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User ID: 53877 United States 12/16/2005 12:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i have an extra ordinary situation here that is hurting me.i have a neighbors duaghter who is 26 and she is not all there mentally and when she looks at me she runs like crazy t ogive me a hug and asks me when are we going to get married.i have never come on to this girl the most i ever done was buy her ice cream along with my grandchildren this summer from the ice cream truck.she is a very pretty thing i mean a knock out and i am not going to take advantage of her.i have been happily married for a long time and havent strayed.what should i do i have talked to her dad and he is confused as much as me.they have tried to ralk to her but that didnt help.any suggestions life is what you make it and what you think doesnt matter in this world |
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User ID: 53749 United States 12/16/2005 12:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | maybe she sees you as a grandfather figure... just treat her like kids...i guess |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 53839 United States 12/16/2005 12:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's just going thru a phase. Enjoy her affections while it last. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 3287 United States 12/16/2005 12:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation |
You represent maturity and security - most younger females find that highly attractive - for females of the species mature faster than the males. However you hint at development issues here? If yes, then this may be a serious crush that you need to handle with dignity and aplumb - and of course not act upon. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33732 United States 12/16/2005 12:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "situation here that is hurting me" Why is it hurting you? "any suggestions?" You could help find someone else that would love her and marry her if she has the means to be semi-independent. If that is not a potential outcome for her then you could tell her that you think that she is special and has been chosen by God to share her love and hugs to those who are close to her and not for just one 'special' person as in a marriage. Or you could move. |