When two people truly love each other, nothing and no one can separate them

How many people truly Love each-other?. Is there a person who has a partner who does not lust over other people?.Is there a person who does not Regret a Relationship?.Is there a Person who does not love other people they have been in a Relationship with?. You speak as if people have Soul Mates, this is a illusion...why?. It is common for people in a Relationship to assume that the person they are with are their Soul-Mate, this puts their Partner in high regard which is dangerous because it leads to manipulation and submission. Why do so many abused Woman continue to stay with their partner because they Love them? Too many. Every Relationship you have been in you assumed each partner was your Soul-Mate am I wrong?. Now if you see a Ugly Person do you assume they're your Soul-Mate? No because all your actually being drawn to is their looks and nothing else, Not their personality, or their Soul,But their looks.

"love" is not a word but an action

people spew out that word all the time but it's meaningless

action

About 25 years ago, I quit a job that I'd recently gotten because, after two weeks of training, it was revealed to me that one of my job duties was to bring the company's owner his morning coffee with a donut every day. I informed them which part of my anatomy they could smooch and promptly departed. My dad has never stopped beating me over the head with that - always saying that I "have issues."

Last Thanksgiving, my family all sat down to dinner. My husband sat down with our children and I went to get them their food. First, I brought the kids' plates. My husband began to cut their food for them and I asked him what he wanted on his plate. He told me and I went to get it. After making sure that they all had their food and drinks, I went to get my own plate.

While I was gone, my dad looked at my husband in shock and said, "Wow! You've really got her trained!" Without missing a beat, my husband responded, "Love serves."

He later told me that the look on my dad's face was priceless. I'd have given anything to have been a fly on the wall for that. My dad knows that I am a very strong-willed woman....he even warned my husband before we were married that I "went my own way." We laugh about it a lot.

The truth is - this is the spirit that governs our marriage. In all ways, we serve each other. It helps to have shared values, a humble heart and real gratitude for the contributions of the other. Without those things, it is difficult, if not impossible, to cultivate true love.

You're talking about Romantic love which is a hollow, empty, concoction of mimicry of the REAL THING.

The REAL THING is the Unconditional LOVE that one person should have for the entirety of humanity. Simply loving one person when everything is connected is selfish and ridiculous. One should be able to LOVE everyone and everything as fully as they selfishly choose to romantically love another.

Romantic Love is based on:
1. exclusive rights and ownership over another individual. If you don't think that this is the case, then see what happens the next time your significant other is hit on by a member of the opposite sex.
2. Control and compromise- Anytime a person must compromise themselves for another, it means that this person's love comes with conditions. In an unconditional LOVE based relationship, all is free to do whatever one chooses without the judgment of another person or persons. Additionally, most relationships fail because of one person's attempt to exert control over the other. In America, we have in excess of a 50% divorce rate and most relationships are of the sexual nature and don't make it past a year.
3. Slavery/Marriage/3rd party contract- Thats' right. Merely going to work and coming home is participating in voluntary slavery, but, when one must provide for another and two lives and their stability are dependent upon finances, then they become financially dependent and contractually obligated to the STATE "to work things out" in order to fulfill their 3rd party contract to "big brother," so that they can receive tax breaks and incentives.
4. Romantic Love is also based on societal constructs of Western relationships. Not only are you at the mercy of the other person's hopes and fantasies of what relationships are (God only can hope that the other person isn't a Disney fanatic) but then, you are held to politically correct standards of how society views ideal American relationships. Romantic love puts you at a constant state of conformity. -For anyone who has ever had a relationship for longer than a year, they can vouch that Dr. Phil, Oprah, and Dr. Drew have more influence on your lives and the happiness of your "significant other" than you would like to believe.-
5. Romantic Love makes you responsible for another person's happiness. But no one tells you that dating someone with bouts of depression, anger, and bi-polar tendencies will drive you into the dirt with them. There are some people who simply CANNOT FIND HAPPINESS and do everything that they can to avoid it. So then, you're stuck with a person whom you supposedly love that is hell-bent on being miserable; and no matter what you do, you cannot change the personal choices of someone else. --Hence, the part mentioned above about CONTROL and COMPROMISE. By placating this nonsense, you compromise your own happiness for the temporary illusion of relationship stability.
6. Romantic love is usually based upon initial "attraction," or "lustful desires." All that starts under nefarious intent...ENDS THAT WAY.
7. Romantic love acts as a distraction to TRUE happiness. Since all of our realities seem to be defined by television, we always seek to find the "fairy tale ending" that DOES NOT EXIST. When you base your happiness off of pre-defined and manufactured ideas of it, then you falsely live in such a way that attempts to validate that fantasy. --Which is the reason why MOST relationships end up in the toilet...or, people end up staying with each other out of convenience...NOT COMPANIONSHIP.

