For example...

Let's take a sudden attraction to the opposite sex upon viewing for the first time.

One may see two people, let's for this purpose say of relatively equal 'good looks'.


Perhaps one has darker features and the other lighter.

Without speaking or really thinking, one will automatically KNOW the one they are attracted to more so than the other.

Is this choice? Or is it a completely unconscious exercise of some type of fated attraction?

What causes that pull toward one more so than the other when either would be considered attractive?


Is attraction chosen? Or does it choose the chooser?