These "helping everyone" and "we're all one" ideologies are based upon fallacies, we're not all one, we're individuals that live in society, we're different and we're imperfect. Each is master of their own destiny and should face the consequence of their own choices. We need to find ways to manage our imperfections to make them bearable, not pursue utopias. In the name of utopias the flawed human beings have committed the worse atrocities in history, mostly fomented by dreamers who refused to heed logic and reason and allowed their emotions and instincts to lead their decisions and followed sociopaths who made false promises to gain power for themselves at the cost of these useful idiots.