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hillbilly User ID: 1516887 United States 07/07/2012 02:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does he feel about his mother? ETA: some just have bad wiring. Try sending love and healing instead of fear, he'll starve! Last Edited by hillbilly on 07/07/2012 02:58 AM Water is the only drink for a wise man. Call me a pot but heat me not.-Putin Silence is where God speaks. Anything else is but a poor translation. -Rumi Wanna hear God laugh? Just talk about your plans. An old broom knows all the corners. Slow is steady; steady is smooth; smooth is fast. Success has a thousand fathers but failure only one son. The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.-Gibran |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16175271 United States 07/07/2012 03:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does he feel about his mother? Quoting: hillbilly ETA: some just have bad wiring. Try sending love and healing instead of fear, he'll starve! Thanks. Haven't heard that advice before, but I like it. I should try and be more positive about this. I think he wants fear, but it's hard not to be afraid of a situation like this, all I ever think is the worst. I'm constantly keeping everything I do private, yet he always figures about things that he knows about my current life. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 19275185 United States 07/07/2012 03:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does he feel about his mother? Quoting: hillbilly ETA: some just have bad wiring. Try sending love and healing instead of fear, he'll starve! Thanks. Haven't heard that advice before, but I like it. I should try and be more positive about this. I think he wants fear, but it's hard not to be afraid of a situation like this, all I ever think is the worst. I'm constantly keeping everything I do private, yet he always figures about things that he knows about my current life. He may be a GLP'er too. bet you didnt think of that did you now. ha ha. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16175271 United States 07/07/2012 03:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get a shotgun...invite him over...shoot him in the face...twice or three time (to make sure you get him) = problem solved Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19278820 If only you knew...wish it were that easy, I've contenplated getting a gun just in case he ever did come around me. for god's sake he better not, i'm freaking 2,000 miles away from him. |
Buddha_ User ID: 16510251 United States 07/07/2012 03:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm sorry but when i read this [ Now question is: DO you guys think this is the kind of person that would kill someone? ] i kinda lol'ed . advice is avoid him. :/sdfhasdfshasd/: Those who live by the sword die by the sword, those who don't live by the sword are subject to those who do. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16175271 United States 07/07/2012 03:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does he feel about his mother? Quoting: hillbilly ETA: some just have bad wiring. Try sending love and healing instead of fear, he'll starve! Thanks. Haven't heard that advice before, but I like it. I should try and be more positive about this. I think he wants fear, but it's hard not to be afraid of a situation like this, all I ever think is the worst. I'm constantly keeping everything I do private, yet he always figures about things that he knows about my current life. He may be a GLP'er too. bet you didnt think of that did you now. ha ha. ahhhhh! No I did. I'm not actually revealing my real locations, lol, or anywhere close to them ;) |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16175271 United States 07/07/2012 03:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm sorry but when i read this [ Now question is: DO you guys think this is the kind of person that would kill someone? ] i kinda lol'ed . advice is avoid him. Quoting: Buddha_ I know it sounds stupid...I know. I'm just trying to get advice or if anyone if familiar with certain characteristics of people who have that kind of shit in them to hurt other people, it's hard for me to word. |
Buddha_ User ID: 16510251 United States 07/07/2012 03:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm sorry but when i read this [ Now question is: DO you guys think this is the kind of person that would kill someone? ] i kinda lol'ed . advice is avoid him. Quoting: Buddha_ I know it sounds stupid...I know. I'm just trying to get advice or if anyone if familiar with certain characteristics of people who have that kind of shit in them to hurt other people, it's hard for me to word. He might kinda seems crazy.. just avoid him. Why risk it? :/sdfhasdfshasd/: Those who live by the sword die by the sword, those who don't live by the sword are subject to those who do. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16175271 United States 07/07/2012 03:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm sorry but when i read this [ Now question is: DO you guys think this is the kind of person that would kill someone? ] i kinda lol'ed . advice is avoid him. Quoting: Buddha_ I know it sounds stupid...I know. I'm just trying to get advice or if anyone if familiar with certain characteristics of people who have that kind of shit in them to hurt other people, it's hard for me to word. He might kinda seems crazy.. just avoid him. Why risk it? Defiantly, I don't ever want to see or hear from him. ever! I'm just trying to see if there is anything else I can do. its been bothering me a lot lately, I guess i'm just looking to see if anyone else has dealt with a situation like this and if they were able to handle it or if its' something they have to be careful about the rest of their lives. I just want the paranoia to stop, the aggressive and scary emails to stop. I hate having this fear on my mind. Thanks for the advice though, appreciated! |