In short...I totally disagree with your post. The only TRUE LOVE is that of the Unconditional. I believe that true relationships must start in an unconditional manner, and then once people are MATURE enough to have a relationship that does not stray from the original purpose, then and ONLY THEN, can it be the type of LOVE you have spoken of. -But, since I know that the LOVE that you were attempting to speak of is as rare as a purple diamond burning at a billion degrees celsius, I know that you were not speaking of this love at all, but, the idealized, fantasy version that Walt Disney shoves down the throats of millions in a very haphazard and fantasized manner.

great story

You just broke down in simpler terms what the OP was trying to convey to those who are listening, in his two posts. It may be copy pasted...but first it was typed...and then copy pasted. It is the content of the post that matters. Not all will understand. I supose the ones who would understand already know(and receive a reminder) and the ones who do not, may one day get it latter and remember the sead that was planted and grew ...

Peace Life Love and LIght...

Namaste(namastay)...I am you and you am I

Last Edited by DoubleHelix on 06/10/2012 03:41 PM

Me too

Oxx :)

what a load of shit! all it takes is to give a bunch of reasons to destroy those feelings and bam true love is shit. Like the feelings you may have for your child. If you found your child was created through artificial insimination by people with too much tech and money for a friggin game and your whole life and everyone you knew were part of a game feeling would diminish rather rapidly I would suspect. I've been going through this stupid game for almost 2 years now and my son seems one way then another then back and forth. He, his mother etc don't even show up on face book anymore while the gov of canada likes to play duh duh duh and filter my phone calls and emails to use me for some game to find bunnies or something. Like destroy the connection to my son and see if I give a fk about anyone. Like someone if they broke those connections I'd give a fk about any of you enough to join you or become your enemy. North america is a pig nation that has done this to me in a game because revelations 13:18 comes out ot my name and much of the bible stuff oddly plays a language and numbers and character game to make me out to be the likes of satan. A total load of shit! Then once they realised I wasn't as the bible wropte they tried to play let's now try to convince him he's the bitch god or whatever and blah blah blah. It's the saddest thing I've ever seen in my life or could imagine only in that people actually give a fk about life on this side of the world. After seeing this stuff it's hard to see humanity as anything but greed driven slime balls deserving to be shot out a cannon. Like this friggin AI woman thing and people manipulating the hell out of my life suggesting that because I don't any longer feel a connection to anyone that I'm to be AI... canada is fucking dirt nation of pure stupidity that should be wiped off the planet. Like the crap about my son etc. I mean whatever man. You people are friggin total scuz shit and this is the most pathetic thing I could imagine for a trash nation like dog shit for brains nothing canada trying to be more than they should ever be by having the whole worle stage shit for the stupid fuck nation. Canada is a disgrace to existence. LIke a horde of reject shit violating and wrecking lives to keep selling the delusions a minority fed into the minds of the shit for brains population about the skank minorities that need to feel better. Like holding someone down and having a pack of retards and such mentally trash a person so they can feel better about themselves. Life on this planet sucks!!!

