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Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 03:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know how GLP doesn't like long posts, but I think this is a very important topic. "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
TheKid User ID: 17497469 United States 06/06/2012 03:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | great post Agree Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect. Chief Seattle All, too, will bear in mind this sacred principle, that though the will of the majority is in all cases to prevail, that will to be rightful must be reasonable; that the minority possess their equal rights, which equal law must protect, and to violate would be oppression. Thomas Jefferson Force does not constitute right... obedience is due only to legitimate powers. Jean-Jacques Rousseau |
Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 03:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1284302 United States 06/06/2012 04:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well written. This is exactly the process of Nazification of a populace, too. Induce a victim mentality within a people, organize the "victims", then unleash them against "those responsible". OWS is small example of this mechanism at work. Merely the cartoon prior to the full-length feature that's scheduled, btw. |
Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 04:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thanks for doing your part to expose this element in the mind control paradigm. 5 stars Quoting: ADEND Yep. It is like it is right in front of everyone, but no one can see it. "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
Always Looking User ID: 14721831 United States 06/06/2012 04:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nice post SS, Too bad in the near future people will have no idea what you are speaking too in that writing. The world is becoming so dumbed down that they are almost in a trance like state... It sometimes sucks to be awake! Truth and Facts - The two words liberals hate most! Suffering is burning emotional energy on the uncontrollable! The architect of the universe did not build a stairway to nowhere! |
Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 04:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nice post SS, Too bad in the near future people will have no idea what you are speaking too in that writing. The world is becoming so dumbed down that they are almost in a trance like state... Quoting: Always Looking It sometimes sucks to be awake! Yeah, it seems that it is heading that way. I agree, and it is disconcerting. I can't speak really for the people of the world in general, but you can definitely witness the dumbing down of America. And, its not even education! It is common sense. That is why it's disconcerting. "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
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Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 04:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Was it good timing? "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17297767 United States 06/06/2012 04:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is a good post and true but what really is important to say is that this is only possible for those that live in and from the mind/ego. For victimization is an ego trait and doesn't apply to those who live in and from the heart as the heart sees beyond this ego trick and it can't affect you unless you let it and then again it takes your ego to allow it, not the heart. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1578937 Canada 06/06/2012 04:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. |
Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 04:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is a good post and true but what really is important to say is that this is only possible for those that live in and from the mind/ego. For victimization is an ego trait and doesn't apply to those who live in and from the heart as the heart sees beyond this ego trick and it can't affect you unless you let it and then again it takes your ego to allow it, not the heart. Quoting: Seeker of Truth Yes, I wrote the article below in the same time-frame as the original post, as they are related. That was a great catch, Seeker of Truth. Thread: The Ego and Societal Transparency Do not try to put your ego away. Don't try to put it down. It is a natural process. In natural processes, the harder you try to push something away, the harder it is to push away. You have to recognize it and let the emotions that it brings forth go through you without dwelling on it. This is all simplicity. Wisdom is recognizing the thought energy (because you have experienced it before) and not acting upon it. It is like in meditation when a thought comes to you but you do not dwell on it. It passes through you and upon coming out of meditation you do not even remember what those thoughts were. This is part of the process of awakening. It is awareness of our eternal selves no matter the form. Spiritual growth is the ability to transcend dualism. It is not the ability to push it away. The time fast approaches to redefine your ego-self. This will be a difficult shift for the forces of everyday living in materialism will restrict the casting off of unnecessary Service-to-Self ego patterns that subsume so many. This pattern has rooted itself into most aspects of modern human relations as is being increased greatly due to the advent of the ‘I Want/Need That’ generation governing global economies. Realization of this redefining of the ego is a central theme in gaining insight into ways of achieving mastery of certain divine practices and, perhaps more importantly, dissolving fear based paradigms. Imagine societies living in a state of Service-to-Others as all people have redefined