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My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...

 
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My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Hello,

Ive had custody of my son for almost 10 years.

My ex-wife was in a bad place at the time I received custody, so I let the child support issue go.

He will be entering college in a few years, and I feel like it's time for her to contribute something..

I spoke to the AG's office in Texas, who stated that she is currently unemployed (with no employment record this entire time). She has never filed a tax return, and has no bank assets.

However, she has remarried and jointly owns a condo and a very nice sports car with her new husband.

Does anyone have similar experience with a scenario like this??

Can the property be seized to resolve the arrears, or am I basically SoL?

Before I had custody, I was laid off at one point and the state came after me with a vengeance for being $500.00 behind (Warrants issued, and DL revoked), until I got current.

It's appalling that a double standard like this can exist.

$26,000!!!!!!


Anyway, any thought's or insight would be greatly appreciated.
Anonymous Coward
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05/09/2012 09:11 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Grow tits..cut your dick off..and complain.
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05/09/2012 09:14 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Dude, something must be fucked on your custody order if she is walking free and you got your ass raped for $500 in arrears.

The court can make her sell her shit and pay, otherwise thats considered a felony failure to support.
Anonymous Coward
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05/09/2012 09:15 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Yeah so does mine probably more not that im ever going to get any....
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05/09/2012 09:17 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Grow tits..cut your dick off..and complain.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15431553


Yeah if you get a sex change become female, they will chase her across the globe trying to recover 10 cents she owes.
All about equality for women and all you know?
Anonymous Coward
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05/09/2012 09:18 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Dude, something must be fucked on your custody order if she is walking free and you got your ass raped for $500 in arrears.

The court can make her sell her shit and pay, otherwise thats considered a felony failure to support.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14197539


Its easy to not pay it, really easy, the bitch just lives off some other loser shes fucking and doesn't work.
Because men are often the main income earner, its always easier to get it off men.
Women just shack up with some other loser and take his cash.
mikebo2

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05/09/2012 09:18 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
You realize that the fact that you are male means society could care less don't you?

Sad but true.
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05/09/2012 09:18 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
if any of the assets were bought jointly, you can go after it. Get a court order for a financial disclosure on your wife. Start child support collection proceedings before your kid turns 21!
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05/09/2012 09:23 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
if any of the assets were bought jointly, you can go after it. Get a court order for a financial disclosure on your wife. Start child support collection proceedings before your kid turns 21!
 Quoting: BZB


I tried that, they wont/can't take her half of the house with the loser she is with.
Can't take her car (only mode of transport).
There is special provisions for if you have a snatch you see.
lowred5  (OP)

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05/09/2012 09:30 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Thanks for the responses so far....all truth!!

A sad state of things.

BZB, what if the house was originally owned by the new husband but was re-titled to be jointly owned after the marriage?

Her family is loaded....I feel like my best bet is to keep the heat on, until someone bails her out.

Meanwhile, my son is the one who truly takes the hit.

$26k would REALLY help putting him through school...
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05/09/2012 09:31 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
My dad owes me $11k in child support. You know what? I don't spend time caring, since he's probably a bum from his 4 other kids.
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05/09/2012 09:35 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
I feel for you OP. That really sucks. I left my husband and paid child support until circumstances changed and they came to live with me. They are my children and that is only right. My suggestion is have your son talk to his mother (if they have a relationship) about money for college.
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05/09/2012 09:36 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
They are my children and that is only right.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1340859


No, they are not YOUR children, they are BOTH of your children.
You psychotic lunatic!
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05/09/2012 09:38 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Meanwhile, my son is the one who truly takes the hit.

$26k would REALLY help putting him through school...
 Quoting: lowred5


Oh yeah, it would help, and she only punishes her child.
That she apparently loves when she feels like it right?
Yet she will say its HER child, and he should live with HER, and SHE should get YOUR money.
Filthy psychotic whores.
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05/09/2012 09:38 PM
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Punch the bitch in the neck!
Pearl Harbor was an inside job.
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05/09/2012 09:39 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
BZB, what if the house was originally owned by the new husband but was re-titled to be jointly owned after the marriage?
 Quoting: lowred5


Ive tried it, they won't do it, they say because it affects her new husband leaving him with only half a house.
And its her home she lives in which would make her homeless.
They won't touch it.
lowred5  (OP)

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05/09/2012 09:41 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
BZB, what if the house was originally owned by the new husband but was re-titled to be jointly owned after the marriage?
 Quoting: lowred5


Ive tried it, they won't do it, they say because it affects her new husband leaving him with only half a house.
And its her home she lives in which would make her homeless.
They won't touch it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15495362


What about the fully loaded Vette in front of the house?!
lowred5  (OP)

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05/09/2012 09:43 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
BZB, what if the house was originally owned by the new husband but was re-titled to be jointly owned after the marriage?
 Quoting: lowred5


Ive tried it, they won't do it, they say because it affects her new husband leaving him with only half a house.
And its her home she lives in which would make her homeless.
They won't touch it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15495362


What about the fully loaded Vette in front of the house?!
 Quoting: lowred5


I dont own a house...(still rent).

