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Ladies of GLP...do you mother your husbands?

 
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No, we respect each other and never disrespect even jokenly when talking with others. Once he said he needed my help with something that he felt out of control with, since he asked, in those instances I became his boss or mother or coach whatever you want to call it, as I should. That's what it's all about supporting one another. I take care of things at home so he can put his focus on his work--we're both happy with this set up because it's supportive of each other. You can interpret it however you want but we're lovers.
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only when he's pudency
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Even I enjoy mothering when I'm sick.....Female here :)
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Yes, I mother mine by giving him a kick up the coight and telling him to grow up.

Now, be a love, and trunble along back to Yahoo Answers.
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Sounds to me like Suite101 is intentionally intermingling traditional roles with nagging and hateful behavior... thus demonizing both.

I'll be sure to let my husband know that me washing his clothes and putting them away in an organized manner is "stealing his independence". I'm sure he'll demand that I cease and desist this terrible behavior immediately.

ppig
 Quoting: Sandi_T

I will let mine know that to. lol
And yes they are trying to destroy the traditional roll with those words.
My husband must be acting fatherly to me......"Take your cell with you when you walk in the woods". "Did you put sunscreen on". Lots of other things to......To me it just means he cares.
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HELL TO THE NO!
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All women do.
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chuckle The wonders of married life... I was surprised to see how many articles there are about that topic actually.
I googled "mothering a husband" and if you skim thru a majority of the articles they're mostly about the the villification of a womans instinct to nurture something...

Whether it be a spouse, friend, what ever....

It's contrary to what women are by nature...caretakers...

Now, keep in mind I'm generalizing...of course.
 Quoting: ArunaLuna


That's why so many women go after the losers...they want that three legged sick puppy to take care of and nurse back to health...but when she realizes she will never change him into a decent person the "relationship" falls apart...
 Quoting: BRIEF



Not me, I want a strong man that's not going to be my little lap dog. I want him to be as smart as I am, to open doors and hold them while I enter first, to be funny, considerate but masculine. A man's man.

Ah, I have the perfect one too. I am a VERY lucky girl and very much in love. We spend 24x7 with each other and neither of us would want it any other way.
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Idiot
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Wow you women are the best bunch of wives I've ever come across!!!

Now I want your husbands opinions without you listening in.
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Holy shit, if making lunches and picking up clothes are all it takes to be "the best bunch of wives" you've ever come across, you seriously need to get the fuck out more!

damned
 Quoting: Sandi_T


Thats not what you told me about my past life.

Don't you recognise me?

What I was getting at is that you all have said that you each treat your husbands the best, accordingly.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21169180


No, I don't recognize you. I don't keep a reading rolodex...

And I mostly saw simple disagreement with the 'rules' of what constitutes 'mothering' and which will 'undermine independence' in our menfolk.

Most couples, even ones that last a lifetime, have problems. That's part of the purpose of having relationships to begin with.
No more requests in the "Strangest things" thread please. :hf:

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If you're mothered by your wife, wouldn't that be like getting a blow job from your mom? Ewww
 Quoting: BRIEF


No kidding...

But I think it's more common than you think.
Lots of women treat their men like little boys...even to the point of joking like they have an adult child. It's beyond disrespectful to a man (I think) to treat them like that.

But...in all fairness...some men act like little boys.
 Quoting: ArunaLuna


When I first read the question, I thought of it in a different context than you mean (hence..the adult child comment). I mother my husband in the sense that I take care of him. I take care of the baby, cook, clean, wash, iron, and do whatever needs to be done. I work part-time, but would never let it get in the way of taking care of him, and the baby, and the house. All he has to do pretty much is go to work and come home. I try to be loving and compassionate, especially if he's had a bad day. I don't do these things because I feel obligated. I do them because I want to...because I love him. Men are not above women, but they are the bibical leaders of the household. Women are the gentler sex, and are genetically wired to take care of them. If more women today would embrace their role, I think they'd be much happier.
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Women can only take on 2 roles in any man's life:
1) Mother
2)Lover

When in a relationship everyday a woman will "test" a man. To see what role she should assume. Most relationship start off really strong with the man addressing the woman's emotional needs. (usually by sheer luck or chance) Then after a while the man will get comfortable. They will lose attraction for one another. Once a woman isn't attracted enough to want to have sex with her partner have him cum inside her,reason being he is not addressing her emotional needs...she will automatically take on a mothering role. (probably while having a partner on the side)


So quit being his mom guys hate that and it leads to us losing attraction towards you and start acting like his wife.
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Nah, I have lived with a couple of women and their natural instinct is to keep things tidy and neat...Now, I understood that I had to mow the lawn, take out the garbage, lift heavy stuff...It's called a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman.

