Exactly ... I have become a survivor! willing to bring hope to those who have gone thru similar things. Thank you Seer if not for the ever following spirit of Love and Grace that I had cried out for that turned my story into Beauty for Ashes ... Everyone has their own story about how they have gotten to where they are and most are just perpetrators of their own stories of abuse. When I realized that, it also released me from their story/karma and replication of abuse. I was bound and determined not to repeat this cycle in my own family that I had. Forgiveness for me released the power hold if you can understand that