You lack discernment, OP and others...

It's not women that are "cold hearted", it's society, herd mentality. People, men or women, who are conformist and don't question their values are the problem, not "women", "blacks" or whatever.

Look up to commercial pop culture, yuppie culture... where in this do you see white guys being "winners" by not having a job, going around on a bicycle instead of BMW, or not owning a house/condo? And yeah, pop culture also make macho, sexist black guys who are into drugs and crime being "winners"...

Come up with a Nazi regime in your country, and the mainstream people will be all OK sending the jobless, the insane, the disabled and the immigrants to gas chambers, as long as they are socially-conditioned into this.