Are there men that actually want to marry a woman who has had 30+ sexual partners?

I got my wife when she was twenty. She led me to believe she was a good girl and only had a few partners always with condums. Years later after we have kids I find out I was the tenth guy she slept with, she had one night stands, swallowed, unprotected sex, took it in the ass.

Fuck! The lying to me pisses me off more than anything! Plus I swore I would never marry a women who had a one night stand.

I have almost left her multiple times over this issue, and don't believe a word that comes out of her mouth. The kids keep me here!

Keep your god damn legs closed if you plan on having children in the future. Nobody wants high mileage / sloppy seconds when starting a family, or the fact that the children may learn what a whore mommy used to be when they get older.

I hate to break it to you, but most women are not honest about the number of partners they had previous exactly because of attitudes like yours.

Yes, some teenage girls get a bit boy crazy and do stupid things, just like the guys do stupid things too, but that does not mean they are the same person at that immature age that they are at a more mature age.

You really need to stop judging her on the past and take a look at how she has been as your wife and the mother of your kids. This is who she is now - not a hormone driven, immature teenager.

It's a harsh world when we cannot forgive people for things in the past that can no longer be changed. Yes, she lied to you and I agree that is not a good thing. But perhaps she wanted a chance to be a different person, a chance to start new. Or should she always have to wear a scarlett letter for something she did when she was young and stupid?

Forgiveness is a beautiful thing.

Having been born and raised in the U.S. and then subsequently having left and lived abroad in several different countries and having visited many others, I can tell you, OP, that your post is exceedingly well-written and 100% correct. Feminism, which has very little to do with what most people think it does, has succeeded in stripping American women of their femininity and grace and replacing them with shockingly masculine traits. American women, in my experience, are the worst in that regard, followed closely by British women and women from quite a few other so-called "developed" countries. Go to places like South America, Russia and the former "Soviet Bloc" countries and Southeast Asia (all depending on your taste in women) and you'll discover a world that will amaze you, one in which women are still warm and feminine and genuinely want to please a man.

Having lived for 10+ years in south east Asia I can attest to the women being very very sexual. Will go all the way on a first date, don't wait for marriage before sex, enjoy sex for what it is (great fun), and yes, they are warm and feminine.

I am one of those you and others with fledgeling minds like to call a whore. I have probably had sex with 50-60 people in my life. I am 34, and not ashamed to say so. Several of them, once I had sex with them I decided they were a bad match, usually because I discovered they were really hung up or twisted about sex. I do not just have sex with any man who crosses my path. There are probably 100's of guys who have begged or tried to manipulate me onto having sex, I refuse to ever touch them.

Virgins are damaged people. They are destroyed by brainwashing. This controlling misogynism is the reaction to being snubbed by a woman. How do you think a lot of women feel when their heart is injured the first few times, like I did in the beginning when I still believes marriage was about spiritual or soul love. I refuse to get married. I now see that it is a scam of the worst kind. You see it as using people because you only enjoy having sex with women who hate sex. You assume that just because a woman likes sex, she will do it with anyone at the drop of a hat. You are totally wrong! You and everyone who shares your misconceptions are a source of evil and suffering in the world. When you truly understand love between people and that it has nothing to do with marriage, maybe you will fins a decent woman. But your beliefs are so warped from all your bitterness I doubt a good woman would be interested. This is why you bitter, inexperienced asses want an oppressive repressive regime to enforce the oppression of women.

As far as stds use common sense. Barriers, ideally getting to know someone well first. I wouldn't marry someone who I didn't know how they were in bed, you would have to be crazy, man or woman to do so. I get tested regularly and have impeccable hygeine. Your Dick probably smells like cheese or sweat since when you imagine sex you associate it with such filthiness. Sex should not smell, or lead to illness. You shouldn't make each other bleed, or other perversions. It is often the most religiously repressed that are the dirtiest and most perverted.

I know you ate going to attack me, but I don't care. Also anyone who says that having a lot of sexual partners means you don't care about yourself is a liar. I am in an open relationship. This is not the same as cheating, because we don't violate each others trust, and are Open and honest with each other. Sometimes we even talk about the others, and there is no jealousy. You have to consider, his position is superior to any other because I am always there for him. I love him for what's inside as well as out, and his expetise at sex and how he goes out of his way to makebsure I am enjoying sex. I do love him dearly, and he is one of the special ones I have known in a previous life.

The concept of no sex before marriage was surely invented by a bitter virgin, or a man with a tiny Dick, or who has a .mental illness where they eat lol or something. Marriage and strict monogamy ate based on selfish human cons
tructs. They cause you to place ridiculous and often impossible expectations on someone. I was in a committed relationship before, and did not cheat. I ended it because the guy was more like a brother than abliver to me. I am not looking for bad boys and will notbtolerate them reither. It's childish. Jealousy is a relic of our animal nature, when we used to be territorial, how is territorial behavior virtuous. You can take you god and shove it up your ASS, I believe in a higher god, your god is jealous and angry, and childish, and that's how I know he's not the vtrue god, and that your love is not true love. Grow up and stop placing so much value on sex. Your obviously insecure. All you people who have a problem with other men being there first don't consider there is a reason she had stuck around or lied about her PAST (not the present),but your love is not love its just craving power. You feel you need to be reassured you are the biggest and best, because its all about your ego. BTW, I dont fit your sstereotypes, no drugs, healthy and natural, I am educated, have a 160iq, and am content to be by myself or in an open realtionship. Don't worry, I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole, pig.

To the several people on this troll's thread who seemed cool but had hangups still and claimed they didn't even KNOW anyone who had had sex with that many people, you probably do. You just don't know it, itsbisually not obvious. They don't necessarily dress or act slutty. I appear pretty conservative and most people would be shocked if I shattered their perception of me by even lighting a cigarrette. I am tired ofbthebstereotypea propagated by people who have no idea. I have had an abortion, back when I was 19, also a man had never laid a finger against me in violence. Hate me hate me hate me......

As a 26 y/o single, educated man I will be leaving this god-forsaken country and the whores that inhabit it and moving abroad where real women still exist and don't try to be like men.

As a 26 y/o single, educated man I will be leaving this god-forsaken country and the whores that inhabit it and moving abroad where real women still exist and don't try to be like men.