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Should I try one more time?


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Re: Should I try one more time?
For better or worse,
Sickness and health.
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Only if he can go to counseling with you. I'm serious about this. The wife and I HAD issues. We found this nice old lady, that did it on the side, because she had retired. She was awesome and woke us BOTH up.

If he won't do this, then obviously he doesn't believe it's worth it...

I hope this works out for you. Too many marriages end in divorce.
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I'd just leave. He sounds gross.
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better with or without him? choose your choice.

then do it.
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Sounds like my neighborshf
'Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.' - Dr. Seuss
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Re: Should I try one more time?
For better or worse,
Sickness and health.
 Quoting: Charlie the Choo-Choo


I believe that, I'm just so fucking broke down after 8 years of giving more than I have,,im worried im just becoming a shell of me
 Quoting: JustTruth


Scare the shit out of him. Go take some time with a family member or hell, just move out for awhile. Make your own life... when he wakes up, things will get a bit better. If not... well, I hate the amount of divorces in this day and age but go for it.
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make me a sammich and bring a beer...
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im worried im just becoming a shell of me
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What did you think having 5 kids would do?

duh....
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in answer to your question... best advise I can give is to follow your heart and not the advice of others, as you won't be led astray.
'Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.' - Dr. Seuss
'love has no opposite as it is the divine solvent that ends duality.' - m'Lord
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Say your truth—kindly, but fully and completely. Live your truth, gently, but totally
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Re: Should I try one more time?
better with or without him? choose your choice.

then do it.
 Quoting: Phennommennonn


I'm better without, why do my kids adore him and I feel I shouldn't deprive them.
 Quoting: JustTruth


Why do parents always have to rip the kids away from each other permanently?

You can try for a civil divorce and a friendship with him. Keep raising the kids together...
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im worried im just becoming a shell of me
 Quoting: JustTruth


What did you think having 5 kids would do?

duh....
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Well asshole the kids are joyful! Love mothering...go away
 Quoting: JustTruth


Which one of you works and makes the house payments? Just taking the house doesn't validate YOU. It's just stealing from him...

By getting your own home, with your own money you're telling him that you don't need him, or anything from him.
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Well asshole the kids are joyful! Love mothering...go away
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ugh, I don't know OP, can your own family help with advice? I've got an Irish temper, I'd lose it if a man treated me like that, expecting me to wait on him while he laid around doing squat. Did his mother do everything for him?

Maybe try counseling? Or do something about this because every day that goes by, you will become more bitter and resentful inside and that's really bad for your health. 1dunno1
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Re: Should I try one more time?
Jesus said that falling out of love with someone is not good grounds for divorce.

However, Jesus said nothing concerning divorcing someone because they are a complete arsehole.

I agree with others that you should try to fix things first but if someone purposely hurting you and refusing to stop then you owe that person nothing.
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This is old but it is true.

You chnage your role in this quotient. Commit to doing those most important things necessary for your four children and how you see what is necessary for you in the marriage. Not in any highminded manner but deliberately drawing back from those things which are not necessary nor rewarded that you have been for all this time. Little by little his attention will be drawn that things have changed, not damatically, but changed.

WhAtever that he has not been doing that affects, primarily himself, if it doesn't get done just ignore it. Let it be his problem. This takes time and commitment.

This works only if each of you possess self respect and any vestige of marital devotion. It also is a tremendous lesson for the childlren to observe proper roles and responsibility in relationships which ensure a strong family.
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What did you think having 5 kids would do?

duh....
 Quoting: SPUD


Well asshole the kids are joyful! Love mothering...go away
 Quoting: JustTruth


Which one of you works and makes the house payments? Just taking the house doesn't validate YOU. It's just stealing from him...

By getting your own home, with your own money you're telling him that you don't need him, or anything from him.
 Quoting: Charlie the Choo-Choo


Actually I got a shack from my gran when she passed, I spent a year fixing it up. Got materials and stuff for it by bartering and even now I do yard work, cook, clean babysit, deliver papers, petsit, cuthair.....for my own money, I grow alot of my own food. This house is MINE. I sell shit at garage sales for utility. Dont need "his ' money. I'm very self reliant.
 Quoting: JustTruth


Then yeah, kick his ass out of it. Sounds like he might be taking you for a ride, honestly. At least 5 times, anyways.
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Tell him you need a break , that he needs to move out for a few weeks so you can get yourself together , if you feel that life is better without him then after the pre-arranged time is over you both must sit down and discuss what will happen regarding the kids , they need to see him and spend time with him no matter how bad he is , he is still their father....you may miss each other terrible during the break and the marriage could be saved.....I got my fingers crossed for you OP....x
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Which one of you works and makes the house payments? Just taking the house doesn't validate YOU. It's just stealing from him...

