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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 03:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | im 26 and i've never dated, or been in a relationship, been kissed, etc. i've always been overweight, and still am. i just tell myself all the time that if its meant to be, the right guy will come along. and in the meantime, i just have to find ways to be happy without that type of relationship :) two of my main things i say to myself are "good things come to those who wait" and "this too shall pass". Quoting: Canadian_lady25 :) |
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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 03:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm 20 and I have always been single ... I've never had a boyfriend ... I've never been kissed.... or hugged... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I spent all my life in Tennessee on my parents farm ... We didn't have too many neighbors and the neighbors we had were not close to us. So I didn't really have a social life and I was very shy... I used to be very fat till 8th grade... then I lost a lot of weight for High School... High School was great. I was quite popular... my closest friends where the class president, cheerleaders and some girls from the volleyball team.... The boys already had girlfriend and I didn't like the other boys... I did fell in love with one of my friends' boyfriend but I didn't tell anyone... I decided to concentrate on getting good grades and being the best... and I did.. but I still wanted to "be loved" .. After High School I moved to D.C. for a year and then I moved to CA ... I was trying to find myself ... I am now in PR obviously but that's another story.. I think I will go back to Tennessee in a couple of months... I don't know if I am going through some kind of boyfriend-less crisis or something but I've been feeling the need of having someone to share my life with ... even though I am more confident about myself I still feel kind of shy around men in general ... This probably doesn't sound complete.... I'm sleepy so I cannot think straight... Anyway... Anyone else? Tell me something ... This is my way of relieving my sadness ... No, I am not the woman from the avatar photo I am sure there is a good match for everybody. Hell, you are still so young. Don't get dismayed. :) |
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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 03:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm 20 and I have always been single ... I've never had a boyfriend ... I've never been kissed.... or hugged... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I spent all my life in Tennessee on my parents farm ... We didn't have too many neighbors and the neighbors we had were not close to us. So I didn't really have a social life and I was very shy... I used to be very fat till 8th grade... then I lost a lot of weight for High School... High School was great. I was quite popular... my closest friends where the class president, cheerleaders and some girls from the volleyball team.... The boys already had girlfriend and I didn't like the other boys... I did fell in love with one of my friends' boyfriend but I didn't tell anyone... I decided to concentrate on getting good grades and being the best... and I did.. but I still wanted to "be loved" .. After High School I moved to D.C. for a year and then I moved to CA ... I was trying to find myself ... I am now in PR obviously but that's another story.. I think I will go back to Tennessee in a couple of months... I don't know if I am going through some kind of boyfriend-less crisis or something but I've been feeling the need of having someone to share my life with ... even though I am more confident about myself I still feel kind of shy around men in general ... This probably doesn't sound complete.... I'm sleepy so I cannot think straight... Anyway... Anyone else? Tell me something ... This is my way of relieving my sadness ... No, I am not the woman from the avatar photo I am sure there is a good match for everybody. Hell, you are still so young. Don't get dismayed. I would agree. I think there is someone for all of us out there. Just a matter of finding them. I feel you on being alone though, I am 24, going on 25 and effectively single though have some prospects right now. It can be hard and lonely for sure. (hugs) You'll be ok OP, just try not to think about it too much. Can't force love, it will happen when the time is right. hugs :) |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 03:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm 20 and I have always been single ... I've never had a boyfriend ... I've never been kissed.... or hugged... