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why most relationships are doomed?

 
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
Most relationships fail because the majority of people are borderline crazy.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
Because women know how to talk....
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
the obvious answer is that most relationships are doomed because ROMANTIC (as opposed to parental) love is a fleeting cocktail of chemicals, and when (not if) they eventually wear off...

from then on in, its the children that keep most people together. that and fear of being alone, cost of divorce, and financial dependence of women brought on by staying home and taking care of the kids

it isnt because women are this, or men are that. we are humans first. and this is what you get when you try to force an unnatural, bizarre and legally binding state on to humans. originally, marriage did not begin with noble intentions, only to benefit the man

you shouldnt somehow feel obliged to stay merely for your partners sake. 'work it out'? the love has GONE. what kind of relationship is that?

monogamy is an unnatural state for humans, other than those few who fear being alone, need a relationship to define who they are, have a very high boredom threshold and a very low expectation of life in general

those poor folk in the old day, pretty much doomed to a miserable life just because society dictated. very, very sad

the 50% divorce rate (and thats just the ones that acted, doesnt mean the other 50% are happy at all) is a reflection of the fact that women have financial dependence more these days and can afford to rid themselves of the piece of paper

and why is it mostly women instigating divorce? because men expect less, as long as they have another mother to take care of them. remove that, and then and only then do they start feeling disatisfied. very simple creatures, men

if anything, im sure that affairs were far more rife in the days before easier divorce. dont kid yourselves that things were better in the good old days
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
agreed.
my ex told me he "loved" me about 1 or 2 months into the relationship.
never said it back because I never felt it.

I think that a lot of people are just in love with the idea of being in love.
or in love with the IDEA of the person.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
They fail because women only want 4 things and they all start with a "W"

They are drilled daily to have and search out and to want these things...

They are...

Wallets, wieners, W2s and wedding rings..

I'll explain..

Wallets...How much will you spend on me...or do you have to spend on me...

Wieners...not necessarily yours...they play the field.

W2...does this guy make enough to support me in high fashion..

If so comes the wedding ring

Women don't need to be in love. They just need to know they found someone that takes good care of them...meaning with money. Find a good provider...I guess I could put up with him..he takes good care of me

Women do not like being poor.

In sickness and in health for richer or poorer...

Wrong


It's only rich and healthy...sick & poor they can find anywhere and they don't like it..Get laid off or go on strike for an extended time and many bail out..

Line up two handsome men side by side

One well off money wise and one poor....

Guess which on gets the date?

woman are nothing but money pits...that's why relationships don't last...it's all for one until the money drys up


The term gold digger doesn't apply to men...

She married him for his money...not his poorness...

You will never know if a girl really loves you or just the way you can take care of her...

Ugly and rich will work...

Handsome and rich will work...

Fat and rich will work...

Skinny and rich will work...

Tall and rich will work...

Short and rich will work..

Blind, crippled and crazy and rich will work..

Poor doesn't matter and will never fit into any equation..


MONEY is the key...not love...not friendship...
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04/30/2012 05:31 AM
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
My hubby was meant to be a random one night stand...

Then he wouldn't stop texting me!!

Now we are a happy couple +1.

Wouldn't change a thing lolsign

Though I do agree that you need to love yourself before you can love someone else.
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04/30/2012 05:46 AM
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
Ok, lets look at the facts.

First a few decades ago relationships didnt end very often. Then governments started to introduce various womens rights and then relationships started to fall all over the place.

I am not against womens rights but its at this time most relationships started to fail.

I think women should have the rights they have today but when children are involved I truely believe there should be laws making it really really difficult to get seperated. Because if you have kids with each other you lose the right to the freedom of seperation IMO.

