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Why do people like their heads in the sand?? Husband won't listen.
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say what you wish, but any man unconcerned about his mates or his families worries or securities, has spent his worry currency somewhere else.
Youre somehow unable to state your case with conviction, or he doesnt care if he, or you, survives, for some reason you are yet unaware of.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11132818 Now that makes sense. And, it's cause for pause and thought. I may not be stating my case with conviction because I don't want to seem like I'm on the crazy train - but still...why wouldn't he care about survival? That is the question here. Why does he not want to know or do anything to protect himself or "us"? Seems this is a case for a professional, really. Something has to be running pretty deep there. It makes no sense to me otherwise. Thanks. being that i am a professional in this, i'm doing my best to get you on track. YOU must first deal with the anchor line you find yourself tangled up in before you can save others. Your frustration is understandable, but there is another reason you are so frustrated with your partners refusal. You seem to need his approval for something that you should be able to do for yourself, by yourself, something that any being should do automatically, which is to work towards your best interests now, and in the future. What is it? I get that, but we are married so I can't just save myself. I'm trying to save both of us (when and IF). I could just keep stocking up a little here and there, but shouldn't he be involved in our mutual well-being? There may be no need, but if the possibility is there shouldn't he take measure to keep us safe? I could just leave and take care of myself but that doesn't abide by the "better or worse" vow. Everything else in our relationship is fine, no arguments ever - discuss everything...but this. And this seems pretty darned important to me. If it's important to me, shouldn't that be enough? Again - not asking for anything major, just some awareness would be a good start. he's a liberal. Nothing you can do. they are incapable of learning, or assimilating contrary evidence, so all evidence to the contrary must be ignored or mocked, depending whether a bit of the old inout is the possible outcome or not. But he probably claims that poor old dear leader isnt getting a break from the republican press, either I'm right again, arent I?
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