Do a search of the Canadian guy from Winnipeg whose penis was accidentally cut off during a botched circumcision. His parents were convinced by an [evil IMO] doctor to raise him as a girl, he told them he would never know the difference. They even gave him hormone treatment. Well, it didn't work. The poor guy always knew instinctively he was male/masculine, not female. His life was hell, especially high school. When he became a young adult, he reverted back to identifying as a male, and spoke publicly about what happened to him. But he could never deal with the pain of growing up the way he was forced to, and committed suicide at 35.

Males and females are of course the same species, but we're also different in many ways.