Are there men that actually want to marry a woman who has had 30+ sexual partners?

I am one of those you and others with fledgeling minds like to call a whore. I have probably had sex with 50-60 people in my life. I am 34, and not ashamed to say so. Several of them, once I had sex with them I decided they were a bad match, usually because I discovered they were really hung up or twisted about sex. I do not just have sex with any man who crosses my path. There are probably 100's of guys who have begged or tried to manipulate me onto having sex, I refuse to ever touch them.

Virgins are damaged people. They are destroyed by brainwashing. This controlling misogynism is the reaction to being snubbed by a woman. How do you think a lot of women feel when their heart is injured the first few times, like I did in the beginning when I still believes marriage was about spiritual or soul love. I refuse to get married. I now see that it is a scam of the worst kind. You see it as using people because you only enjoy having sex with women who hate sex. You assume that just because a woman likes sex, she will do it with anyone at the drop of a hat. You are totally wrong! You and everyone who shares your misconceptions are a source of evil and suffering in the world. When you truly understand love between people and that it has nothing to do with marriage, maybe you will fins a decent woman. But your beliefs are so warped from all your bitterness I doubt a good woman would be interested. This is why you bitter, inexperienced asses want an oppressive repressive regime to enforce the oppression of women.

As far as stds use common sense. Barriers, ideally getting to know someone well first. I wouldn't marry someone who I didn't know how they were in bed, you would have to be crazy, man or woman to do so. I get tested regularly and have impeccable hygeine. Your Dick probably smells like cheese or sweat since when you imagine sex you associate it with such filthiness. Sex should not smell, or lead to illness. You shouldn't make each other bleed, or other perversions. It is often the most religiously repressed that are the dirtiest and most perverted.

I know you ate going to attack me, but I don't care. Also anyone who says that having a lot of sexual partners means you don't care about yourself is a liar. I am in an open relationship. This is not the same as cheating, because we don't violate each others trust, and are Open and honest with each other. Sometimes we even talk about the others, and there is no jealousy. You have to consider, his position is superior to any other because I am always there for him. I love him for what's inside as well as out, and his expetise at sex and how he goes out of his way to makebsure I am enjoying sex. I do love him dearly, and he is one of the special ones I have known in a previous life.

The concept of no sex before marriage was surely invented by a bitter virgin, or a man with a tiny Dick, or who has a .mental illness where they eat lol or something. Marriage and strict monogamy ate based on selfish human cons
tructs. They cause you to place ridiculous and often impossible expectations on someone. I was in a committed relationship before, and did not cheat. I ended it because the guy was more like a brother than abliver to me. I am not looking for bad boys and will notbtolerate them either. It's childish. Jealousy is a relic of our animal nature, when we used to be territorial, how is territorial behavior virtuous. You can take you god and shove it up your ASS, I believe in a higher god, your god is jealous and angry, and childish, and that's how I know he's not the vtrue god, and that your love is not true love. Grow up and stop placing so much value on sex. Your obviously insecure. All you people who have a problem with other men being there first don't consider there is a reason she had stuck around or lied about her PAST (not the present),but your love is not love its just craving power. You feel you need to be reassured you are the biggest and best, because its all about your ego. BTW, I dont fit your sstereotypes, no drugs, healthy and natural, I am educated, have a 160iq, and am content to be by myself or in an open realtionship. Don't worry, I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole, pig.

To the several people on this troll's thread who seemed cool but had hangups still and claimed they didn't even KNOW anyone who had had sex with that many people, you probably do. You just don't know it, itsbisually not obvious. They don't necessarily dress or act slutty. I appear pretty conservative and most people would be shocked if I shattered their perception of me by even lighting a cigarrette. I am tired ofbthebstereotypea propagated by people who have no idea. I have had an abortion, back when I was 19, also a man had never laid a finger against me in violence. Hate me hate me hate me......

Maybe. But only if they don't know it!

Women who have been "around the block" that many times should learn to keep quiet about it when talking with potential BF's or possible mates. Men do not necessarily expect a 30 year old woman (or older) to be a virgin (although it might be nice if one was) but they don't want to know that their future spouse was auditioning for the role of "Whore of The Earth" under a type-casting call!

Ladies - if you've had more lovers than you have hairs in both armpits, learn to keep your friggin mouth shut out it. He doesn't need or want to know. You can, if you must for the sake of "honestly" (over rated but some think it important) can confess to being a bit "wild" in your youth. Maybe a few months of "looking of love in the wrong places"after the breakup of a "serious" relationship. Happens to many of us. But don't go into detail about lovers, their technique in bed, their penis size, or how well or poorly they performed oral sex on you!

Yes, I know it's a double standard. If he's fucked half the population of New York City (or equivalent) he's a "STUD". (probably with Herpes and a few other minor STD's thrown in) but if you did the same thing, girl, you're a TRAMP or a SLUT. (Unless you were paid for it by the act, in which case you're probably a very successful call girl with that kind of volume!)

You can't do much about the double standard. It's been there since Adam and Eve. Men want to party with the "good time girls" and marry a "nice" girl. Playing true confession is for your autobiography or your priest or rabbi. NOT, (repeat, NOT EVER) for your potential mate! He doesn't really want to know, anyway. Most guys cannot handle it and it will eat them alive. Keeping quiet about specific numbers and maybe admitting to one brief "wild" period in your youth is the safest way to answer should he inquire. If he doesn't ask, don't volunteer anything. Remember, you want to have a few secrets just for the hell of it. He doesn't need or want to know the whole bloody truth. Obviously the same thing goes for abortions, or STD's you may have had. If you don't have it any longer, there is no point in discussing it with anyone. Why do you think your medical records are protected by law and even your Husband or Wife cannot get to them without your permission? Take advantage of a good thing and keep quiet about anything that's been cured or removed.

Silence is golden. And if you ever are in a divorce court, the appearance of a "nice" girl may get you a lot more gold than you ever dreamed possible!