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| CanadianBacon User ID: 12483265 05/15/2012 11:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I agree. Many times, if there is a divorce, the wife leaves with all the money, even if the man earned it all. Or the man has to pay many many thousands per month so that woman can live. Its terrible and not fair. Even if wife bangs other guy and you get divorce, you still have to pay her. Last Edited by CanadianBacon on 05/15/2012 11:43 PM CanadianBacon |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/15/2012 11:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | women are no longer submissive to men. and young males have trouble financially raising a family on a high school diploma. women dont want to marry low income males Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6324055 forget about submissiveness.women today are plain evil gold diggers.young men just stay away from ultrafeminist gold digger sluts Goodness that is rather harsh! once you experience family courts,you understand women are not good. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6739256 05/15/2012 11:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yep, Google MGTOW my brothers, sounds like: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12632287 someone can't get a date or someone got dumped or someone is fugly or someone is gay and in denial take your pick that is what angry feminists say.when man stays away from relationship with women,feminist laws don't work....MGTOW is going to affect feminism in big way |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 15889784 05/15/2012 11:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Masculinity is no longer embraced in Western culture. In the past men were self-regulating in terms of their masculinity, and gave themselves few boundaries as to what was culturally acceptable. Beating their wives or children if they chose to, without consequence; embracing alcohol consumption to the point women demanded (and got) prohibition in the U.S.; so on and so on. Women today may act feminine, neutral or masculine. They can wear dresses, skirts, shorts, pants.... makeup and jewellery or not... hair long or short, styled or plain. They can play sports on all girl teams or mix in with boy teams. They are now were men were 100 years ago, with very broad boundaries to express themselves. Men on the other hand have seen their masculinity restricted. Males express themselves far more physically than females, and the avenues for their expression has been crimped. No rough housing allowed. Wear a helmut. Hunting is bad, guns are evil. He can't rebuild his carburetor today because his car has computer chips telling the fuel injectors what to do. Detroit doesn't make masculine cars worth working on anymore, so it doesn't really matter. The police are the protectorate, not him. If she has a child without his consent, he's committed to 18 years of child support and her lifetime in alimony, married or not. Don't tell me if he doesn't want children, then to keep his pants on. Women can sidestep contraception without his knowing it, if they so choose. The process isn't equitable and human nature will take advantage of any inequity. The pendulum will come to a mutually agreeable centre eventually, but it will take a couple more generations for it to be found. Mother Nature loves balance. The Chinese will find fairly soon that killing daughters under their One Child policy will have left a few hundred million sons without anyone to marry. Our culture will find out that the social engineering of men through law will leave millions of Western women with no one interested in marrying them. They might find themselves having to learn Mandarin to find a husband. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/15/2012 11:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women were pushed into the work force by the so called feminists so that the government would have larger tax base to loot. and what work these so called feminists do? gloria stenum never worked honest job in her entire life.Women tend to do easier jobs in office,cafes.They never show inclination to do difficult job.They shy away from leadership positions because they are inherently unstable. just look what indira gandhi did to india.she was insane |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6739256 05/15/2012 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | we call that the PRINCESS SYNDROME the princess career woman have standards so high, they'd rather hold out for "Mr. Bigs", than settle, so they wind up in their late 30s-early40's wondering what the hell happened to their Prince see WHERE'd ALL THE GOOD MEN GO articles and then find out they have completely missed out on the opportunity to marry and have children |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1103915 05/15/2012 11:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your post is articulate, well thought out and sad to say, correct. I married in the 80's - to my childhood sweet heart; thought she was a gem of a girl. we had two kids and about year nine she brought home an 18 year old girl who "needed a place to stay". Two years later we divorced and they lied to the cops, the courts, their church, the kids and god himself about me, and their relationship. Not a damn word of truth but since two women had the same story everyone beleived them - so she got the kids in the divorce and I got to work two jobs to pay the child support and alimony and only see my kids every other weekend. this is not what I wanted - it's what she wanted - and I thought I knew her. She wanted me out of the picture but was not mature enough to jsut say "hey I'm in love with someone else"...no they made it a point to destroy me in every way. And the kids are the ones who suffered. Once my son was 20 he told his mother he knew she lied and was abusive then left - and no one has heard from him since - it's been five years and he believes no one cares about him and he doesn't need us. So much for the tight-knit loving home I envisioned...but she got everything she wanted. feminazi's are everywhere. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6739256 05/15/2012 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think this is insightful and true. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4000169 I feel sorry for the young people today. by people you mean the Young Men, the 85% plus women are chasing and screwing 10% of the men, then holding their nose to settle for a Non Mr Bigs to pay for their bastard children, women have a good deal going, well they used to, men are starting to realize its a bad deal to pay for a thugs bastards |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/15/2012 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Masculinity is no longer embraced in Western culture. In the past men were self-regulating in terms of their masculinity, and gave themselves few boundaries as to what was culturally acceptable. Beating their wives or children if they chose to, without consequence; embracing alcohol consumption to the point women demanded (and got) prohibition in the U.S.; so on and so on. