why most relationships are doomed?

Ok, lets look at the facts.

First a few decades ago relationships didnt end very often. Then governments started to introduce various womens rights and then relationships started to fall all over the place.

I am not against womens rights but its at this time most relationships started to fail.

I think women should have the rights they have today but when children are involved I truely believe there should be laws making it really really difficult to get seperated. Because if you have kids with each other you lose the right to the freedom of seperation IMO.

The kids must come first.

They fail because women only want 4 things and they all start with a "W"

They are drilled daily to have and search out and to want these things...

They are...

Wallets, wieners, W2s and wedding rings..

I'll explain..

Wallets...How much will you spend on me...or do you have to spend on me...

Wieners...not necessarily yours...they play the field.

W2...does this guy make enough to support me in high fashion..

If so comes the wedding ring

Women don't need to be in love. They just need to know they found someone that takes good care of them...meaning with money. Find a good provider...I guess I could put up with him..he takes good care of me

Women do not like being poor.

In sickness and in health for richer or poorer...

Wrong


It's only rich and healthy...sick & poor they can find anywhere and they don't like it..Get laid off or go on strike for an extended time and many bail out..

Line up two handsome men side by side

One well off money wise and one poor....

Guess which on gets the date?

woman are nothing but money pits...that's why relationships don't last...it's all for one until the money drys up


The term gold digger doesn't apply to men...

She married him for his money...not his poorness...

You will never know if a girl really loves you or just the way you can take care of her...

Ugly and rich will work...

Handsome and rich will work...

Fat and rich will work...

Skinny and rich will work...

Tall and rich will work...

Short and rich will work..

Blind, crippled and crazy and rich will work..

Poor doesn't matter and will never fit into any equation..


MONEY is the key...not love...not friendship...

It's not because of sex...

It's because people don't do the self work BEFORE engaging in something as complex as sex WITH another person.

Learn to be totally yourself, then find someone with whom you can be this natural self and feel 100% comfortable. When you are your natural self, you attract the people who love you just the way you are. When you think you are not good enough and play a role to attract someone, you attract the wrong people and a "fake" relationship is the result.
Your natural self is beautiful beyond what you may believe. Everyone is beautiful when they let their inner true self shine. It illuminates their face despite how your physical body looks. You don't have to be physically perfect. There is always a match for you.

Sex is not complex.

Life is not complex.

Humans are not complex.

Idiots make things complex by over-analyzing things.

All a man needs is a good truck, a good dog, a good shotgun... Everything else is just for play.

women like men with money, not poor men.

they do not want their babies to starve, that is the reason.

what's wrong with that?


do you like the image of starving children?

because all relationships revolve around selfishness.
Every relationship seems to be about what this other person can do for me.

I have learned something, after 2 failed marriages and a recent failed relationship:

It is not about how much I am loved, but how much I love...

Being loved gives me courage...loving another gives me inspiration.

Nope, it has nothing to do with starving babies, it's about being indulged by a man's money. Nothing more.

Fact is, a man could make a basic living that will ensure his family is fed, clothed, sheltered, etc, but women's needs exceed the basics and all they want is the material things in life.

It really makes me wonder why women have such a love of material things, when they're supposed to be the more loving and sensitive of the sexes.

women like men with money, not poor men.

they do not want their babies to starve, that is the reason.

what's wrong with that?


do you like the image of starving children?

^^This^^ the woman of today makes me fucking sick. I can't stand the vermin. I just hit it and run... don't need no headaches caused by no fucking bitch.

Women don't like men, even if the guy is seriously muscled up, looks like a young Brad Pitt and is the most decent guy ever. Women get quickly bored of that and only want money and the things it can buy.

And that's precisely why I only want one thing off a whore, only she aint getting fucking paid for it.

fuck them and dump them.don't impregnate them.marriage and relationship with women is slavery

Most relationships fail because the majority of people are borderline crazy.

Exactly.

Many good points here, but a Biblical perspective is needed. First and foremost there is no such thing as falling in love. There is lust yes as a motivation for couples to come together, but that is biologically programmed to fail after about 6 months.

The Bible commands husbands to love their wives. What? How can that be, how can you have control over that amorphous feeling, 'love'. How can you be commanded to love?

Love is actually an action that is consciously chosen. You either choose to love someone or not. You choose to love God and obey his commands or not. You choose to love your spouse and enjoy a long lasting healthy relationship, or you do what everyone else does, divorce and flee when things get uncomfortable.

That is why marriage is covenant before God and men. It's a faith promise, whose vows are all too conveniently broken. Even christians view God the same way they view Santa Claus, as a feel good fairy tale, with no real cause and effect on their lives. Thus clearly breaking a solemn vow before God is no big deal right.......

Now you see? Choose to love.

You are correct.

And I add this:

Sex is a distraction, it is destructive in many ways, and carries too much baggage. Everything changes in a relationship once sex enters the picture, and anyone who denies that is a fool.

Humans have a physical, instinctual "need" for sex - BUT that need can be controlled. It's very simple, but most people do not want to control it or refuse to try.

Humans are programmed to be "in love", to be in a relationship, to be with someone, anyone, just for the sake of not being alone. And that is absurd.

They are also programmed to get married, to procreate, to give their parents grandchildren . . . in other words, to do as others do.

Why be a sheeple?

Be an individual, this is a message I've been trying to impart to others, after years of experiences and wisdom gained.

There is NO SUCH THING as being "in love" - that's just an empty term created by those who want to believe in the fairytale of loving and being loved and happily ever after.

I believe that humans can care about other humans, there can be genuine care and concern, but I don't think humans are capable of truly loving each other because there are too many negative dynamics at play. Selfishness, greed, apathy, past history, emotional hang-ups, stress, so many emotions that prevent true love from being part of the equation.

But most people have not come to that realization, and many never will. Instead, they spend their lives in mentally and emotionally and physically depleting relationships, searching for something that simply DOES NOT EXIST.

And I find it amazing that in 2012, there is still so much sexual abandon, so many girls feel the sum of their entire worth is based on their sexuality and willingness to be sexually involved, and that so many people have zero self-respect.

I DO think humans can love animals, nature, and the self. And the reason that kind of love works is because it involves a key element: respect. When one feels sincere respect and love for the earth's creatures, for the majesty and power of nature, and for all the qualities of their own being - they will be a fulfilled person.