By getting your own home, with your own money you're telling him that you don't need him, or anything from him.
 Quoting: Charlie the Choo-Choo


Actually I got a shack from my gran when she passed, I spent a year fixing it up. Got materials and stuff for it by bartering and even now I do yard work, cook, clean babysit, deliver papers, petsit, cuthair.....for my own money, I grow alot of my own food. This house is MINE. I sell shit at garage sales for utility. Dont need "his ' money. I'm very self reliant.
 Quoting: JustTruth


Then yeah, kick his ass out of it. Sounds like he might be taking you for a ride, honestly. At least 5 times, anyways.
 Quoting: Charlie the Choo-Choo


4 kids actually, but yes could have 5x
 Quoting: JustTruth


Was counting the house, love.
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ugh, I don't know OP, can your own family help with advice? I've got an Irish temper, I'd lose it if a man treated me like that, expecting me to wait on him while he laid around doing squat. Did his mother do everything for him?

Maybe try counseling? Or do something about this because every day that goes by, you will become more bitter and resentful inside and that's really bad for your health. 1dunno1
 Quoting: KateSask


All my family is gone. He always says his mother never did baby him. He actually cared for her as she was passing from cancer, strange because he would never do that for me.
 Quoting: JustTruth


Well then, it's time for you to put your foot down I think and start using that word "NO!". That's my advice to you girl. Good Luck! hf
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If you can afford the 4 kids without his pay, dump him-
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This is old but it is true.

You chnage your role in this quotient. Commit to doing those most important things necessary for your four children and how you see what is necessary for you in the marriage. Not in any highminded manner but deliberately drawing back from those things which are not necessary nor rewarded that you have been for all this time. Little by little his attention will be drawn that things have changed, not damatically, but changed.

WhAtever that he has not been doing that affects, primarily himself, if it doesn't get done just ignore it. Let it be his problem. This takes time and commitment.

This works only if each of you possess self respect and any vestige of marital devotion. It also is a tremendous lesson for the childlren to observe proper roles and responsibility in relationships which ensure a strong family.
 Quoting: Mickeyblue 9806228


This is good advice although it can be very hard to see it through as it takes both partners involvment, willing or not.hf
'Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.' - Dr. Seuss
'love has no opposite as it is the divine solvent that ends duality.' - m'Lord
'Be the love that you are' -m'Lord
The amount of love and good feelings you have at the end of your life is equal to the love and good feelings you create during your life.- mine
What will get you from here to there most quickly is total honesty—
being willing to assert, acknowledge, and declare exactly how you feel about a thing.
Say your truth—kindly, but fully and completely. Live your truth, gently, but totally
and consistently. Change your truth easily and quickly when your experience brings
you new clarity.-God

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WTF , DUMP THAT MOFO ALREADY , srsly
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Re: Should I try one more time?
You have to get out of that relationship if you ever want any type of a "decent" life..

You know the answer to your questions or you wouldn't have ever brought it up..

Your heart is fighting with your mind.

Go with your brain on this one..

Your heart will heal..

Eventually your heart will catch up with what your brain is telling you. It always does.

Stop wasting time.

Been there. done that.

It's not worth it..

Best of Luck to you

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You have to get out of that relationship if you ever want any type of a "decent" life..

You know the answer to your questions or you wouldn't have ever brought it up..

Your heart is fighting with your mind.

Go with your brain on this one..

Your heart will heal..

Eventually your heart will catch up with what your brain is telling you. It always does.

Stop wasting time.

Been there. done that.

It's not worth it..

Best of Luck to you

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Thank you so much for these words
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You're very welcome!
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Slowly withdrawing from 'pampering' HIS needs is probably a good idea.

When asked to do something for him he can do himself, find yourself suddenly 'BUSY' with another task that you PLANNED out ahead of time; even leaving something you could do for JUST THIS Time/ excuse.

I also lean to the idea of a 'vacation' for YOU, trip to ..... that takes about a week. Let him do for himself and realize just how LITTLE he has been doing for himself, and HOW MUCH he NEEDS YOU ! His attitude should change, especially when he has to fix his OWN meals, etc.

By the way, I am a MAN, and never let this happen in my home.

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I just kinda feel like I should have a partner that cares about me.. I'll make these changes and go from there.
I do appreciate all the advice and kindness.
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You do, everyone does.

The moment you settle for less than what you deserve is the moment you get less than you expect..

or something like that..

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Personal Motto:

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that's satanic weirdo

sound like
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you seill there? get out