the long held perspective that Service-to-Self is not the answer. This grand vision of people living and working for others, for the common good of societies in whole, cannot manifest when a small percentage of people still live and work as Service-to-Self. The destructive patterns inherent in Service-to-Self ideologies, patterns of manipulation and falsehoods, would easily trump those who are living in Service-to-Others. There would be only one true way of diverting Service-to-Self, and that is: transparency. True transparency of all records and agendas contained within societies would be mandatory for all societal endeavors. And all endeavors are for the purpose of expanding life with an enlightened mindset that we are all of one. The future fallacies that evolve from hidden motives and manipulative agendas will no more dominate, for they are exposed from the first manifestation of thought in those not enlightened enough to grasp and contain the awesome responsibility that would spring forth from this vision. Everyone, every idea, is put forward not for one’s own self gain, but the gain for the entirety of humankind. Service-to-Self would dissolve as soon everyone would have what they desire in the Service-to-Others ideology. That single card of ascension, transparency, will be the cornerstone of the new world. Just that one idea would change the world, change human life; it would catapult us into the second Garden of Eden. That transparency will occur when the human species comes to know, through an expanded awareness of life, that we are all One and the same without separation from ourselves, or the universe we are a part of. This may sound like some grand notion beyond the Egocentric infested mind of the human collective. But I tell you this: this awareness of transparency is now in the process of being realized as a Collective Conscious. At its base simple beginnings we can see it in our global communications systems. We have the ability to access massive amounts of individual thoughts and feelings contained within an ideological bubble of people as easily as accessing the web. It is getting more and more difficult for persons of the old manifesto to keep their secrets, keep their populace from knowing what is going on in the world by censoring media. For in the very censoring of that global media to certain peoples is an act of deceit which the victims will not stand for. In order to reach this early state of transparency, individuals must be open to the idea and acknowledge the base truth of where this ideal must sprout from, and gain its momentum from. This first stage, first step, is the most difficult and trying stage of Global Consciousness due to the strength of the individual ego that we as humans indoctrinate our youth into. And later in life the conscious effort of absolving egocentric acts becomes much more difficult to practice. The surrendering of egocentric behavioral patterns during the daily routines of work and relationships and the consequences assured to ensue, runs counterproductive and counterintuitive to the reality of the business world. How can we come to practice this weaning away from the Service-to-Self fear based paradigm that our global cultures resonate with, without the consequences of inevitable job instability and loss of income that the majority of us would experience if we decided to release our oh-so-important ego from our daily activities? Well, a different environment is needed, a different place that we could practice and actually experience the process without jeopardizing our livelihoods. Where…? What are you talking about? I am telling you that that ideal environment resides close to your spirit… in lucid dreams. Experiencing this awakening awareness, you will begin to realize, is a gradual process. The concepts are too evolved for the human condition to make in one leap. It is structured to be taken in steps. And as each successful step is reached and consciously manifested into your daily life, the next step is realized as possible and attainable… and taken. And as each step attained is further built upon, new doorways of enlightenment will open before you. And soon it is discovered that the steps and doorways are never-ending. Last Edited by Swinging on Spirals on 06/06/2012 04:34 PM "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 04:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am too nice and never say no to people. Most of these people seem really nice and I want to help them, but it always gets out of hand. I always end up becoming their slave bitch. it makes money, but I dont care for money. I do not need money. It makes me depressed and I am in so deep in some cases that these people rely on me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1578937 I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. Yes, I have advice. Make yourself number 1. You will be able to become more when you make yourself number one. It is not about making people feel bad. It is about not letting people take advantage of you. Imagine what you can do, what anyone could do, if people stopped letting people take advantage of things! It is not healthy to either party to continue the pattern after it is known that they are 'using' you. There is a helping hand out of true need, and there is someone taking advantage of a helping hand because they know they can. The latter is a self-defeating construct. It can never be sustained as it ends up feeding off itself. Do not let people make you feel bad for not giving help! Giving help when it is truly needed is one of the most beautiful, incredible, awe-inspiring gifts we can feel. Don't let others take that feeling away from you, or taint that gift with selfishness. Last Edited by Swinging on Spirals on 06/06/2012 04:42 PM "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