The kids must come first.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15043379


Great. So in your world I and my two very young children would still be living with my alcoholic, angry ex. The kids were being negatively affected, it was in their best interests that we leave. But if it had been hard, if i had had to jump through more hoops or live with him while someone did an investigation, it could have been downright dangerous.
IMO, te problem with relationships is hormonal. One poster said we need tofind someone that makes us feel god and blah blah blah. The problem is that hormones will make most relationships feel that way anyway. The trick is to resist them, wait them out, and find someone you love and adore regardless of what your hormones are telling you.
Also, people today suck. Just a fact. They don't make people like they used to. I was lucky to have found anunspoiled, gentleman. And We will be married in a few months! And it is the real ting.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
They fail because women only want 4 things and they all start with a "W"

They are drilled daily to have and search out and to want these things...

They are...

Wallets, wieners, W2s and wedding rings..

I'll explain..

Wallets...How much will you spend on me...or do you have to spend on me...

Wieners...not necessarily yours...they play the field.

W2...does this guy make enough to support me in high fashion..

If so comes the wedding ring

Women don't need to be in love. They just need to know they found someone that takes good care of them...meaning with money. Find a good provider...I guess I could put up with him..he takes good care of me

Women do not like being poor.

In sickness and in health for richer or poorer...

Wrong


It's only rich and healthy...sick & poor they can find anywhere and they don't like it..Get laid off or go on strike for an extended time and many bail out..

Line up two handsome men side by side

One well off money wise and one poor....

Guess which on gets the date?

woman are nothing but money pits...that's why relationships don't last...it's all for one until the money drys up


The term gold digger doesn't apply to men...

She married him for his money...not his poorness...

You will never know if a girl really loves you or just the way you can take care of her...

Ugly and rich will work...

Handsome and rich will work...

Fat and rich will work...

Skinny and rich will work...

Tall and rich will work...

Short and rich will work..

Blind, crippled and crazy and rich will work..

Poor doesn't matter and will never fit into any equation..


MONEY is the key...not love...not friendship...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1211208


Bitter much?

The most my husband has to put up with is me buying worthless thrift store stuff and having to sit though a show he doesn't like sometimes. He's got it good lol

I don't know where your picking up women from. The mall?
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
Learn to be totally yourself, then find someone with whom you can be this natural self and feel 100% comfortable. When you are your natural self, you attract the people who love you just the way you are. When you think you are not good enough and play a role to attract someone, you attract the wrong people and a "fake" relationship is the result.
Your natural self is beautiful beyond what you may believe. Everyone is beautiful when they let their inner true self shine. It illuminates their face despite how your physical body looks. You don't have to be physically perfect. There is always a match for you.
Scuba7

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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
It's not because of sex...

It's because people don't do the self work BEFORE engaging in something as complex as sex WITH another person.
 Quoting: ArunaLuna


Sex is not complex.

Life is not complex.

Humans are not complex.

Idiots make things complex by over-analyzing things.
Do not take memories of what happened yesterday, into what might happen today.

When love is your greatest weakness, you will be the strongest person in the world.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
Learn to be totally yourself, then find someone with whom you can be this natural self and feel 100% comfortable. When you are your natural self, you attract the people who love you just the way you are. When you think you are not good enough and play a role to attract someone, you attract the wrong people and a "fake" relationship is the result.
Your natural self is beautiful beyond what you may believe. Everyone is beautiful when they let their inner true self shine. It illuminates their face despite how your physical body looks. You don't have to be physically perfect. There is always a match for you.
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Funney
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
because they never were at the first place!
believe me or not
our relations are the most important parts of our lives

its your stance, your approach and your empathy
you freely give to any subject

the relation between you and the exploring object is the path where information can travel

but if you do not relate with it, no way for your understanding to reach YOU (realization of the connection...relation between information... is giving you sense / you are aware)
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04/30/2012 06:28 AM
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
It's not because of sex...

It's because people don't do the self work BEFORE engaging in something as complex as sex WITH another person.
 Quoting: ArunaLuna


Sex is not complex.

Life is not complex.

Humans are not complex.

Idiots make things complex by over-analyzing things.
 Quoting: Scuba7


Exactly.

dasbier
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
All a man needs is a good truck, a good dog, a good shotgun... Everything else is just for play.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9079482


^^This^^ the woman of today makes me fucking sick. I can't stand the vermin. I just hit it and run... don't need no headaches caused by no fucking bitch.

