially. Try that on. Try navigating financially through 21st Century America with a family to take care of and then get back to me. Betcha OP is a closet dyke. Betcha OP is white. Betcha OP lives in suburb Betcha OP is a TV/Internet Whore. AC 8230787, you are a repulsive bit of slimey sperm in the tip of someone's used condom. Go away! |
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Drizzt User ID: 1500149 United States 04/19/2012 12:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Drink. That's what I do. Oh, and learn how to use your mind to create an inner world. I can be with him (not necessarily sexually) and not be with him, you get what I mean? Just learn to be in your own world. Is he older than you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1324238 He is 3 years older than me. We met in our 20s...knew each other growing up. it was all good when we were younger, i really loved him, or thought i did, for the first 3-4 years, but now, i cant even stand to look at him. Everything that comes out of his mouth is just shit from his family. he has no originality!! I know i will end up divorcing him, I just have no idea how to begin to do that. He, and his family, think I adore him to pieces!! lol.....they have no idea how much I fucking HATE HIM!! Do you have an income of your own? I have a friend who is leaving her husband after 23 years (moving out May 1). She doesn't even dislike him, he's a good guy, is good-looking and in good shape. But there just is nothing there for her any longer. It's empty. She couldn't see spending the rest of her life with him. He's heartbroken, but so far they have remained civil and friends. Is there anyway you can leave him or start the process? He is heartbroken because he takes the time everyday to remember what it was that caused him to fall in love with her in the first place! Unlike that bitch he married! I wait, I watch and I hope, but my hands are near to my blades. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 880690 United States 04/19/2012 01:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The only people who like us are church people. Everybody else avoids us. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10223986 I am submissive and just followed his lead in life. And he has lead me too a miserable life of looking at his fat, dorky, stupid, ugly, ass. All we do is "pretend" to have this great marriage and family...its all a show. The kids are decent kids, but i think our daughter senses all the fakeness and I am starting to find pills in her bedroom??.. we barely have sex and when we do, we really have to get triple xxx rated and nasty to just get off...the things that go on in his mind!! then he puts down everybody else.....he is a fat hypocrite and I cant stand him!! But , I am stuck. I am just as responsible for allowing our lives to become this way......everything is just "pretend", a big show, and no one even gives a shit!! What am I going to do? You cunt must stink like the shit house on a tuna boat... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1437659 United States 04/19/2012 01:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Drink. That's what I do. Oh, and learn how to use your mind to create an inner world. I can be with him (not necessarily sexually) and not be with him, you get what I mean? Just learn to be in your own world. Is he older than you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1324238 He is 3 years older than me. We met in our 20s...knew each other growing up. it was all good when we were younger, i really loved him, or thought i did, for the first 3-4 years, but now, i cant even stand to look at him. Everything that comes out of his mouth is just shit from his family. he has no originality!! I know i will end up divorcing him, I just have no idea how to begin to do that. He, and his family, think I adore him to pieces!! lol.....they have no idea how much I fucking HATE HIM!! Maybe you should stop being so fake,then? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1504150 New Zealand 04/19/2012 01:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wrote a long post a while ago about this and then didn't post it, so from memory... The feminine is power, is force. The masculine is form, shape. Now I am not talking about individuals, but essences. In the story of Innana's Descent to the Underworld, she takes off all the forms of her powers until she is left a skin on a hook. She descended into the underworld to visit her dark sister Eriskigal because Eriskigal's husband had recently died. Innana's hand-maiden then went for help and finally her father sent two asexual beings to Eriskigal. Eriskigal was in constant birth pains, but could not give birth because their was no one to give it form. The two asexual beings immitated her cries and, relieved somewhat Eriskigal by the form they had given it, gave them Inanna'a skin. They then sprinkled the water of life and food which her father had given to them on her remains and she came to life, was given back form. She ascended again but someone had to replace her in the chaotic underworld of her sister. She finally came upon her husband Dummuzi who was sitting still under a tree. It was she who had empowered him to kingship and she sent him into the chaos because he had not searched for her, or cried out for her. It is easy for the masculine, for civilisations to become just form and not energetic. If that power for change goes unheed or misunderstood then it can engulf and even destroy what it once established. That power of transformation, of shaking the foundations, can frighten men and even cause them to fall back on outdated forms exacibating the problem. Sometimes the women has become so energetic she doesn't see how he is trying to give her energy form, so everything he tries to say or do appears stupid and to completely miss the point, because from an energetic point he cannot compete with her except physically. The feminine may feel trapped by his forms, and the masculine overwhelmed by the her energy, and need for change. Anyway, I am speaking archetypically, and hope I have not offended anybody. |
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