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Beso User ID: 17499362 United States 06/06/2012 04:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am too nice and never say no to people. Most of these people seem really nice and I want to help them, but it always gets out of hand. I always end up becoming their slave bitch. it makes money, but I dont care for money. I do not need money. It makes me depressed and I am in so deep in some cases that these people rely on me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1578937 I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. Yes, I have advice. Make yourself number 1. You will be able to become more when you make yourself number one. It is not about making people feel bad. It is about not letting people take advantage of you. Imagine what you can do, what anyone could do, if people stopped letting people take advantage of things! It is not healthy to either party to continue the pattern after it is known that they are 'using' you. There is a helping hand out of true need, and there is someone taking advantage of a helping hand because they know they can. The latter is a self-defeating construct. It can never be sustained as it ends up feeding off itself. Do not let people make you feel bad for not giving help! Giving help when it is truly needed is one of the most beautiful, incredible, awe-inspiring gifts we can feel. Don't let others take that feeling away from you, or taint that gift with selfishness. Nice ~ and how do you get rid of guilt? Is there a quick way to eliminate this emotion? Cuz that one sucks~ ~If everyone would take responsibility for their actions or lack of, then we could all be free~ |
Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 04:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So rise up and take responsibility for your life. Cast the disempowering thought contextualized in that of being a victim. In so doing you put the control of your life, your spirit, back in your hands. In the words of Carlos Castaneda, Live like a Warrior. Quoting: Swinging on Spirals I'm not a victim, never will be. I'm a survivor or I'll be a proud dead woman but never a victim Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11230951 "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1578937 Canada 06/06/2012 04:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am too nice and never say no to people. Most of these people seem really nice and I want to help them, but it always gets out of hand. I always end up becoming their slave bitch. it makes money, but I dont care for money. I do not need money. It makes me depressed and I am in so deep in some cases that these people rely on me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1578937 I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. Yes, I have advice. Make yourself number 1. You will be able to become more when you make yourself number one. It is not about making people feel bad. It is about not letting people take advantage of you. Imagine what you can do, what anyone could do, if people stopped letting people take advantage of things! It is not healthy to either party to continue the pattern after it is known that they are 'using' you. There is a helping hand out of true need, and there is someone taking advantage of a helping hand because they know they can. The latter is a self-defeating construct. It can never be sustained as it ends up feeding off itself. Do not let people make you feel bad for not giving help! Giving help when it is truly needed is one of the most beautiful, incredible, awe-inspiring gifts we can feel. Don't let others take that feeling away from you, or taint that gift with selfishness. Hmm lookin out for number 1. I'm going to try it tomorrow. see what happens. I actually feel that some day I may snap. like that movie with jim carey.... what was that movie? Thanks for the advice :) I am too nice and never say no to people. Most of these people seem really nice and I want to help them, but it always gets out of hand. I always end up becoming their slave bitch. it makes money, but I dont care for money. I do not need money. It makes me depressed and I am in so deep in some cases that these people rely on me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1578937 I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. Yes, I have advice. Make yourself number 1. You will be able to become more when you make yourself number one. It is not about making people feel bad. It is about not letting people take advantage of you. Imagine what you can do, what anyone could do, if people stopped letting people take advantage of things! It is not healthy to either party to continue the pattern after it is known that they are 'using' you. There is a helping hand out of true need, and there is someone taking advantage of a helping hand because they know they can. The latter is a self-defeating construct. It can never be sustained as it ends up feeding off itself. Do not let people make you feel bad for not giving help! Giving help when it is truly needed is one of the most beautiful, incredible, awe-inspiring gifts we can feel. Don't let others take that feeling away from you, or taint that gift with selfishness. Nice ~ and how do you get rid of guilt? Is there a quick way to eliminate this emotion? Cuz that one sucks~ /this is the problem that I foresee. GUILT. uggg. |
Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 04:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am too nice and never say no to people. Most of these people seem really nice and I want to help them, but it always gets out of hand. I always end up becoming their slave bitch. it makes money, but I dont care for money. I do not need money. It makes me depressed and I am in so deep in some cases that these people rely on me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1578937 I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. Yes, I have advice. Make yourself number 1. You will be able to become more when you make yourself number one. It is not about making people feel bad. It is about not letting people take advantage of you. Imagine what you can do, what anyone could do, if people stopped letting people take advantage of things! It is not healthy to either party to continue the pattern after it is known that they are 'using' you. There is a helping hand out of true need, and there is someone taking advantage of a helping hand because they know they can. The latter is a self-defeating construct. It can never be sustained as it ends up feeding off itself. Do not let people make you feel bad for not giving help! Giving help when it is truly needed is one of the most beautiful, incredible, awe-inspiring gifts we can feel. Don't let others take that feeling away from you, or taint that gift with selfishness. Nice ~ and how do you get rid of guilt? Is there a quick way to eliminate this emotion? Cuz that one sucks~ Guilt is a tough one because it is buried deep in the psyche. I would examine the feeling and see if it is truly relevant to have that feeling in the given situation. Guilt can somewhat be an automated response in people. I relate it somewhat to panic. If you have the mental fortitude to examine why you are feeling it while you are feeling it, then you can begin controlling it. Its like if you feel an onset of panic taking hold, but instead you take control of situation, then the automatic response can begin to be controlled. If you are doing something out of guilt, than you really need to examine what you are doing. This goes back to getting control of your life back in your hands, instead of letting emotions rule it. It is great to have emotions, but when the ones that make you feel bad (anger, guilt, jealousy, etc) begin running the way you live your life, then you have to change. The bad emotions or feelings are of the same self-defeating construct. If you don't control it, and they control you, then you get it feeding off itself, and that type of construct cannot be sustained. Last Edited by Swinging on Spirals on 06/06/2012 05:00 PM "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17297767 United States 06/06/2012 05:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am too nice and never say no to people. Most of these people seem really nice and I want to help them, but it always gets out of hand. I always end up becoming their slave bitch. it makes money, but I dont care for money. I do not need money. It makes me depressed and I am in so deep in some cases that these people rely on me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1578937 I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. Yes, I have advice. Make yourself number 1. You will be able to become more when you make yourself number one. It is not about making people feel bad. It is about not letting people take advantage of you. Imagine what you can do, what anyone could do, if people stopped letting people take advantage of things! It is not healthy to either party to continue the pattern after it is known that they are 'using' you. There is a helping hand out of true need, and there is someone taking advantage of a helping hand because they know they can. The latter is a self-defeating construct. It can never be sustained as it ends up feeding off itself. Do not let people make you feel bad for not giving help! Giving help when it is truly needed is one of the most beautiful, incredible, awe-inspiring gifts we can feel. Don't let others take that feeling away from you, or taint that gift with selfishness. Nice ~ and how do you get rid of guilt? Is there a quick way to eliminate this emotion? Cuz that one sucks~ If i may answer... Guilt too is an ego based trait that the ego manifests when it thinks it is losing control of your life. It is a common trick to try and regain control. The first step to overcoming is to realize this so you can then recognize it for what it is and then work on it so it can't affect you. The ultimate way to fix all ego tricks and prevent them from running your life is to quit being ego centric and move to a heart centric life. This means to live life from the heart instead of the mind/ego. The heart is the natural way to live a full and rewarding life without the usual pitfalls we find ourselves in. It is a hard transition to master but will pay off big time once mastered. You will find yourself happy, content and secure in your being without all the drama. Never give up or the ego will win. |
Swinging on Spirals (OP) User ID: 865798 United States 06/06/2012 05:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am too nice and never say no to people. Most of these people seem really nice and I want to help them, but it always gets out of hand. I always end up becoming their slave bitch. it makes money, but I dont care for money. I do not need money. It makes me depressed and I am in so deep in some cases that these people rely on me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1578937 I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. Yes, I have advice. Make yourself number 1. You will be able to become more when you make yourself number one. It is not about making people feel bad. It is about not letting people take advantage of you. Imagine what you can do, what anyone could do, if people stopped letting people take advantage of things! It is not healthy to either party to continue the pattern after it is known that they are 'using' you. There is a helping hand out of true need, and there is someone taking advantage of a helping hand because they know they can. The latter is a self-defeating construct. It can never be sustained as it ends up feeding off itself. Do not let people make you feel bad for not giving help! Giving help when it is truly needed is one of the most beautiful, incredible, awe-inspiring gifts we can feel. Don't let others take that feeling away from you, or taint that gift with selfishness. Nice ~ and how do you get