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How to deal with an asshole father in law that you have to live with.

 
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How to deal with an asshole father in law that you have to live with.
Hi everyone i am new to the site and have a problem, my father in law. He is controlling, over bearing, and puts me down emotionally ever chance he gets. It all started when i was pregnant with my son. FIL started to make comments about my weight here and there, but at first i just brushed it off because i didnt want to get myself upset during my pregnancy. also at that time i was living with my parents because my dad had cancer, so since we werent living with him it was a bit more bearable and i didnt pay much attention to what he said about me because i had other things to deal with. Well my dad passed, mom got sick and had to be put in a nursing home, i was only working part time with my husband, so we couldnt afford to keep my parents house and had to move in with my inlaws, At first things were cool, my FIL was giving us time adjust to a difficult situation, and was even understanding to the fact that i lost my dad, or so i thought. I now know it was all an act. Now i had my son who was 5 mths old at the time and my daughter who was 4, from a previous realtionship. Everything started between 07 and 08. My kids are now 5 and 10, so i been dealing with this for 5 years. It all started back up again when he starting telling me how i should deal with the kids and even started to demand money from me and my husband so he can go and score, (hes an recovering drug attic on top of this) When i refused, he (FIL) started saying things like he is gonna call dcfs and tell them i was abusing my kids, and that i was a fat cow, and a bitch and a whore. Nice right? Again this situation happened in 08. So it prompted me and my husband to move in with other relatives on a temp basis, until my FIL got his own problems worked out. Fast forward five years we are now all renting a 6 bedroom house together and I thought things would be a little better, and they were for a while, well FIL is getting on my case again. Even made the comment that i should have gastric by pass done to control my weight. FIL is also near 300 LBS him self. Well ive been trying to eat healthier and be more active, even if its just walking the dog. fil is a diabetic and still eats junk food that he shouldnt be eating. And yes hes trying to overrun my parenting and even trys to still control the house hold, even though we all equally pay rent. I have busted my ass getting though school for the past 2 years. I am a registered medical assistant and certified health insurance benefits rep. i work 40 hrs a week and make about $2000.00 on a good month. It still isnt good enough for my father in law, just yesterday he called me an idiot because i got a bag of laundry mixed up with antoher. HELPP PLZZ!!! But no rude comments. REAL ADVICE PLEASE.

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MOVE OUT!
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What???
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MOVE OUT!
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Its not that easy, we have a rent to own program with the house and me and my husband are on it. If you understand what i mean.
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Fuck the house, Fuck the credit. If your that unhappy nothing is worth that.

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Blowjob. THen move to sex. Then say he raped you. = win, problem solved
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git him a woman! a real desperate broad that will take any guy that she can find. make sure she has her own place.
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Blowjob. THen move to sex. Then say he raped you. = win, problem solved
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eww, his a 300 lbs slob
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git him a woman! a real desperate broad that will take any guy that she can find. make sure she has her own place.
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his married to my mother in law.
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If you are rent to own just kick him out.. Unless he is somehow tied into the contract.. If so just get a lawyer explain the situation and proceed from there .

If he has no ties to the rent to own aggreement id say you have the upper hand. The next step is standing up for yourself but that is something your husband should have done 5 years ago...
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Blowjob. THen move to sex. Then say he raped you. = win, problem solved
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eww, his a 300 lbs slob
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SO? You're tired of him arent you? Do it!
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More stupid shit.

Just take control of your own life, no excuses.
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Sounds like he really doesn't want ya'll living with him... He probably liked having his place to himself. The only thing you can do, is move out, and it will be better for you all. Think about your child, do you really want your child to grow up hearing how this man talks to you. Eventually the child will think it is ok to talk to mom that way.
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git him a woman! a real desperate broad that will take any guy that she can find. make sure she has her own place.
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his married to my mother in law.
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even better! she'll throw his ass out for you
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MOVE OUT!
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this will fix the problem.
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MOVE OUT!
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Its not that easy, we have a rent to own program with the house and me and my husband are on it. If you understand what i mean.
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I think your sanity would be more important. Move unless you like this drama. And people just don't change that much especially when they are older.
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Sounds like he really doesn't want ya'll living with him... He probably liked having his place to himself. The only thing you can do, is move out, and it will be better for you all. Think about your child, do you really want your child to grow up hearing how this man talks to you. Eventually the child will think it is ok to talk to mom that way.
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BTW, he could still call CPS on you and have the kids removed. Are you going to wait until he does this?
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Stage a "suicide".
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Stage a "suicide".
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On him of course.
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POP! POP! POP! goes the nine..343
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Sounds like he really doesn't want ya'll living with him... He probably liked having his place to himself. The only thing you can do, is move out, and it will be better for you all. Think about your child, do you really want your child to grow up hearing how this man talks to you. Eventually the child will think it is ok to talk to mom that way.
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 Quoting: angfromchitown


He wants us to stay living with them and i have two children. We were gonna get our own place but we agreed on the house deal and yes he is part of it.
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BTW, he could still call CPS on you and have the kids removed. Are you going to wait until he does this?
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Under what grounds? i dont abuse my kids what so ever.
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Sounds like he really doesn't want ya'll living with him... He probably liked having his place to himself. The only thing you can do, is move out, and it will be better for you all. Think about your child, do you really want your child to grow up hearing how this man talks to you. Eventually the child will think it is ok to talk to mom that way.
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 Quoting: angfromchitown


He wants us to stay living with them and i have two children. We were gonna get our own place but we agreed on the house deal and yes he is part of it.
 Quoting: angfromchitown


You know it is not about what he wants. It is what is best for your children. If he doesn't shut up and mind his own business then back out of the deal.
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Just swap mother for father.

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If you are rent to own just kick him out.. Unless he is somehow tied into the contract.. If so just get a lawyer explain the situation and proceed from there .

If he has no ties to the rent to own aggreement id say you have the upper hand. The next step is standing up for yourself but that is something your husband should have done 5 years ago...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1011949


He has and he does still defend me, my husband was fighting with my FIL last night to defend me.
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BTW, he could still call CPS on you and have the kids removed. Are you going to wait until he does this?
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Under what grounds? i dont abuse my kids what so ever.
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you realize it only takes a phone call for an investigation to start.
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BTW, he could still call CPS on you and have the kids removed. Are you going to wait unt il he does this?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1550123


Under what grounds? i dont abuse my kids what so ever.
 Quoting: angfromchitown


Hateful in-laws and even nosy neighbors have called in CPS. It doesn't matter if you haven't done anything. CPS has to investigate and you never know where that is going to end up. You really have no idea the power CPS has? You need to do some research.

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