Women don't like men, even if the guy is seriously muscled up, looks like a young Brad Pitt and is the most decent guy ever. Women get quickly bored of that and only want money and the things it can buy.

And that's precisely why I only want one thing off a whore, only she aint getting fucking paid for it.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
women like men with money, not poor men.

they do not want their babies to starve, that is the reason.

what's wrong with that?


do you like the image of starving children?
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
men don't need to worry of course, because it's women who have the babies.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
women like men with money, not poor men.

they do not want their babies to starve, that is the reason.

what's wrong with that?


do you like the image of starving children?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13752205


Nope, it has nothing to do with starving babies, it's about being indulged by a man's money. Nothing more.

Fact is, a man could make a basic living that will ensure his family is fed, clothed, sheltered, etc, but women's needs exceed the basics and all they want is the material things in life.

It really makes me wonder why women have such a love of material things, when they're supposed to be the more loving and sensitive of the sexes.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
People are too self absorbed today...if their mate doesn't meet their needs they replace them, one after another, in an endless attempt to find "the perfect mate". They go along using and being used...until one day they wake up jaded and bitter....and no one wants to be with them because they constantly blame that gender for ruining their lives.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
because all relationships revolve around selfishness.
Every relationship seems to be about what this other person can do for me.

I have learned something, after 2 failed marriages and a recent failed relationship:

It is not about how much I am loved, but how much I love...

Being loved gives me courage...loving another gives me inspiration.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3099832


r u woman? because no man can say what you are saying.i mean who will love a woman after losing 85 % of his income?
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
women like men with money, not poor men.

they do not want their babies to starve, that is the reason.

what's wrong with that?


do you like the image of starving children?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13752205


Nope, it has nothing to do with starving babies, it's about being indulged by a man's money. Nothing more.

Fact is, a man could make a basic living that will ensure his family is fed, clothed, sheltered, etc, but women's needs exceed the basics and all they want is the material things in life.

It really makes me wonder why women have such a love of material things, when they're supposed to be the more loving and sensitive of the sexes.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5676388


the elders knew what they were doing when they kept women in houses.You call it women's liberation and shit....the results are here to see...men who never grow up and women who behave like whores and rewarded for that by govt....ya women's liberation really saved your civilization
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
there is always one from those two, who loves more hf
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
women like men with money, not poor men.

they do not want their babies to starve, that is the reason.

what's wrong with that?


do you like the image of starving children?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13752205


atleast in west(canada,usa,uk,germany,spain,austria,nordic countries),where did you see babies starving?
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
All a man needs is a good truck, a good dog, a good shotgun... Everything else is just for play.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9079482


^^This^^ the woman of today makes me fucking sick. I can't stand the vermin. I just hit it and run... don't need no headaches caused by no fucking bitch.

Women don't like men, even if the guy is seriously muscled up, looks like a young Brad Pitt and is the most decent guy ever. Women get quickly bored of that and only want money and the things it can buy.

And that's precisely why I only want one thing off a whore, only she aint getting fucking paid for it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5676388


fuck them and dump them.don't impregnate them.marriage and relationship with women is slavery
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
They fail because most people these days don't even GROW UP.

It takes mature people to make a relationship work.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
All a man needs is a good truck, a good dog, a good shotgun... Everything else is just for play.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9079482


^^This^^ the woman of today makes me fucking sick. I can't stand the vermin. I just hit it and run... don't need no headaches caused by no fucking bitch.

Women don't like men, even if the guy is seriously muscled up, looks like a young Brad Pitt and is the most decent guy ever. Women get quickly bored of that and only want money and the things it can buy.

And that's precisely why I only want one thing off a whore, only she aint getting fucking paid for it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5676388


fuck them and dump them.don't impregnate them.marriage and relationship with women is slavery
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15301611


See what I mean.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
Most relationships fail because the majority of people are borderline crazy.
 Quoting: FBI_Surveillance_Van_#15


True. My current relationship has made me depressed and crazy. Now I am quite sure no sane man would ever want me. Just as well, I have nothing left to offer anyway. The emotional toll has taken more than I'd like to admit and I am done with men. They all lie and I can't believe I was so naive. I'll find my happiness in material things, its always worked before.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
It's not because of sex...

