Such a contentious issue. It's either so sacred or nothing more unusual as breathing -to some people (yet they vehemently defend this activity).

I side with the view of it being a sacred thing. That's just how I feel. Yeah, I'll admit it, I'm a virgin. Physically anyway. I have viewed pornography -so, in my own view- I'm not a virgin in a spiritual sense. Eh, I guess. I personally wouldn't have sex with just anyone. Not unless I really and truly loved them. And at my age - I don't think there's any point in worrying about if the woman I'd be with -that I'd be her first (as well). Unless I will get lucky (no pun intended) and find someone close to my age that has never known ("known" -like in the Bible lol) someone else. Or I could have a younger wife. Yet, I think I've reached the mindset that that is highly unlikely. I shouldn't care who has been with the one I will love -before me. What's important is that they Love me -now, not who they loved before.

I do find the idea of promiscuity as sickening. It can be called "filthy" and not in a dirty sense like people don't take baths or have bad hygiene. No, it's moral cleanliness. And if you want to believe you're a "moral" person even if you are open to lascivious activities... Then that must be a difference of opinion. "Sure, the next person I sleep with might give me HIV, but at least I don't kill people." --Which is kind of ironic if you think about it. Also, the level of intimacy between 2 people that performing a sexual act can bring. Here again must be another difference of views. Some people may actually not have a problem with who they sleep with. I guess it's like conditioning. Some people will be more sensitive to things like pain, while others will have a high tolerance for it. Does that make it wrong?

It's definitely wrong for those that don't wish to partake in such activities (being promiscuous, or switching partners from time to time on a whim without so much as giving it a 2nd thought... like it's nothing). Just an fyi, I wouldn't trust your kind to even be around a child.


The "30+ Sexual Partners" is just an example/exaggeration. It can't be "sourced", but it can't be denied. There are probably people that have had more than that. Also, someone mentioned about it being difficult for guys being studly and easy for girls being sluts... Well, if the same guys are being with the slutty girls - then it's actually easy for those guys -don't you think? :-p

eta: Another thing that make my guts wretch... Friends with Benefits. This is what AIDs was made for. Sorry to say it.