22 year old virgin

I see nothing wrong with it. Especially in these days of rampant STD's. The gift that keeps on giving.

Saving yourself for that special someone is the greatest gift a man or a woman can give their spouse.

Once lost, it is irretrievable, so make sure you lose it to the one who will cherish it.

Stay pure!

I'm a 22 year old male, and I am a virgin, is that a good thing or a bad thing? Is their anything wrong with that? At what age did some of you lose your virginity?"

there is nothing wrong with that at all. The media makes it look like everyone of all ages is having sex every night, nothing could be further from the truth. There are people of all ages, both sexes that have never had a sexual experience. I know many people who have had sex with partners that were not a match for them, they only hooked up for 'sexual release' these people had children, and totally destroyed both of their lives.

"I'm a 22 year old male, and I am a virgin, is that a good thing or a bad thing? Is their anything wrong with that? At what age did some of you lose your virginity?"

Yes you are a loser. I lost mine at 16.


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"Yes you are a loser. I lost mine at 16."

Your sister doesn't count.

Thanks for the postive insight.

heh, i got 2.5-3 years left to beat you.

No its cool. Start worring at 35 or 40..

OP,

Having sex with a woman can sometimes lead to a lifetime commitment, especially when no protection is used.

Yea but don't knock it till you try it.

IT'S COOL, but don't think that you HAVE TO wait for the one who you marry in order to start your sex life.

When you do choose to "do it" make sure you use "protection" ... and remember Condoms alone do NOT do it.

Among Condom only partners the odds are actually that the woman WILL get pregnent about 30-40% of the time if the couple is having consistent intercourse over a 1 year period (if they are in their late teens through mid 20's). In fact when my oldest was conceived we WERE using birth control (sponge).

Double types of birth control should be used if you are using any sort of mechanical system ... unless you want to deal with the "risk of kids" issue.

The PILL is about the only certain protection (it is not mechanical) ... but of course it does NOT protect against STD's (Sexually Transmitted Diseases).

SEX is GREAT.

SEX between people who care deeply about one another is GREATER

SEX between people who love one another IS EVEN BETTER.

OH ... and DO get a couple of books on sexual techniques. There is a "mechanical" side to sex and in order to give your partner the greatest pleasure (and hopefully get them to give you the greatest pleasure) you need to do more than just "stick it in". If all you do is "just stick it in" your female partner will come to think of you as sexually selfish and may very well decide that she should be with another man who is more willing to work hard to please her.

Good luck

AC

You guys are great

is it hard to keep yourself from getting too excited?

op, you can get laid if you want its easy, its not all it's built up to be. Sex is the most overated thing in the world. its reproduction a bodily function no better than a good piss.

No, I get exited pretty easy.

so, what do you do to not 'give in'?

Nothing wrong, long as you don't live in your moms basement, thats a bigger problem for the ladies I think

I work w/ a 30 yr old virgin ,owns his house outright and still can't find a gf
so who knows

i am still a virgin. i have read that circumcison takes away all sexual pleasure and makes sex a negetive experience for women. Is that true...

how aweful

"i am still a virgin. i have read that circumcison takes away all sexual pleasure and makes sex a negetive experience for women. Is that true..."

Yeah, right. That's why there's so few Jews and Christians.

come to england, you would feel like a freak, there are so few circumcised boys.

I wish I wasn't circumcised...

your probably ok,

my circumcision was the worst possible.
Done with an electric knife.
It leaves bad scaring and it was a very "radical" circumcsion so they took a lot of skin off, so its really tight on errection and it stretches scrotum skin up the shaft as well as pubic hair. I even had norrowing of the urethra and had to have another op.

Thats only a few of the problems.

So i get really self concious about it and build it all up, and it makes it really hard.

This post will either be deleted or i bet i will scare everyone away. But its a serious issue for me, i wish we could talk about it.

Is it true that if you don't use it you lose it?

ever seen the movie, "the butterfly effect"
I wish that was true. I was circumcised at the age of around 4, and i know exactally what i should have done to avoid it.

The day, my dreams went up in ashes, and my future blew away.....

geez, at 4 years old, that's crazy

Everyday a man wakes up , pours himself a cup of coffee, and takes a big long hard look in the mirror. Sometimes he doesn’t like what he see’s sometimes what he sees is himself, and that disappointment just get at you and just rips at you little by little, piece by piece! and Sometimes, you can just lay down, you can just play the game, you can justtake the cards that they deal ya, you can just pretend its all over… BUT NOT ME!

Im not going to go into all the implications and problems it causes, because my post would probably get deleted. But i would say that when i was 18, read the article on the net,, "the case against circumcision" And lets just say it fuck with my head, and i relised that i suffer from every single problem it mentioned in the article. And more!

From that day forward, ive had like this inferiority complex, and closed myself off from the world,(subconcious, reaction, to prevent meyself from encountering situations of humiliation or rejection), and Ive had ever deepening depression. Now i am starting to have suicidal thoughts..

please help.

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you just said it, thats me.

except for the suicidal thing....
i'm actually pretty stable.