Well, the truth is that I am married; my husband and I hit a VERY rough patch and had been discussing divorce. I suppose my husband realized that he was really losing me (he found out I was chatting with someone else), he has started paying more attention and things have been going really well.

We have a child together and so it's more of an incentive to make things work.

Perhaps it was a blessing for my marriage, and a wake up call for me.