rid of guilt? Is there a quick way to eliminate this emotion? Cuz that one sucks~ If i may answer... Guilt too if an ego based trait that the ego manifests when it thinks it is losing control of your life. It is a common trick to try and regain control. The first step to overcoming is to realize this so you can then recognize it for what it is and then work on it so it can't affect you. The ultimate way to fix all ego tricks and prevent them from running your life is to quit being ego centric and move to a heart centric life. This means to live life from the heart instead of the mind/ego. The heart is the natural way to live a full and rewarding life without the usual pitfalls we find ourselves in. It is a hard transition to master but will pay off big time once mastered. You will find yourself happy, content and secure without all the drama. Never give up or the ego will win. "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!" We do not Die, We Awaken to the Dream that We Lived. |
Beso User ID: 17499362 United States 06/06/2012 05:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am too nice and never say no to people. Most of these people seem really nice and I want to help them, but it always gets out of hand. I always end up becoming their slave bitch. it makes money, but I dont care for money. I do not need money. It makes me depressed and I am in so deep in some cases that these people rely on me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1578937 I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. Yes, I have advice. Make yourself number 1. You will be able to become more when you make yourself number one. It is not about making people feel bad. It is about not letting people take advantage of you. Imagine what you can do, what anyone could do, if people stopped letting people take advantage of things! It is not healthy to either party to continue the pattern after it is known that they are 'using' you. There is a helping hand out of true need, and there is someone taking advantage of a helping hand because they know they can. The latter is a self-defeating construct. It can never be sustained as it ends up feeding off itself. Do not let people make you feel bad for not giving help! Giving help when it is truly needed is one of the most beautiful, incredible, awe-inspiring gifts we can feel. Don't let others take that feeling away from you, or taint that gift with selfishness. Nice ~ and how do you get rid of guilt? Is there a quick way to eliminate this emotion? Cuz that one sucks~ If i may answer... Guilt too if an ego based trait that the ego manifests when it thinks it is losing control of your life. It is a common trick to try and regain control. The first step to overcoming is to realize this so you can then recognize it for what it is and then work on it so it can't affect you. The ultimate way to fix all ego tricks and prevent them from running your life is to quit being ego centric and move to a heart centric life. This means to live life from the heart instead of the mind/ego. The heart is the natural way to live a full and rewarding life without the usual pitfalls we find ourselves in. It is a hard transition to master but will pay off big time once mastered. You will find yourself happy, content and secure without all the drama. Never give up or the ego will win. ~If everyone would take responsibility for their actions or lack of, then we could all be free~ |
Brunhilda User ID: 1431957 United States 06/06/2012 05:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Has the condition of man really changed since the beginning of time, are we not still just surfs in the field laboring for the wealthy. Perhaps the field has changed and become an office but we are still only surfs. Few of us actually own our business or homes or land, they are most owned by the banks. |
Brunhilda User ID: 1431957 United States 06/06/2012 05:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am too nice and never say no to people. Most of these people seem really nice and I want to help them, but it always gets out of hand. I always end up becoming their slave bitch. it makes money, but I dont care for money. I do not need money. It makes me depressed and I am in so deep in some cases that these people rely on me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1578937 I need to take control of my life. but I don't want to make people feel bad. any advice? it seems similar to what you're saying. I am making others the victim, and feel i need to help them. fuck my life. Nobody stays in a situation they are not getting anything out of, with you it could be the feeling of worth it gives you having people depend on you. Take a close look at your relationships and ask yourself what you are getting out of it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 12289557 United States 06/06/2012 05:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well written. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1284302 This is exactly the process of Nazification of a populace, too. Induce a victim mentality within a people, organize the "victims", then unleash them against "those responsible". OWS is small example of this mechanism at work. Merely the cartoon prior to the full-length feature that's scheduled, btw. good point and observation |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17510433 Australia 06/06/2012 06:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well written. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1284302 This is exactly the process of Nazification of a populace, too. Induce a victim mentality within a people, organize the "victims", then unleash them against "those responsible". OWS is small example of this mechanism at work. Merely the cartoon prior to the full-length feature that's scheduled, btw. good point and observation juice, the ultimate victims |
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