I disagree, if they were in a North Korean labor camp they would be able to be kept separated indefinitely.

Well said OP. It is so true.

"love serves" lol i like that one...cool story hag

seriously... if you werre giong what i am not only would you swiftly see how the elders should be disrespercted for what they do. seriously it's the most sad thing ever only in the perspective that htis trash bag government has taken to playing filter the phone lines and emails hacking etc to try and make my sons life have a value beyond that which it is. Kind of like canada painting itself with gold leaf when it's just a blob of dead weight led holing back humanity. Like the last level of this retarded governments game where you say such things and laugh in the face of freakshow idiot land they just wreck your life even more like shit for brains. Kind of like a horde of morons in our stupid fucking government.... females mostly, smacking their chests gretzky style and screaming we's smart dammit! and so driving the wedge even deeper between family. Kind of like say we's smart or we wreck your life even more. The more you laugh in their faces the more they act like idiots and try to mess with you to hurt your feelings and act like so much was lost. It's like if a group of north americans got times travel and raped and molested gods family because they wanted to prove why places like a biblical hell should exist and so you end up with a story of god creating life on this planet by bringing the corpses up out of the dirt and cloning or reanimating them. Or so the story goes. As if guy went back in time and tried to bring things back to life after being ruined in the past. Kind of like they're all in the past waiting but god destroyed from the future kind of game. Like a paradox game. Trying to convince that by this government and people doing nothing but helping wreck my life that people who were cast into the past were being killed off and so god apparently has to go back at some point and bring them back to see them again. I don't know would make for an interesting story... just saying

seriously... if you werre giong what i am not only would you swiftly see how the elders should be disrespercted for what they do. seriously it's the most sad thing ever only in the perspective that htis trash bag government has taken to playing filter the phone lines and emails hacking etc to try and make my sons life have a value beyond that which it is. Kind of like canada painting itself with gold leaf when it's just a blob of dead weight led holing back humanity. Like the last level of this retarded governments game where you say such things and laugh in the face of freakshow idiot land they just wreck your life even more like shit for brains. Kind of like a horde of morons in our stupid fucking government.... females mostly, smacking their chests gretzky style and screaming we's smart dammit! and so driving the wedge even deeper between family. Kind of like say we's smart or we wreck your life even more. The more you laugh in their faces the more they act like idiots and try to mess with you to hurt your feelings and act like so much was lost. It's like if a group of north americans got times travel and raped and molested gods family because they wanted to prove why places like a biblical hell should exist and so you end up with a story of god creating life on this planet by bringing the corpses up out of the dirt and cloning or reanimating them. Or so the story goes. As if guy went back in time and tried to bring things back to life after being ruined in the past. Kind of like they're all in the past waiting but god destroyed from the future kind of game. Like a paradox game. Trying to convince that by this government and people doing nothing but helping wreck my life that people who were cast into the past were being killed off and so god apparently has to go back at some point and bring them back to see them again. I don't know would make for an interesting story... just saying

or rather in my case as satan I'd have to find the tech to go back and atleast bring back my good son if I could find him. If he even exists anymore. can't be too sure given the clones and stuff around this friggin reality they had and the cloud face drawing of people like my son with his head cut in half.

WTF is this shit...


Where's the DOOM?


Here's my poetry for ya...

There once was a man from Nantucket...

You know the rest...

Good post, Sandi T.
I just hope that the people who over-romanticize love don't end up getting hurt or disappointed. I have a good friend who said she thought she had the perfect marriage/romance up until the day her husband called from his girlfriend's house and asked for a divorce.
Romantic relationships take a lot of work and sometimes you can get bored and angry. It's not all hearts and flowers.

Thanks, Lo Kei! :)

AGREE. I TRULY BELIEVE AND CAN FEEL WHAT THE OTHER PERSON IS FEELING IT'S A DIFFERENT CONNECT ON FROM PHYSICAL FORM.

i don't believe in soul mates anymore....just seem to be soul vampires out there or just plain assholes.