Really enjoyed reading this thread.


The way the world is today I have to agree, it is very difficult to filter out the 'worthy' people to consider as friends, let alone marriage material.

Propganda on both sexes has destroyed the old sentiment of romance and a long happy marriage. So much truth has already been said about feminism's effect on society and its destructive agenda.

From my observations of many of the girlfriends that I have that are single and still looking for mr right... well they slutted around in their 20s, got educated, built up their careers in their 30's had a few steady boyfriends, and then it hit them and they woke up one day and panicked.

So some of them married the first guy they could get to the alter, pumped out 2 or 3 kids... realized working outside the home and raising kids was not was they thought it would be, (i.e its too much work), got hooked on Sex in the City, got addicted to the Bachelorette series, got addicted to Facebook, and proceeded to blame the husband for their unhappiness AFTER bringing 2 or 3 kids into the picture.

So now just about all my closest friends are either divorced or in process of divorce. The kids ultimately suffer the most and both sides are financially ruined.

And for what? Because women couldn't put a career outside the home on the back burner while the kids are being raised?

It is my belief if you are going to have kids that you be ready(financially and mentally) to stay home and raise them. Why would anyone want all that stress of working so hard outside the home and raising the kids? How is dropping your kids off at daycare good for any family? I totally get that some families need the income, but having children is not a RIGHT. If you can't afford them, you should not be having them.

So that brings me to my next thought... Is it any wonder when the workplace is FLOODED with bitchy, hormonal, self-absorbed women, that the men can't land the good paying jobs, because woman will do tha same job, but for less money? So now we have gnerations of men being pushed out of good jobs that at one time could support a family because so many 'career' women are willing to work for less.

Talk about getting pimped and whored. You women that think you are all high & mighty with your corporate types of jobs or your greed for the never ending material trappings all know deep down inside you want to be home in the garden and wearing sexy lingerie for when you man comes home. Anyone woman that tells you she loves getting up at 5am, feeding the kids, shuffling off to daycare, driving in traffic, then dealing with the workplace bs is a liar.

You have all been played. And now there is no turning back. You can never leave your jobs, because your kids are in private schools, you have 2 luxury SUV payments, a mortgage you are always late paying and you HAVE to keep up with the Joneses. There is no way you will ever let your neighbors or your friends know how much you struggle in life or how you don't even have $10.00 in your Prada wallets.

Instead you've all slowly turned into butch looking lesbos with short hair and no feminity what so ever who resent their husbands because he didn't upgrade your 3 carat diamond last Christmas after the 3rd child was born.

And you play golf. WTF is wrong with women?

So here we are. Men and women no longer have any respect for each other because there are no definitions anymore about what makes us different. We all wanted equality and we all got it.

It used to be nice to be friends with the opposite sex. Now it is all about competition.

And lets not forget what porn has done to men. Oh sure they want to look at big tits and dirty sex acts and then they want a nice good girl to marry.... but there are enough threads already on this topic.

The world is definitely a fucked up place right now. I feel bad for people who are trying to find a mate. How can we trust either side, when men and women can't even be friends.

Here is the secret... when you fall in love in your 20's... GO FOR IT!!! Don't wait thinking something better will come along. It won't. The more both sides fuck around the more disease, etc. WHo the hell wants to marry someone who's had 100s of lovers? That is gross, just gross. Plus, everyone knows that when you are over 40 and single you are considered damaged goods, doesn't matter if you are male or female. And I don't necessarily think that, but that is the stigma of being single, never married when you are over 40... ESPECIALLY if you are a woman.

There are no true male/female friendships anymore. You don't see people working at being friends, just hookups for sex. I've always believed that friendship was the key to a potential marriage, and still do. but friendship takes work and sacrifice... and honesty.

oh yeah... and the other reason the world is so fucked up?

Most people barely know their own fathers...

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