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I spent all my life in Tennessee on my parents farm ... We didn't have too many neighbors and the neighbors we had were not close to us. So I didn't really have a social life and I was very shy... I used to be very fat till 8th grade... then I lost a lot of weight for High School... High School was great. I was quite popular... my closest friends where the class president, cheerleaders and some girls from the volleyball team.... The boys already had girlfriend and I didn't like the other boys... I did fell in love with one of my friends' boyfriend but I didn't tell anyone... I decided to concentrate on getting good grades and being the best... and I did.. but I still wanted to "be loved" .. After High School I moved to D.C. for a year and then I moved to CA ... I was trying to find myself ... I am now in PR obviously but that's another story.. I think I will go back to Tennessee in a couple of months... I don't know if I am going through some kind of boyfriend-less crisis or something but I've been feeling the need of having someone to share my life with ... even though I am more confident about myself I still feel kind of shy around men in general ... This probably doesn't sound complete.... I'm sleepy so I cannot think straight... Anyway... Anyone else? Tell me something ... This is my way of relieving my sadness ... No, I am not the woman from the avatar photo Although you are still young, I can tell you sometimes when we reincarnate on this planet we give ourselves certain vows that may carry over from previous existences. So, if you really feel like you have something like this - you can go to a healer or a past life regressionist to remove this vow. This may help you in the future. Cheers! Where can I find one? |
ATOM User ID: 10863890 United States 04/23/2012 03:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | To be loved you have to love. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4235373 I know how you feel, I've never really been in a concrete relationship and I'm 23 years old in California. Your time will come, and someone will sweep you off your feet. It will happen when you least expect it. Don't you mean that to be loved you first have to love yourself? |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 03:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Its just hormones..the biological trick mother nature is playing on you to get you to reproduce. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14892065 Take my advice..DONT FALL for it. You will be far happier single..lonley yes..but having been tricked into reproducing through "Love" I can say with authortiy and experince of time...its a TRAP! Its far better to be lonley..and yet free of stress and worry and heartbreak..than to find someone..have a few moments of sweet love..some nookie..a couple of kids..and find yourself fat..covered in stretchmarks..and despised by your partner a few years down the track. I've seen it |
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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 03:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm 20 and I have always been single ... I've never had a boyfriend ... I've never been kissed.... or hugged... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I spent all my life in Tennessee on my parents farm ... We didn't have too many neighbors and the neighbors we had were not close to us. So I didn't really have a social life and I was very shy... I used to be very fat till 8th grade... then I lost a lot of weight for High School... High School was great. I was quite popular... my closest friends where the class president, cheerleaders and some girls from the volleyball team.... The boys already had girlfriend and I didn't like the other boys... I did fell in love with one of my friends' boyfriend but I didn't tell anyone... I decided to concentrate on getting good grades and being the best... and I did.. but I still wanted to "be loved" .. After High School I moved to D.C. for a year and then I moved to CA ... I was trying to find myself ... I am now in PR obviously but that's another story.. I think I will go back to Tennessee in a couple of months... I don't know if I am going through some kind of boyfriend-less crisis or something but I've been feeling the need of having someone to share my life with ... even though I am more confident about myself I still feel kind of shy around men in general ... This probably doesn't sound complete.... I'm sleepy so I cannot think straight... Anyway... Anyone else? Tell me something ... This is my way of relieving my sadness ... No, I am not the woman from the avatar photo More common than you think, ive known several women that, atleast claim, they have never had a boyfriend before. I say claim cause for men, finding a women thats never been with a man makes you think she's making it up to make you feel special. We do feel special and find it cute, i think women are more turned on by men thats self confident and knows what their doing, for men its kind of the opposite. For your age its perfectly normal, your young, would be different if your 30. Your probably shy and move away, boys are shy, what could be ends in nothing. Anyway, nothing to worry or be depressed about. If you like a guy, try to send him "the look". Its a look we men get if your interested, then its up to him. Its basically just a fixed stare straight in the eyes saying "i want you", or something like that, not sure how to explain but he'll know... Girls more often than not pick men with "the look" rather than men aproaching at random, cause men doing that from uninterested females will get turned down, unless their drunk or so full of themselves they dont care if they get a no. Also, be a bit careful so you dont hurt your feelings and expect sex to end up in a boyfriend. :) |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 03:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You need to expand your social life. Quoting: TheCreepygeek Go to places where there is lots of boys. You'll find one you like. Men don't drop out of the sky into your lap ya'kno. You need to hit the dating scene. Get a few girlie mates together and hit a few pubs/bars. Don't go alone. Yeah, i do... I will |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 8417061 United States 04/23/2012 03:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm 20 and I have always been single ... I've never had a boyfriend ... I've never been kissed.... or hugged... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I spent all my life in Tennessee on my parents farm ... We didn't have too many neighbors and the neighbors we had were not close to us. So I didn't really have a social life and I was very shy... I used to be very fat till 8th grade... then I lost a lot of weight for High School... High School was great. I was quite popular... my closest friends where the class president, cheerleaders and some girls from the volleyball team.... The boys already had girlfriend and I didn't like the other boys... I did fell in love with one of my friends' boyfriend but I didn't tell anyone... I decided to concentrate on getting good grades and being the best... and I did.. but I still wanted to "be loved" .. After High School I moved to D.C. for a year and then I moved to CA ... I was trying to find myself ... I am now in PR obviously but that's another story.. I think I will go back to Tennessee in a couple of months... I don't know if I am going through some kind of boyfriend-less crisis or something but I've been feeling the need of having someone to share my life with ... even though I am more confident about myself I still feel kind of shy around men in general ... This probably doesn't sound complete.... I'm sleepy so I cannot think straight... Anyway... Anyone else? Tell me something ... This is my way of relieving my sadness ... No, I am not the woman from the avatar photo Maybe it's your Druid wardrobe? Just kidding.... Your situation is quite common. What's going on in Puerto Rico anyway? My aunt just moved back there from the states... She has this recipe for an orange rice that is simply to die for. I wonder if Puerto Rico is a better place to be right now than in the U.S. these days.... |
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-GooGooFlexy- User ID: 1238529 United States 04/23/2012 04:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Aren't you the one that said "Everyone should be more like me: Beautiful inside and outside, smart, intelligent, and talented. The world would be a better place." Thread: Why are most people so ugly? I think you've been single because you're a horrible person. Fix that and you'll be fine. Last Edited by -GooGooFlexy- on 04/23/2012 04:02 PM -GooGooFlexy- |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1526634 United States 04/23/2012 04:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ...what does this have to do with UFOs or Conspiracy Theory? What is so hard about going to a Christian site to talk about Christ, going to a relationship advice site for relationship advice and going to a UFO/Conspiracy site to talk about UFOs and Conspiracies?? Very few people are into Conspiracy stuff. There are only a few good places for it online. I understand, "If you don't like it, just don't click on the thread.", but I just don't understand the mindset of people who would go to a sports site to make threads about cooking and recipes, or go to a Christian site to ask about Buddhism or go to a site for teens to ask about male pattern baldness treatments or a cure for liver spots. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1546501 United States 04/23/2012 04:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | op i am 29 and have been single for all but 3 months of my life Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1546501 2 months at at 23 1 month at age 28 You poor thing :( That's such a sad story. This is a cruel cruel world. :( Thanks for feeling my pain. It's been a tough experience. I think I have a date though this weekend. I am really looking for my musical soulmate though -- hopefully I find her. Maybe say a prayer |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 04:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm 20 and I have always been single ... I've never had a boyfriend ... I've never been kissed.... or hugged... