dating a person 16 years older/younger than you, anyone ever done anything like it?? | |
| Debauchery User ID: 15455863 08/07/2012 05:15 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm almost 38, I wouldn't want to be stuck with an oldster. My man rollin up in a hoveround isn't my idea of fun. It works for some people, and some can handle it, it just wouldn't be for me. And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it." Amen. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 12178057 08/07/2012 05:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Age is nothing if you have a connection. I spent 4 years with a guy 20 years younger than me. We are still really close but it didn't work out. I'm now 45 and am getting close to my 23 year old housemate. Trying to avoid it but geez what can ya do! Lol |
| ajk (OP) User ID: 1114631 08/07/2012 05:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | These comments have been quite reassuring, maybe I shouldn't be so afraid of it. I think I am just gonna go with it and see where it leads, may as well. We haven't met in person yet I should tell you, I met her on a webcam site actually and have gotten close to her since then. I think for now, until we actually did meet up, gonna just take this as it is, and wait till then before really going much further. If both of us are still unattached by then can see what we got and go from that. Till then can allow us to keep our options open, so no one gets hurt in the meantime here. I do know if nothing else I wanna be her friend (with small benefits maybe lol), whether we worked out as anything more or not. I don't want this to be something where if we tried it and it didn't work we didn't speak again. Wanna at least have the friendship. Thanks for the feedback all, much appreciated. Last Edited by ajk on 08/07/2012 05:44 PM No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| Warrior of the Apocalypse User ID: 20581324 08/07/2012 06:07 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Been there, done that, only I was 38 and she was 21... This the better way to go dude... This of it like this, if youare 24 and she is like 41, when you are 35, she will be 52! Forget that bro, she will be old and sagging big time by then, plusyou'll have to del with society always eye balling you, and then there is the issue of having kids, she is not going to wanna pop out any kids at her age, and then you would be missing out on what I think is the best thing life can ever offer you... There are plenty of fish in the sea dude, once you figure out that you do not have to make the next hottie who likes you your girlfriend, youwill start to climb the girlfriend ladder of success becasue the next one is almost always younger and hotter that the last, and in your case, I'd be willing to best the house on that happening! Just Say No! Warrior of the Apocalypse |
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| Darth Hitman User ID: 20445041 08/07/2012 06:15 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I was 28 I dated a 43 year old “He who joyfully marches to music in rank and file has already earned my contempt. He has been given a large brain by mistake, since for him the spinal cord would surely suffice.” - Albert Einstein Truth fears no questions. ~Unknown “There is no such thing as a minor lapse of integrity” - Tom Peters |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14596164 08/07/2012 06:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I know many couples in the same situation in regards to age, and they are all still very happy together. Keep in mind that some women age well. Does she look her age, or younger, or older? You don't even have to tell anyone the age gap. Good luck anyways! |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 20706866 08/07/2012 07:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I was 37, I met an 18 year woman who totally blew me away with how mature she was. We had so much in common, and had an amazing time talking. We both realized the age gap was too big for us to try dating, but we just loved hanging out together...eventually one thing led to another and we hooked up. The sex was mindblowing for both of us, and we were inseparable for months. I got a job and moved away, but we're still friends. She's dating someone a year older than her now, she's happy, and I'm happy for her. She said that she'll look me up when she's 23...and see where she's at. Age is just a number once you realize who you are. I've changed in a lot of ways since I was 18, but I think at my core...I'm the same person. Just more jaded...haha. If it feels right, it is right. If it doesn't...it isn't. Sometimes it makes sense, sometimes it doesn't. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1366745 08/07/2012 07:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well there was another time also. A guiness book hit. So I turned 16, on the day I banged the worlds oldest woman. She was a 120. If it worked for us it can work for you. Never let a one night stand put you off either |
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| Junie User ID: 16402515 08/07/2012 07:22 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband is 54, Im a few days shy of 36. I met him when I was 18. So, I'd say it worked out well for us. Last Edited by Junie on 08/07/2012 07:23 PM |
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Mister Obvious![]() Forum Administrator 08/07/2012 08:42 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | AJK... When I say "FUCKING GO FOR IT." I couldn't possibly mean it more. And I totally dislike you (known your posts since day 1 bro, look at my member number). So if I'm actually giving you an honest word, you know I mean it. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1303469 08/07/2012 08:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I know many couples in the same situation in regards to age, and they are all still very happy together. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14596164 Keep in mind that some women age well. Does she look her age, or younger, or older? You don't even have to tell anyone the age gap. Good luck anyways! Totally, some women do age well. Look at Madonna. Or, Amy Whinehouse. They still are the hallowed pillar of beauty! |
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