Don' t forget that men marry for sex and women marry for love. Men will marry the girl they get the sex from. By then the girl has fallen in love with the guy. Then 6 months to a year or so down the road there's a baby on the way and the guy realizes he doesn't really like the girl so he divorces her. The girl is left to raise the kid alone. The guy may pay child support for a while but most of the men skip out on that so the girl is forced to get a job to support her and the kid. The kid is raised by child care or other strangers while mommy goes to work.

Young people today need to take responsibility for their actions. If they want sex, then they should use birth control, which men never want to do. It takes two to have sex and make a baby but only one gets stuck raising it. Girls have been forced to be the head of the household so guys like the OP who are belly-aching about it ought to stop and think about the man's part in all of this.

There are men who are fully responsible and are good husbands and fathers but there are many more who are jerks and only out for sex. Women ought not fall for these guys but they do. And so generation after generation the same thing happens.