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I spent all my life in Tennessee on my parents farm ... We didn't have too many neighbors and the neighbors we had were not close to us. So I didn't really have a social life and I was very shy... I used to be very fat till 8th grade... then I lost a lot of weight for High School... High School was great. I was quite popular... my closest friends where the class president, cheerleaders and some girls from the volleyball team.... The boys already had girlfriend and I didn't like the other boys... I did fell in love with one of my friends' boyfriend but I didn't tell anyone... I decided to concentrate on getting good grades and being the best... and I did.. but I still wanted to "be loved" .. After High School I moved to D.C. for a year and then I moved to CA ... I was trying to find myself ... I am now in PR obviously but that's another story.. I think I will go back to Tennessee in a couple of months... I don't know if I am going through some kind of boyfriend-less crisis or something but I've been feeling the need of having someone to share my life with ... even though I am more confident about myself I still feel kind of shy around men in general ... This probably doesn't sound complete.... I'm sleepy so I cannot think straight... Anyway... Anyone else? Tell me something ... This is my way of relieving my sadness ... No, I am not the woman from the avatar photo Maybe it's your Druid wardrobe? Just kidding.... Your situation is quite common. What's going on in Puerto Rico anyway? My aunt just moved back there from the states... She has this recipe for an orange rice that is simply to die for. I wonder if Puerto Rico is a better place to be right now than in the U.S. these days.... Puerto Rico yeah ... It is probably one of the best places right now ... I mean if something really bad happens economically or something, places like Puerto Rico and probably the southern states have the perfect conditions for year round vegetable gardening ... I mean we harvested bananas, pumpkins, fruits, greens and tomatoes here over the winter... beautiful big tomatoes. I've never seen tomatoes this red.... the winter here is very nice (50º-60º-70º) .. Enough people speak english... but still it is important to not live near cities.... in my opinion the beauty of Puerto Rico is in the mountain area.. and you can go from coast to coast in like 3- 3 1/2 hours. PR is nice and all but i want to go back to the states... not to Tennessee though. |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 04:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | op i am 29 and have been single for all but 3 months of my life Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1546501 2 months at at 23 1 month at age 28 You poor thing :( That's such a sad story. This is a cruel cruel world. :( Thanks for feeling my pain. It's been a tough experience. I think I have a date though this weekend. I am really looking for my musical soulmate though -- hopefully I find her. Maybe say a prayer I will pray for you lol |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 04:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Aren't you the one that said "Everyone should be more like me: Beautiful inside and outside, smart, intelligent, and talented. The world would be a better place." Quoting: -GooGooFlexy- Thread: Why are most people so ugly? I think you've been single because you're a horrible person. Fix that and you'll be fine. LOL hahahahahaha |
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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 04:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, to be fair to all of the Christian cult slaves clogging up the site with Christian doctrine and praise threads... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1526634 ...what does this have to do with UFOs or Conspiracy Theory? What is so hard about going to a Christian site to talk about Christ, going to a relationship advice site for relationship advice and going to a UFO/Conspiracy site to talk about UFOs and Conspiracies?? Very few people are into Conspiracy stuff. There are only a few good places for it online. I understand, "If you don't like it, just don't click on the thread.", but I just don't understand the mindset of people who would go to a sports site to make threads about cooking and recipes, or go to a Christian site to ask about Buddhism or go to a site for teens to ask about male pattern baldness treatments or a cure for liver spots. Because GLP is like a family ... I'm sure everyone here is interested in conspiracies and ufos and the government .... but we also like to share a part of us I guess ... to make this a more delightful place .... In my opinion it is important to post this kind of threads |
-GooGooFlexy- User ID: 1238529 United States 04/23/2012 04:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Aren't you the one that said "Everyone should be more like me: Beautiful inside and outside, smart, intelligent, and talented. The world would be a better place." Quoting: -GooGooFlexy- Thread: Why are most people so ugly? I think you've been single because you're a horrible person. Fix that and you'll be fine. LOL hahahahahaha lol, glad to see you have a sense of humor. -GooGooFlexy- |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 6026749 Puerto Rico 04/23/2012 04:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Aren't you the one that said "Everyone should be more like me: Beautiful inside and outside, smart, intelligent, and talented. The world would be a better place." Quoting: -GooGooFlexy- Thread: Why are most people so ugly? I think you've been single because you're a horrible person. Fix that and you'll be fine. LOL hahahahahaha lol, glad to see you have a sense of humor. yeah ... and i'm very creative |
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