why young men never want to marry ? read this

Women marry for money and status

Don' t forget that men marry for sex and women marry for love. Men will marry the girl they get the sex from. By then the girl has fallen in love with the guy. Then 6 months to a year or so down the road there's a baby on the way and the guy realizes he doesn't really like the girl so he divorces her. The girl is left to raise the kid alone. The guy may pay child support for a while but most of the men skip out on that so the girl is forced to get a job to support her and the kid. The kid is raised by child care or other strangers while mommy goes to work.

Young people today need to take responsibility for their actions. If they want sex, then they should use birth control, which men never want to do. It takes two to have sex and make a baby but only one gets stuck raising it. Girls have been forced to be the head of the household so guys like the OP who are belly-aching about it ought to stop and think about the man's part in all of this.

There are men who are fully responsible and are good husbands and fathers but there are many more who are jerks and only out for sex. Women ought not fall for these guys but they do. And so generation after generation the same thing happens.

Typical woman wanted to marry a high status powerhouse, and did. Your plans got foiled when his mother helped him get the best lawyers money can buy. You probably still could have come out with something if you played your victim card better.

You voluntarily gave up on the first. You voluntarily let him have 30k in the second. Your point is that you got fucked over? Oooooookay.

He didn't let me have what was rightfully mine; so yes:

That wouldn't have justified my fucking him over, would it?

Would it have been fucking him over to ask for it in court? If it was rightfully yours I guess you would have gotten it.

Or was it rightfully yours in a way the law doesn't recognize?

If you talk about this in Finland, you get only ONE answer from women:

"You just do not get laid"
"You just do not get laid"
"You just do not get laid"

Etc...

Yes, western men are such emasculated IDIOTS that it is going to require another generation or two of MAN HATING FEMINISM in order to teach them the truth.

Eventually though, feminism will, just like a cancer, destroy it's host and men will REFUSE to get married anymore. Then you are going to see women's attitudes changing overnight, as they realize they no longer have a free ride from men anymore.

If you want to see where feminist countries are headed, just look at POST-feminist countries like Russia or the Ukraine. In those two countries, men have almost zero respect for women and most men don't get married and just spend their time drinking, playing games, having fun.

By the same token, women in Russia and the Ukraine are on their very best behavior because they realize how hard it is to find a husband, so they very rarely ever spew man-hatred, at least to the same degree western women do.

Once enough men wake the fuck up and realize that feminism is evil and that marriage to feminist women is insane, then we will see a huge shift in the attitudes of women. Until then, women will continue to abuse men, because the men are too stupid and pathetic to stand up for themselves and fight back against feminism.

In that sense, western men DESERVE to get abused and screwed in divorce. Manginas DESERVE to get ass raped in divorce, because they are the ones that are supporting feminism.

Although most manginas are such pathetic bastards, that even AFTER getting screwed over in divorce by a western woman, they still won't speak out against feminism. Such pathetic mangina men are the scum of the earth and I hope they are all killed off when the next World War happens. Manginas truly are USELESS EATERS.

You also had kids that were not from either marriage. Looks like I was right about the irresponsible part.

Marriage is like serving time in prison with a big fat cellmate who DOESN’T want to have sex with you.

Then you're the wrong (city) asian.
Real asians marry only 16yrs virgin (country) girls!

I am their sole means of support. I never filed for child support and I've never filed for government assistance. I've never taken a handout of any kind. I have taken the ultimate responsibility of a family on my own, so please explain to me how anyone could ever call me irresponsible?

I've had the same job for 18 yrs. I worked my way up from an entry level position.

Why does your id number keep changing? That is your third one. I guess one does tend to be paranoid when they are as dishonest as I think you're being.

Not even so , Young men these days simply just don't fill the part . They*mostly* are wimpy , have no real morals or values .

My Fiancee is considerably older than me , He wants to get married . He works his ass off to support me and his family . Guess what? his Father and mother are still married after 43 years.

He was raised right , and im glad to find a man like my future husband because that rarley exsists anymore.

I'm posting from the same phone, so I don't know.

I am an anomaly, not the norm, I know, but it doesn't make me a liar, it makes me one in a million.

One in a million for what? You have a hatred for men, remember?

OP, you make a lot of good points, but you are blaming women for your lack of manhood. Make the effort to not be a cheater, player, manwhore, disloyal prick, PUA, etc. so that you are dignified of being called a man.

Why don't you man up and be a manly role model to others?

What does my being one in a million have to do with men? I don't hate men, I just don't want one.

Again, can you answer the question?

what the young guy is saying is feminism made his generation complete misogynastic

What does my being one in a million have to do with men? I don't hate men, I just don't want one.

Again, can you answer the question?

I'm a man, and I don't see why these guys are ragging on you. If things happened as you say, then you are entitled to respect and some sympathy, same as a man in the same situation.

I am their sole means of support. I never filed for child support and I've never filed for government assistance. I've never taken a handout of any kind. I have taken the ultimate responsibility of a family on my own, so please explain to me how anyone could ever call me irresponsible?

I've had the same job for 18 yrs. I worked my way up from an entry level position.

I'm a man, and I don't see why these guys are ragging on you. If things happened as you say, then you are entitled to respect and some sympathy, same as a man in the same situation.

This question. How am I irresponsible?

It's because she's lying for the purpose of causing division among the guys. It looks like its working.