The condo is worth 3 times the amount she owes, so its not like they would be homeless...such BS.
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05/09/2012 09:45 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
BZB, what if the house was originally owned by the new husband but was re-titled to be jointly owned after the marriage?
 Quoting: lowred5


Ive tried it, they won't do it, they say because it affects her new husband leaving him with only half a house.
And its her home she lives in which would make her homeless.
They won't touch it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15495362


What about the fully loaded Vette in front of the house?!
 Quoting: lowred5


Depends if its the only mode of transport.
If she has her car, and another luxury car in her name they will take it sell it and pay you what is owed.
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05/09/2012 09:47 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
If you owed that much you would be in jail.

Women get the pussy pass.

It get's old and shit has got to change.

Women want equal rights?

What's good for the goose is good for the gander. She needs to pay. You would be forced to if the shoe was on the other foot.
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05/09/2012 09:47 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
BZB, what if the house was originally owned by the new husband but was re-titled to be jointly owned after the marriage?
 Quoting: lowred5


Ive tried it, they won't do it, they say because it affects her new husband leaving him with only half a house.
And its her home she lives in which would make her homeless.
They won't touch it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15495362


What about the fully loaded Vette in front of the house?!
 Quoting: lowred5


I dont own a house...(still rent).

The condo is worth 3 times the amount she owes, so its not like they would be homeless...such BS.
 Quoting: lowred5


if they lived in a 10 million dollar mansion, its still where they live.
You can apply to a court to have her finances looked at, but no doubt anything significant they can take will be in his name.
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05/09/2012 09:48 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
If you owed that much you would be in jail.

Women get the pussy pass.

It get's old and shit has got to change.

Women want equal rights?

What's good for the goose is good for the gander. She needs to pay. You would be forced to if the shoe was on the other foot.
 Quoting: FatalW1shes


Oh yeah and they would take his only mode of transport he used to get to work to pay what he already did.
Then force him into unemployment and put him in jail for not paying.
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05/09/2012 09:51 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
One trick they use here is, they don't file a tax return.
So they have no income to take money from.
They get fined once a year something like $500, and they make sure their employer takes just the right amount of tax so they owe no taxes to the government.
And this fine is cheaper than what they would have to pay in child support.
And the government wont audit them because they see they owe them nothing.
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05/09/2012 09:57 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
When do you expect the check?
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05/09/2012 09:58 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Bitch Slap the CUNT.
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05/09/2012 10:00 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
My dad owes me $11k in child support. You know what? I don't spend time caring, since he's probably a bum from his 4 other kids.
 Quoting: Charlie the Choo-Choo


Your mom kicked him out !!

She wanted him out she can pay for her children !!

Not what the law says but thats whats right.
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05/09/2012 10:00 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Can you get a free "initial" consultation with a lawyer about this? Some states you can get a referral by calling the state bar or just look in yellow pages under "Family" lawers. Your state may have some self help info posted online about this and sometimes attorneys you find through google have helpful info on their site that you can use as a starting point so you can do the rest yourself
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05/09/2012 10:04 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
The big question is - does she see her son? Feel horrible for the boy.....
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05/09/2012 10:05 PM
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Forgive the dept and forget.

Rise above it and just smile.

Over done, finished.

You'll feel better, guarenteed.
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05/09/2012 10:07 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
They are my children and that is only right.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1340859


No, they are not YOUR children, they are BOTH of your children.
You psychotic lunatic!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15495362


Just chill out!! I meant that they are my children as well as my ex's. Now who is the psycho. I take it you have no woman in your life. NO surprise there!!!
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05/09/2012 10:08 PM
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Re: My ex-wife owes me $26,000+ in back child support...
Did you hear about the welfare grandmother who took her 10 grand kids in as a legal foster mother. She collected 125,000 bucks from the state. Seriously.





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