Your readings are very informative and interesting. Perhaps you might gift me with a reading also? I am weary and tired and have been for some time. Children are now middle aged adults with children of their own (well,a couple of them anyway) As we have aged, my husband and myself have found that two of the four are not speaking to us any longer. We are not allowed to see our grandchildren. This has broken our hearts. We have reached out to them -- and continue t o reach out and resolve past issues --without success. Simply worn out by the stress of this. What is this thing called life we are living?
Thank You for your reply. Sincerely.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3964708 It is said that all of us live in shared patterns called archetypes. You recall having heard someone say something like, "Oh, she's worry wort. Gail is just an old maid. You're such a loser."
Sounds like you have spent your life in the mother archetype. It would be worth you doing some investigation for yourself. Look into author Carolyn Myss. She has a number of books dealing with archetypes. It will be very beneficial to you now.
What has happened to you is you have lost your identity. Your identity as a parent. It's normal process of evolution for some.
For some. But not for all of us. Very loving, caring, involved mothers have struggled with the transition from "mother" to...(fill in the blank)
When a transition from one role to another is gradual, great. Things can evolve smoothly. However, when archetypes change dramatically, often the result of the death of a loved one, marriage breakup, etc., a person is often times left feeling lonely, disoriented, out of place.
That's why I feel you are looking for an identity -- meaning in your life again.
Are you ready? Really ready to move on?
If so, spend some time in meditation -- take a nice walk, sit quietly in nature--whatever works for you. Ask your higher self, "Higher Self, my divine self, reveal my life purpose to me now. Put me where I belong. Where I will find happiness, reward and love. I want to fall in love with my life again."
Say whatever comes to your heart. Be forewarned: When you do so, your life will change. Dramatically. Maybe you will do volunteer work, teach children to read, pursue a degree. The sky's the limit. And you have sacred choice to decide. But you must ask.
It's a tough time now. Be kind to yourself and your loved ones. Do your absolute best to avoid the drama with the grandkids.
Yours love you. Why do I feel they won't take no for an answer? It's tough. Demonstrate love to your children. Not just for them -- most importantly for you. It keeps the negatives out of your life. You don't need that around -- not with the wonderful new life I feel is ready to open for you now.
Isn't it amazing you took the chance and put your heart out there? I hope you accept this short message from me. It is with the intention to speak truth.
FOR MY READERS:
This will be my last post on this website. Back to work with my clients and my internet radio show.
I wish to express sincerest thanks to my readers for sharing with me -- and for paying forward (like I have a feeling Grandma, above, is going to do with her difficult children.)
Never feel embarrassed or ashamed to want an answer to an important question. In my practice as a professional psychic medium and teacher, I make sure my clients learn how to find answers for themselves, within.
(And then fire me!)
Never accept any feedback from a psychic, a healer, a teacher, if it doesn't resonate with love, enthusiasm, caring. Just as there are many kinds of people out there, there are many, many levels of spirit energy.
Unfortunately, many psychics are out for a buck, for fame, for ego. Many more have no training in teaching, spirituality, ethics.
They unwittingly leave themselves open to channel lower entities. And yes, you end up with messages from confused, lost, deceptive, even devious energies. Or you end up the target of projected confusion from the person you hired to read you!
Not a good place to be -- especially if you're struggling already!
Empower yourself! All of the answers are within. Now, learn how to find them and then create your new life story.