Love and compassion two different subjects, that we all misunder-standd. Love is not compassion. Love comes with attachments, compassion does not.I know is hard on some parents, because, generally, if Iam a parent, I say honey I love you, by the same token, I mean honey, I possess you, this same applies to adults and we see this in relationships. Marriages is only a faith-contract between parties, and the State is your third party, NOT a "contract to possess" nor a contract of possession. Most people married under love, once that love desappears, the relationship falls. Once we under-stand compassion, there is no need to possesse, but to guide, to show, to inform, without possesssion. Most parents are under the presumption that they own the kids and own each other.