I would never normally post on a thread like this, I hate divides and racism (though I am calling no one here racist, you all seem to bring valid points and experiences ) but man... I can't help but notice these same traits, strangely I agree, though I feel wrong for doing so.

I've been welcomed into some very nice homes with black families, but I've gotten fked over by the friends who've invited me over, every time. Once a promise of a professional high paid job, another over me lending the friend money that ended in him leaving the country a week later. I wish the signs I see here didn't lead to such negative conclusions..