Your Brain on Porn

I jerk off, 1 time every 5-7 days. Sometimes 2 times, because I have conversed with extremely attracted woman who I had sexual tension with - im kind of sure they do to.

I rarely watch porn. And yes it takes self-contol in some way because I have to fight my boner sometimes - lol.

So, am I addicted to porn? Is my masturbation habbit heavy? I dont know - you tell me?

I think its healthy to jerk off every few days because how else am i going to release all the sexual tension? Tell me?

Uh, get a wife or girlfriend, thats how.

Yes, the get a gf saying :D

Like I can snap my fingers and magicly get a gf lol.

Ofcourse when I have a girlfriend I dont really fap it.

But I dont have a gf so yeah I guess then its justified to jerk off every now and then?

Answer, get a HOT girl who likes to do everything and whos horny. Simple.

Whats more fun? Watching others do it or you doing it with someone Hot?

Its like this is rocket science or something.

I understand how powerfully porn affects people. It's like any other addiction of the flesh.

But it brings out and encourages the worst in a human being.

It is so destructive. If men could only understand what porn does to a woman. I know that women are hooked on it too. But my argument can apply to both sides.

First of all.....the porn actress is a sexually broken woman. Her degraded spirit has been broken long before she has agreed to be used in this fashion. I don't care how much she acts otherwise, she is broken. Usually rape or molestation of some kind has happened to her.

Because, psychologically, spiritually the entire make-up of a woman is not made for this type of thing. So, by participating in watching porn - a person is contributing to her brokenness. Exploiting it.

And second....for the woman in the porn user's life....the emotional impact is very hurtful. Real women don't come with make-up artists following them around. Sexually healthy and loving women don't WANT to be degraded in the bedroom....and have to endure the notion that he is becoming aroused and excited by another woman's image. This is unfaithful. If you're single and not wanting to settle down, that's one thing. But if you are in a relationship, then you are bringing outsiders into your relationship. Many women have a problem with this.

This is such a destructive force in people's lives...and in relationships...it goes against what should be sacred and encourages people to wallow in the profane.

I'm all for sex and lots of it. But there is a reason why porn is so powerful. It is not just watching two people having sex. The nature of the sex is animalistic and degrading - usually to the woman.

And yes - most porn addicts that I've known have been misogynistic....there's a draw there. Many don't even realize that they secretly hate women and enjoy watching them be degraded.

I once knew a gal who was in a relationship with a porn addict. I've know many, but this one was the worst. It got to the point where he could only really get aroused if he was degrading her in the same fashion as he was used to seeing in the porn he watched. She finally had it when, one day, while they were showering together, she turned around and noticed that he was urinating on her. He informed her that it was called "golden showers." Sorry folks - if that's not sexually degrading behavior, I don't know what is.

Another woman I know had a husband who was really into porn. He would buy her all kinds of trashy outfits to wear which she would put on for him whenever he liked. Problems arose, however, when she became pregnant with his children. He couldn't bear to sleep in the same bed with her because her pregnant body grossed him out too much.

See what I'm saying?

Ofcourse id rather be with a hot girl. I dont really watch porn aswell.

But you act like you can get a hot girl whenever you want. Thats not for everybody appollo we cant all be the knight on the white horse. lol

Not rocket science bro just saying, isnt it justified for me to fap it off every 5-7 days if i cant get a gf? I can get girls but not 1,2,3, im not tom cruise etc

I understand how powerfully porn affects people. It's like any other addiction of the flesh.

But it brings out and encourages the worst in a human being.

It is so destructive. If men could only understand what porn does to a woman. I know that women are hooked on it too. But my argument can apply to both sides.

First of all.....the porn actress is a sexually broken woman. Her degraded spirit has been broken long before she has agreed to be used in this fashion. I don't care how much she acts otherwise, she is broken. Usually rape or molestation of some kind has happened to her.

Because, psychologically, spiritually the entire make-up of a woman is not made for this type of thing. So, by participating in watching porn - a person is contributing to her brokenness. Exploiting it.

And second....for the woman in the porn user's life....the emotional impact is very hurtful. Real women don't come with make-up artists following them around. Sexually healthy and loving women don't WANT to be degraded in the bedroom....and have to endure the notion that he is becoming aroused and excited by another woman's image. This is unfaithful. If you're single and not wanting to settle down, that's one thing. But if you are in a relationship, then you are bringing outsiders into your relationship. Many women have a problem with this.

