I hear ya OP. I was married to a cheatin woman for 10 years that thought sex was 'not a big deal' but love was.

Every woman i dated after my ten year hell of a marriage was promiscuous and untrustworthy.

I ended up taking a trip to the Philippines and met a girl. She was a virgin and very feminine and was a lady.

Fast forward 4 years and we're married in Texas with a 2 year old son and happy as can be. All my buddies married to American girls are constantly pissed and unhappy with their mates. They thought i was nuts to go to the PI for a woman, but after seeing how sexy, faithful, and womanly she is and how happy we are (not to mention how beautiful our baby is) they wished they would've done the same.