It's because people don't do the self work BEFORE engaging in something as complex as sex WITH another person.
 Quoting: ArunaLuna


Sex is not complex.

Life is not complex.

Humans are not complex.

Idiots make things complex by over-analyzing things.
 Quoting: Scuba7


Exactly.

dasbier
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15305269


Idiots don't over analyze things.
Idiots let their genitals make decisions for them that result in consequesnces they are not in ANY WAY prepared to deal with.
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why most relationships are doomed?


Because ever since the original sin, our Creator promised man they would be.


(1 Corinthians 7:28) But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
Many good points here, but a Biblical perspective is needed. First and foremost there is no such thing as falling in love. There is lust yes as a motivation for couples to come together, but that is biologically programmed to fail after about 6 months.

The Bible commands husbands to love their wives. What? How can that be, how can you have control over that amorphous feeling, 'love'. How can you be commanded to love?

Love is actually an action that is consciously chosen. You either choose to love someone or not. You choose to love God and obey his commands or not. You choose to love your spouse and enjoy a long lasting healthy relationship, or you do what everyone else does, divorce and flee when things get uncomfortable.

That is why marriage is covenant before God and men. It's a faith promise, whose vows are all too conveniently broken. Even christians view God the same way they view Santa Claus, as a feel good fairy tale, with no real cause and effect on their lives. Thus clearly breaking a solemn vow before God is no big deal right.......

Now you see? Choose to love.
 Quoting: SevenThunders

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WE DONT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For fucks sake, is this a christian forum?stfu
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Re: why most relationships are doomed?
Its not down to womens rights, its down to sex being the first factor on a persons mind when they meet. They don't KNOW each other. How many old couples do you know that started as a one nighter? Back then, when sex was still something to blush about, couples would meet up for a while, talk, get to know each other and long for the next time they saw each other, instead of seeing the other as a commodity.

Don't get me wrong, i think sex is something that is a persons own choice to do, but it's personal morality issues and without sounding like a killjoy, the media has pushed it in our faces so far that its became a MUST when you meet someone. People just aren't interested in having a deep bond anymore and it goes for both sexes.
 Quoting: shpongleyes


You are correct.

And I add this:

Sex is a distraction, it is destructive in many ways, and carries too much baggage. Everything changes in a relationship once sex enters the picture, and anyone who denies that is a fool.

Humans have a physical, instinctual "need" for sex - BUT that need can be controlled. It's very simple, but most people do not want to control it or refuse to try.

Humans are programmed to be "in love", to be in a relationship, to be with someone, anyone, just for the sake of not being alone. And that is absurd.

They are also programmed to get married, to procreate, to give their parents grandchildren . . . in other words, to do as others do.

Why be a sheeple?

Be an individual, this is a message I've been trying to impart to others, after years of experiences and wisdom gained.

There is NO SUCH THING as being "in love" - that's just an empty term created by those who want to believe in the fairytale of loving and being loved and happily ever after.

I believe that humans can care about other humans, there can be genuine care and concern, but I don't think humans are capable of truly loving each other because there are too many negative dynamics at play. Selfishness, greed, apathy, past history, emotional hang-ups, stress, so many emotions that prevent true love from being part of the equation.

But most people have not come to that realization, and many never will. Instead, they spend their lives in mentally and emotionally and physically depleting relationships, searching for something that simply DOES NOT EXIST.

And I find it amazing that in 2012, there is still so much sexual abandon, so many girls feel the sum of their entire worth is based on their sexuality and willingness to be sexually involved, and that so many people have zero self-respect.

I DO think humans can love animals, nature, and the self. And the reason that kind of love works is because it involves a key element: respect. When one feels sincere respect and love for the earth's creatures, for the majesty and power of nature, and for all the qualities of their own being - they will be a fulfilled person.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2365096




^^^^^^^ THIS x 1,000,000

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