Maybe. But only if they don't know it!

Women who have been "around the block" that many times should learn to keep quiet about it when talking with potential BF's or possible mates. Men do not necessarily expect a 30 year old woman (or older) to be a virgin (although it might be nice if one was) but they don't want to know that their future spouse was auditioning for the role of "Whore of The Earth" under a type-casting call!

Ladies - if you've had more lovers than you have hairs in both armpits, learn to keep your friggin mouth shut out it. He doesn't need or want to know. You can, if you must for the sake of "honestly" (over rated but some think it important) can confess to being a bit "wild" in your youth. Maybe a few months of "looking of love in the wrong places"after the breakup of a "serious" relationship. Happens to many of us. But don't go into detail about lovers, their technique in bed, their penis size, or how well or poorly they performed oral sex on you!

Yes, I know it's a double standard. If he's fucked half the population of New York City (or equivalent) he's a "STUD". (probably with Herpes and a few other minor STD's thrown in) but if you did the same thing, girl, you're a TRAMP or a SLUT. (Unless you were paid for it by the act, in which case you're probably a very successful call girl with that kind of volume!)

You can't do much about the double standard. It's been there since Adam and Eve. Men want to party with the "good time girls" and marry a "nice" girl. Playing true confession is for your autobiography or your priest or rabbi. NOT, (repeat, NOT EVER) for your potential mate! He doesn't really want to know, anyway. Most guys cannot handle it and it will eat them alive. Keeping quiet about specific numbers and maybe admitting to one brief "wild" period in your youth is the safest way to answer should he inquire. If he doesn't ask, don't volunteer anything. Remember, you want to have a few secrets just for the hell of it. He doesn't need or want to know the whole bloody truth. Obviously the same thing goes for abortions, or STD's you may have had. If you don't have it any longer, there is no point in discussing it with anyone. Why do you think your medical records are protected by law and even your Husband or Wife cannot get to them without your permission? Take advantage of a good thing and keep quiet about anything that's been cured or removed.

Silence is golden. And if you ever are in a divorce court, the appearance of a "nice" girl may get you a lot more gold than you ever dreamed possible!