hillbilly User ID: 1516887 United States 07/07/2012 03:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're welcome. Good luck, OP! Last Edited by hillbilly on 07/07/2012 03:15 AM Water is the only drink for a wise man. Call me a pot but heat me not.-Putin Silence is where God speaks. Anything else is but a poor translation. -Rumi Wanna hear God laugh? Just talk about your plans. An old broom knows all the corners. Slow is steady; steady is smooth; smooth is fast. Success has a thousand fathers but failure only one son. The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.-Gibran |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 19257386 United States 07/07/2012 03:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Having that legal paper hanging over his head may snap him out of his dumbass delusions, or push him over the edge. |
hillbilly User ID: 1516887 United States 07/07/2012 03:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Car plus GPS=in your face, too. ETA: pics under the bed? Who 'da thunk it? Last Edited by hillbilly on 07/07/2012 03:22 AM Water is the only drink for a wise man. Call me a pot but heat me not.-Putin Silence is where God speaks. Anything else is but a poor translation. -Rumi Wanna hear God laugh? Just talk about your plans. An old broom knows all the corners. Slow is steady; steady is smooth; smooth is fast. Success has a thousand fathers but failure only one son. The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.-Gibran |
hillbilly User ID: 1516887 United States 07/07/2012 03:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be thankful you actually KNOW who he is! Water is the only drink for a wise man. Call me a pot but heat me not.-Putin Silence is where God speaks. Anything else is but a poor translation. -Rumi Wanna hear God laugh? Just talk about your plans. An old broom knows all the corners. Slow is steady; steady is smooth; smooth is fast. Success has a thousand fathers but failure only one son. The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.-Gibran |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14081862 Norway 07/07/2012 03:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go down to the courthouse or police station or whatever and get yourself a restraining order. Don't wait and don't fuck around. Serve that fool before he does do something like murder/suicide. Quoting: gurunade Having that legal paper hanging over his head may snap him out of his dumbass delusions, or push him over the edge. Yeah commonsense. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 14091541 United States 07/07/2012 03:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | YOU did this to him!... You just walked away and forgot all about him, AND your relationship.. He is the product of your neglect and creation.. I hope your happy with your new life, but you have nightmares because YOU killed someone, spiritually.. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17792632 Philippines 07/07/2012 03:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Anyway, best way is remove your FB, myspace or whatever. You don't need that anyway. And start living your life. A lifetime isn't very long, each second you waste in fear and desperation are seconds you could never get back. Life should be worth living. With all that out of the way, I know it's stating the obvious but we hope you would be careful and do everything you can to protect yourself. Take his threats seriously, but don't let them run your life. None of us here want any harm to come to you. Yes even the crazy shit talker ones. Perhaps there are some anti-stalker groups or something that you could get better advice from, as from the way it sounds, could be serious. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16175271 United States 07/07/2012 03:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | YOU did this to him!... You just walked away and forgot all about him, AND your relationship.. He is the product of your neglect and creation.. I hope your happy with your new life, but you have nightmares because YOU killed someone, spiritually.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14091541 Oh ok, good one. I was in a stupid high school relationship, was not serious. I'm a good person and I can't force myself to stay in relationships just because someone might get hurt, are you serious? Ive gotten hurt plenty of times, but there is a difference between having mental issues and moving on naturally. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 16175271 United States 07/07/2012 03:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You know this person better than any of us. So you be the judge if you think he is capable of something like that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17792632 Anyway, best way is remove your FB, myspace or whatever. You don't need that anyway. And start living your life. A lifetime isn't very long, each second you waste in fear and desperation are seconds you could never get back. Life should be worth living. With all that out of the way, I know it's stating the obvious but we hope you would be careful and do everything you can to protect yourself. Take his threats seriously, but don't let them run your life. None of us here want any harm to come to you. Yes even the crazy shit talker ones. Perhaps there are some anti-stalker groups or something that you could get better advice from, as from the way it sounds, could be serious. Thank you. I have spoken to family and friends. I just wanted to step outside of the box and hear honest and un biased opinions about what to do. Thanks for your comments, they are valuable and much appreciated. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14091541 United States 07/07/2012 04:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | YOU did this to him!... You just walked away and forgot all about him, AND your relationship.. He is the product of your neglect and creation.. I hope your happy with your new life, but you have nightmares because YOU killed someone, spiritually.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14091541 Oh ok, good one. I was in a stupid high school relationship, was not serious. I'm a good person and I can't force myself to stay in relationships just because someone might get hurt, are you serious? Ive gotten hurt plenty of times, but there is a difference between having mental issues and moving on naturally. lol... I was just kidding. I was trying to sound like him. ;) ... I guess sarcasm isn't so obvious online (says the man to the judge).. . But yeah, buy a gun and ignore the pussy. |
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