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15889784 Women today may act feminine, neutral or masculine. They can wear dresses, skirts, shorts, pants.... makeup and jewellery or not... hair long or short, styled or plain. They can play sports on all girl teams or mix in with boy teams. They are now were men were 100 years ago, with very broad boundaries to express themselves. Men on the other hand have seen their masculinity restricted. Males express themselves far more physically than females, and the avenues for their expression has been crimped. No rough housing allowed. Wear a helmut. Hunting is bad, guns are evil. He can't rebuild his carburetor today because his car has computer chips telling the fuel injectors what to do. Detroit doesn't make masculine cars worth working on anymore, so it doesn't really matter. The police are the protectorate, not him. If she has a child without his consent, he's committed to 18 years of child support and her lifetime in alimony, married or not. Don't tell me if he doesn't want children, then to keep his pants on. Women can sidestep contraception without his knowing it, if they so choose. The process isn't equitable and human nature will take advantage of any inequity. The pendulum will come to a mutually agreeable centre eventually, but it will take a couple more generations for it to be found. Mother Nature loves balance. The Chinese will find fairly soon that killing daughters under their One Child policy will have left a few hundred million sons without anyone to marry. Our culture will find out that the social engineering of men through law will leave millions of Western women with no one interested in marrying them. They might find themselves having to learn Mandarin to find a husband. that is the reality of it.It has already happened.Just look at the number of single women with children or just plain old spinsters living in western societies.The numbers are staggering.In UK ,almost 3-5 million elderly women stay alone and these were the staunchest feminists you could ever meet. As usual,feminists are blaming it on males and patriarchy.Since feminism doesn't depend on logic and just emotions;they will never get solution.All they can do is rant about males on net,in news,in Hollywood movies,in novels.This propaganda will again reinforce hatred felt by men against feminists. I see no end in sight.MRA/MRM/MGTOW are very very small movements and very few men support them. When the current baby boomer generation start retiring ,things will change |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6739256 05/15/2012 11:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | +1, the Feminists are worried about MGTOW, so much so that they had it classified as Terrorism by the Southern Poverty Law Center, proving that the SPLC is a bastard hooker of the the leftist tards feminists and manginas get very angry when they hear,read reality from young men of today.They think ,with constant propaganda on every media,from childhood to death,might convert every male alive into raving feminist.It had an opposite effect. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16132341 when young men hear of women's oppression,they just laugh.In fact,the feminist propaganda is no longer working and the converted feminists have seen how their own lives turned out in the end when they never and families or their children no longer respect them |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14681954 05/15/2012 11:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | holy cow, lots of reasons in there I am assuming. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9160988 my reason? because its another part of the system. love doesnt need a legal document whether you marry or not,common law marriage is assumed if you stay with women longer than 6 months.BTW,there is nothing like love.every relationship with modern women involves money. Not so, I have never taken a dime from a man. Every man I have ever been with has been a financial drain. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/15/2012 11:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Marriage is a religious creation. Quoting: exploited 1503499 Considering most people don't practice religion anymore, or subscribe to its morals and values, why would a non religious marriage work? every religion focused on marriage.christianity,islam,judaism,hinduism,sikhism etc.when you remove contract with god and replace it with "govt";marriage vows become null |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/15/2012 11:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You live in a fantasy world where people are in little boxes. Realize there is no box but the one you make and you won't make ridiculous statements like this thread. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14899339 :troll: so when feminists make blanket statements like "we are going to kill every man alive" " we no longer need men" " every man alive is rapist,murderer and psychopath" is it thinking out of box? these are not ridiculous statements? |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/15/2012 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your post is articulate, well thought out and sad to say, correct. I married in the 80's - to my childhood sweet heart; thought she was a gem of a girl. we had two kids and about year nine she brought home an 18 year old girl Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1103915 who "needed a place to stay". Two years later we divorced and they lied to the cops, the courts, their church, the kids and god himself about me, and their relationship. Not a damn word of truth but since two women had the same story everyone beleived them - so she got the kids in the divorce and I got to work two jobs to pay the child support and alimony and only see my kids every other weekend. this is not what I wanted - it's what she wanted - and I thought I knew her. She wanted me out of the picture but was not mature enough to jsut say "hey I'm in love with someone else"...no they made it a point to destroy me in every way. And the kids are the ones who suffered. Once my son was 20 he told his mother he knew she lied and was abusive then left - and no one has heard from him since - it's been five years and he believes no one cares about him and he doesn't need us. So much for the tight-knit loving home I envisioned...but she got everything she wanted. feminazi's are everywhere. this is not my post.i took it from the spearhead.sorry about what you suffered man.Does your son talks to you.Sons usually turn to their fathers in their thirties.i know that for fact. and what you said is true.courts never believe what men say and just believe every lie told by women.i have experienced it. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6739256 05/15/2012 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Feminism is the work of atheists and closet satanists, they removed Christianity from the family and gave us the secular DO AS YOU PLEASE society, this society is their dream come true, women with 15+ children all 15 from different fathers 8 year old boys getting sex changes raised by lesbians gay marriages, this society is un natural now. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/15/2012 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | we call that the PRINCESS SYNDROME Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6739256 the princess career woman have standards so high, they'd rather hold out for "Mr. Bigs", than settle, so they wind up in their late 30s-early40's wondering what the hell happened to their Prince see WHERE'd ALL THE GOOD MEN GO articles and then find out they have completely missed out on the opportunity to marry and have children women are no longer submissive to men. and young males have trouble financially raising a family on a high school diploma. women dont want to marry low income males Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6324055 the princes also live very empty life |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/16/2012 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think this is insightful and true. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4000169 I feel sorry for the young people today. by people you mean the Young Men, the 85% plus women are chasing and screwing 10% of the men, then holding their nose to settle for a Non Mr Bigs to pay for their bastard children, women have a good deal going, well they used to, men are starting to realize its a bad deal to pay for a thugs bastards more men realize that it is better |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/16/2012 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | +1, Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6739256 the Feminists are worried about MGTOW, so much so that they had it classified as Terrorism by the Southern Poverty Law Center, proving that the SPLC is a bastard hooker of the the leftist tards feminists and manginas get very angry when they hear,read reality from young men of today.They think ,with constant propaganda on every media,from childhood to death,might convert every male alive into raving feminist.It had an opposite effect. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16132341 when young men hear of women's oppression,they just laugh.In fact,the feminist propaganda is no longer working and the converted feminists have seen how their own lives turned out in the end when they never and families or their children no longer respect them i find it funny.The same SPLC have their own golf course,swimming pool and they get something like 200 million from donors and govt. SPLC is a hate group |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1195793 05/16/2012 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women are too fat nowadays. It artificially raises the egos of all women and is becoming the norm. Men reinforce fatties because they are so desperate for pussy they'll settle for whatever they can get. The hot ones don't want to commit or are gold-diggers, unattainable to the average man. The good ones are taken. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6739256 05/16/2012 12:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | your wife brought home a 18 year old girl lesbian lover, disguised as taking care of someone who needs to stay? that's vile, but really not very surprising these days. You arent alone man, google MGTOW, and hopefully you get in touch with your son Your post is articulate, well thought out and sad to say, correct. I married in the 80's - to my childhood sweet heart; thought she was a gem of a girl. we had two kids and about year nine she brought home an 18 year old girl Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1103915 who "needed a place to stay". Two years later we divorced and they lied to the cops, the courts, their church, the kids and god himself about me, and their relationship. Not a damn word of truth but since two women had the same story everyone beleived them - so she got the kids in the divorce and I got to work two jobs to pay the child support and alimony and only see my kids every other weekend. this is not what I wanted - it's what she wanted - and I thought I knew her. She wanted me out of the picture but was not mature enough to jsut say "hey I'm in love with someone else"...no they made it a point to destroy me in every way. And the kids are the ones who suffered. Once my son was 20 he told his mother he knew she lied and was abusive then left - and no one has heard from him since - it's been five years and he believes no one cares about him and he doesn't need us. So much for the tight-knit loving home I envisioned...but she got everything she wanted. feminazi's are everywhere. |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16132341 05/16/2012 12:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | holy cow, lots of reasons in there I am assuming. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9160988 my reason? because its another part of the system. love doesnt need a legal document whether you marry or not,common law marriage is assumed if you stay with women longer than 6 months.BTW,there is nothing like love.every relationship with modern women involves money. Not so, I have never taken a dime from a man. Every man I have ever been with has been a financial drain. you are an exception to rule.but there are always exceptions |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14205300 05/16/2012 12:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Bump for moar discussion. But in short there is no reason for me to marry. None except if she had great health insurance or was rich or something. I get love, food, family, we have a dog together....why complicate that? Me and my gf's parents are both divorced. We've seen the mess marriage can create. I see far more miserable marriages than I see happy ones. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 15795392 05/16/2012 12:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is this really even a subject worth talking about? Call me romantically idealistic, but if I am in to a guy, and he likes me there is nothing this fucking complicated involved. You go on dates, he pays, you calm him down when he's angry, he tells you you're beautiful, you boost his ego by being with him and enjoying it. There's exchanges, sacrifices, and losses in every relationship with any depth. If you feel so inclined you get married, if you realize you aren't 'in love' and aren't ready to settle down you don't. It's because we like to think that shit is so multidimensional and complex that it becomes exactly that. He has a penis and I have a vagina which is why we are attracted in the first place. Humans weren't required to live together for centuries and share every single memory together (because we're built simply to reproduce) but the beautiful thing is that WE CAN and we shouldn't take it for granted (or fucking overanalyze it like you) Well, good luck finding someone that can stand you, and your theory!! ![]() |