I won't tolerate nagging so that was never an issue...but 'she' should keep the house clean while the 'he' keeps the yard clean. No nagging and "mothering" necessary...It's just called knowing your role and shutting your mouth.
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Yeah I "mother" my man, because to me, "mothering" means fucking taking care of someone, feeing them, doing your best to make them feel better if they're sick, etc. etc...

And yeah I have referred to plenty of males as giant babies who can dress themselves and wipe their own asses... albeit badly.

Fuck that, yes, I DO mother and I'm not fucking sorry, so suck me. If you asked him he'd tell you he wouldn't have it any differently.

Face fucking my palm over this thread right now.
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Yeah I "mother" my man, because to me, "mothering" means fucking taking care of someone, feeing them, doing your best to make them feel better if they're sick, etc. etc...

And yeah I have referred to plenty of males as giant babies who can dress themselves and wipe their own asses... albeit badly.

Fuck that, yes, I DO mother and I'm not fucking sorry, so suck me. If you asked him he'd tell you he wouldn't have it any differently.

Face fucking my palm over this thread right now.
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hottt...
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Sooooo...how did we go from this...


The Good Wife's Guide
From Housekeeping Monthly, 13 May, 1955.


Have dinner ready.
Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself.
Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter.
Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables. During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

More at the link...

[link to j-walk.com]
 Quoting: Housekeeping Monthly


Which is basically a point of view where every person in a family unit has their place and serves a purpose that is designed for healthier function of the whole (family unit)

To our standards of today...?

Such a short time it seems for such a big change in societal perception.
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Sooooo...how did we go from this...


The Good Wife's Guide
From Housekeeping Monthly, 13 May, 1955.


Have dinner ready.
Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself.
Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter.
Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables. During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

More at the link...

[link to j-walk.com]
 Quoting: Housekeeping Monthly


Which is basically a point of view where every person in a family unit has their place and serves a purpose that is designed for healthier function of the whole (family unit)

To our standards of today...?

Such a short time it seems for such a big change in societal perception.
 Quoting: ArunaLuna


Listen...Luna. If you have a bug up your ass about cooking for your man...than that's fine....but most women want to cook and keep their house organized...I think you might be lashing out at these women...just my opinion....and you know I Love you.

hf
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I'm not married anymore but when I was I don't think I mothered him.

To be honest, I served him. Whatever he wanted he got, the second he wanted it. I made no objections to anything he wanted to do, to anywhere he wanted to go. He didn't get lectures or scoldings.
 Quoting: Debauchery


Why aren't you married anymore?
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I'm not married anymore but when I was I don't think I mothered him.

To be honest, I served him. Whatever he wanted he got, the second he wanted it. I made no objections to anything he wanted to do, to anywhere he wanted to go. He didn't get lectures or scoldings.
 Quoting: Debauchery


Why aren't you married anymore?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4141935


I divorced him. He was a bastard, very sadistic, very controlling.
And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it." Amen.
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I'm not married anymore but when I was I don't think I mothered him.

To be honest, I served him. Whatever he wanted he got, the second he wanted it. I made no objections to anything he wanted to do, to anywhere he wanted to go. He didn't get lectures or scoldings.
 Quoting: Debauchery


Why aren't you married anymore?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4141935


I divorced him. He was a bastard, very sadistic, very controlling.
 Quoting: Debauchery


Quiet!!!


Just kidding...

hf
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Sooooo...how did we go from this...


The Good Wife's Guide
From Housekeeping Monthly, 13 May, 1955.


Have dinner ready.
Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself.
Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter.
Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables. During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

More at the link...

[link to j-walk.com]
 Quoting: Housekeeping Monthly


Which is basically a point of view where every person in a family unit has their place and serves a purpose that is designed for healthier function of the whole (family unit)

To our standards of today...?

Such a short time it seems for such a big change in societal perception.
 Quoting: ArunaLuna


Listen...Luna. If you have a bug up your ass about cooking for your man...than that's fine....but most women want to cook and keep their house organized...I think you might be lashing out at these women...just my opinion....and you know I Love you.

hf
 Quoting: Rayrayz


...and it's kinda of a turn on when you're naughty and controversial...Don't change!
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I forget...we're all men on GLP.

hiding
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I don't mother my hubby and I'm a regular GLP user and

not a man
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Nah, I have lived with a couple of women and their natural instinct is to keep things tidy and neat...Now, I understood that I had to mow the lawn, take out the garbage, lift heavy stuff...It's called a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman.

