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Also...jealousy is only a single example in the myriad of reasons that fighting occurs. I was just trying to show how Anger is a product of Fear. Fear of loss...of something. The point is to understand where it is coming from so one has a better understanding of how to deal with their own emotions. A bit like 'seeing the ripple' before it comes, and being able to adjust accordingly for a more favorable result. Not allowing oneself to fall into anger or paranoia due to perceived triggers. A bit like this... I hope this makes sense. I see this as when we don't know each other, not a family, type of fighting because there is no trust built so fear or jealousy is in place until one chooses to trust, fear, or walk away. I get what your saying and I agree when it pertains to an unknown person.  Are you saying as you look around at the world that members of families do not experience jealousy among each other? Take for example a moment in time, you are at a bbq, mutual friends are there are everyone is mingling and having a good time. Ones wife or husband may being to flirt with one of your friends to which you witness. In a moment you are greeted by two choices. To either feel jealousy toward that which is viewed, or to let it go. One is distrust. The other is Trust. It is choice. In the moment. Every time. As I said, jealousy is but one example. Of course not, everyone has experienced jealousy. My point of view is this as example: Say someone is attacking you or another, do you walk away or let them attack? Not me, I'd fight. That as the fighter is not about jealousy or fear but as being wronged because their free will and space was invaded or an innocents was.
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