i just landed a really gorgeous vintage home. it is in my son's school district, that he loves. all his friends go there. it is in the number one trendy neighbourhood of portland.
but my son hates me now. he just turned 13, and suddenly i am the devil.
should i send him to his dad, who IS the devil?
Quoting: Anne O'Mally No, you should not send him to his Dad's place. That doesn't help your relationship with your son.
It sounds like your son is going through puberty. So, he is not devilish, just biochemically insane.
Set strict, but fair, boundaries and keep on loving him as you did in the past. He probably won't understand the "fair" part yet, but later in life he will.
It is going to be a rough ride for both of you and will last about 8 years. Just know that if you are a good mom, give him a little "space" now and then, and don't overreact when things get a bit crazy, he will eventually simmer down from the rapid boil of puberty and appreciate your parenting efforts.
Also, for your own sanity, I suggest a nice and calming hobby or daily activity to do just to keep yourself mentally and physically in good form.
Best of wishes to you.