I won't tolerate nagging so that was never an issue...but 'she' should keep the house clean while the 'he' keeps the yard clean. No nagging and "mothering" necessary...It's just called knowing your role and shutting your mouth.
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Oh......Really.
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Nah, I have lived with a couple of women and their natural instinct is to keep things tidy and neat...Now, I understood that I had to mow the lawn, take out the garbage, lift heavy stuff...It's called a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman.

I won't tolerate nagging so that was never an issue...but 'she' should keep the house clean while the 'he' keeps the yard clean. No nagging and "mothering" necessary...It's just called knowing your role and shutting your mouth.
 Quoting: Rayrayz


Oh......Really.
 Quoting: Blue Skies


Yeah but not in a controlling way...it's being realistic...I'm not going to ask my gf to go climb a ladder and clean the gutters...It's give and take.

I don't mean it as "shut your mouth woman!...and get in the kitchen!"


In fact, I will cook 98% of all my meals...but I'm not going to be ultra-tidy and organize my underwear draw etc...It's just not in my nature to be like that.

All I'm saying is, it's natural to have duties/responsibilities that you are in charge of when living together...It's the harmonious relationship between a man and a woman.

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Nah, I have lived with a couple of women and their natural instinct is to keep things tidy and neat...Now, I understood that I had to mow the lawn, take out the garbage, lift heavy stuff...It's called a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman.

I won't tolerate nagging so that was never an issue...but 'she' should keep the house clean while the 'he' keeps the yard clean. No nagging and "mothering" necessary...It's just called knowing your role and shutting your mouth.
 Quoting: Rayrayz


Oh......Really.
 Quoting: Blue Skies


Yeah but not in a controlling way...it's being realistic...I'm not going to ask my gf to go climb a ladder and clean the gutters...It's give and take.

I don't mean it as "shut your mouth woman!...and get in the kitchen!"


In fact, I will cook 98% of all my meals...but I'm not going to be ultra-tidy and organize my underwear draw etc...It's just not in my nature to be like that.

All I'm saying is, it's natural to have duties/responsibilities that you are in charge of when living together...It's the harmonious relationship between a man and a woman.
 Quoting: Rayrayz

You're off the hook then :)
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Nope!

Men don't need to be babied, even though they act like babies sometimes.

Especially when they are sick, why are you guys so wimpy when your sick anyways? It's like the world is ending or you think your dying! Lol

I'd like someone to answer that!

I am nurturing when needed though.

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When he needs it, yes. When he's just being a baby then No.
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Nah, I have lived with a couple of women and their natural instinct is to keep things tidy and neat...Now, I understood that I had to mow the lawn, take out the garbage, lift heavy stuff...It's called a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman.

I won't tolerate nagging so that was never an issue...but 'she' should keep the house clean while the 'he' keeps the yard clean. No nagging and "mothering" necessary...It's just called knowing your role and shutting your mouth.
 Quoting: Rayrayz


Oh......Really.
 Quoting: Blue Skies


Yeah but not in a controlling way...it's being realistic...I'm not going to ask my gf to go climb a ladder and clean the gutters...It's give and take.

I don't mean it as "shut your mouth woman!...and get in the kitchen!"


In fact, I will cook 98% of all my meals...but I'm not going to be ultra-tidy and organize my underwear draw etc...It's just not in my nature to be like that.

All I'm saying is, it's natural to have duties/responsibilities that you are in charge of when living together...It's the harmonious relationship between a man and a woman.
 Quoting: Rayrayz

You're off the hook then :)
 Quoting: Blue Skies


phew...

uhoh

;)
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When he needs it, yes. When he's just being a baby then No.
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Hahaha! Love it!

BTW, love the Kitty Avatar! So cute!
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Re: Ladies of GLP...do you mother your husbands?
Nope!

Men don't need to be babied, even though they act like babies sometimes.

Especially when they are sick, why are you guys so wimpy when your sick anyways? It's like the world is ending or you think your dying! Lol

I'd like someone to answer that!

I am nurturing when needed though.

hugs
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Not me...I think that's probably more the personality type that you have chosen as your mate(s) more than a standard/typical male characteristic.
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Re: Ladies of GLP...do you mother your husbands?
Nope!

Men don't need to be babied, even though they act like babies sometimes.

Especially when they are sick, why are you guys so wimpy when your sick anyways? It's like the world is ending or you think your dying! Lol

I'd like someone to answer that!

I am nurturing when needed though.

hugs
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14596164


Not me...I think that's probably more the personality type that you have chosen as your mate(s) more than a standard/typical male characteristic.
 Quoting: Rayrayz


Hmmm, well you would be one of the few then, unless you just don't know it, that's quite possible.