Only you haven't been saying that, have you. Cos if you had, I would have whole heartedly agreed with you. Instead you've polluted two threads with your man hating BS. Look, there are some shit fathers and there are some shit mothers so there's no reason to single out one or the other. I could've listened to your crap and taken the attitude "typical fucking woman, they're all twats" but I didn't. The fact is that the majority of women are just fine. You're a twat, obviously but I'm not pathetic enough to let that colour my opinion of your entire gender. I'm sure you think your just being a strong, independent woman but a strong independent woman would've got past the bad choices in men that you've clearly made without letting it make them her and twisted.