This is such a destructive force in people's lives...and in relationships...it goes against what should be sacred and encourages people to wallow in the profane.

I'm all for sex and lots of it. But there is a reason why porn is so powerful. It is not just watching two people having sex. The nature of the sex is animalistic and degrading - usually to the woman.

And yes - most porn addicts that I've known have been misogynistic....there's a draw there. Many don't even realize that they secretly hate women and enjoy watching them be degraded.

I once knew a gal who was in a relationship with a porn addict. I've know many, but this one was the worst. It got to the point where he could only really get aroused if he was degrading her in the same fashion as he was used to seeing in the porn he watched. She finally had it when, one day, while they were showering together, she turned around and noticed that he was urinating on her. He informed her that it was called "golden showers." Sorry folks - if that's not sexually degrading behavior, I don't know what is.

Another woman I know had a husband who was really into porn. He would buy her all kinds of trashy outfits to wear which she would put on for him whenever he liked. Problems arose, however, when she became pregnant with his children. He couldn't bear to sleep in the same bed with her because her pregnant body grossed him out too much.

See what I'm saying?

LOL ! thats why you get one when youre young and goodlooking like I did. Snagged a hottie before she got away.

Now Im just a old, fat fart who women run away from

But if you never had a chance of looking like Tom Cruise like you mentioned. Having lots of money and bling is the other alternative and then getting a hottie is always assured.

Sounds like all these anti-porn tards are extremely self conscious and attempting to pat each other on the back to make each other feel better about their constant blue balls..

lol grow the fuck up clowns.. porn has existed for thousands of years in the form of every kind of prostitution and voyourism, its you with the problem..

My wife and I both watch porn in moderation and we enjoy it, so maybe your the one with the addiction problems

u must think sex is just evil - PORN IS VIDEO TAPED SEX

if u dont like it then dont watch it! otherwise STFU cause we enjoy it!!!

Sounds like all these anti-porn tards are extremely self conscious and attempting to pat each other on the back to make each other feel better about their constant blue balls..

lol grow the fuck up clowns.. porn has existed for thousands of years in the form of every kind of prostitution and voyourism, its you with the problem..

My wife and I both watch porn in moderation and we enjoy it, so maybe your the one with the addiction problems

u must think sex is just evil - PORN IS VIDEO TAPED SEX

if u dont like it then dont watch it! otherwise STFU cause we enjoy it!!!

Well, a HUGE part of the role of religion throughout the centuries was to cast shame onto naturally occurring human desires. If sexual behavior could be SOCIALIZED, which is exactly what has happened, then this offers an incredible avenue of influence over large populations of people. And notice that as religions have fractured over the centuries, that sexual expression and creativity has actually made a comeback in a sense. People who watch and don't watch porn have issues with respect when it comes to sex. THAT is the real problem here because it has do do with the individual's inability to cope with the shame that's been instilled from generations of social programming.


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Ive never known a Alpha male to use pornography heavily, We just go out and get what we want

Id prefer to not cheat on my wife - the golden rule..

one side note

I have been watching porn for over twelve years and still watch good looking women having basic sex so apparently all this garbage you are spewing about getting out of control is your personal issues but this is not true for people like myself who have no deep seeded closet desire of disgusting things. and who have to frantically wank off 10 times a day. I like a little moderation in my life..

so get the fuck over trying to tell other people whats right and wrong, you self righteous cuntrags..

Why dont u whine and complain about the genocide happening in this world..

instead u henpeck people about their sexual desires..

get over yourselves and please

Better to watch porn then to fuck her and abuse her!

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Your over analyzing sex and thus taking the fun out of it.

Everything in moderation folks

My husband really was into porn when I was pregnant with our last child. While he still slept in the same bed with me, I could clearly tell he was not turned on by me at all. Odd thing is, he got jealous when a friend was over one day while I was pregnant saying how something about pregnant women just really did something for him. My husband was probably thinking "dude, that's fucking disgusting but don't be looking at my wife" lol

SHIT : (((((

fok - that's all I can say

man wtf - where DID WE FELL ???

I donT think I had ever heard

AND REALLY - DONT NEED : D thanks for sharing tho

KEEP SAFE xD

LOL ! thats why you get one when youre young and goodlooking like I did. Snagged a hottie before she got away.

Now Im just a old, fat fart who women run away from

But if you never had a chance of looking like Tom Cruise like you mentioned. Having lots of money and bling is the other alternative and then getting a hottie is always assured.