dating a person 16 years older/younger than you, anyone ever done anything like it??

I'm almost 38, I wouldn't want to be stuck with an oldster.

My man rollin up in a hoveround isn't my idea of fun.

It works for some people, and some can handle it, it just wouldn't be for me.

yeah once, long time ago. funny story really.

taught her how to walk, talk..use the potty



wtf is wrong with you people

i am 55 she is 24

Age is nothing if you have a connection. I spent 4 years with a guy 20 years younger than me. We are still really close but it didn't work out.
I'm now 45 and am getting close to my 23 year old housemate. Trying to avoid it but geez what can ya do! Lol

These comments have been quite reassuring, maybe I shouldn't be so afraid of it.

I think I am just gonna go with it and see where it leads, may as well. We haven't met in person yet I should tell you, I met her on a webcam site actually and have gotten close to her since then.

I think for now, until we actually did meet up, gonna just take this as it is, and wait till then before really going much further. If both of us are still unattached by then can see what we got and go from that. Till then can allow us to keep our options open, so no one gets hurt in the meantime here.

I do know if nothing else I wanna be her friend (with small benefits maybe lol), whether we worked out as anything more or not. I don't want this to be something where if we tried it and it didn't work we didn't speak again. Wanna at least have the friendship.

Thanks for the feedback all, much appreciated.

Last Edited by ajk on 08/07/2012 05:44 PM

Been there, done that, only I was 38 and she was 21... This the better way to go dude... This of it like this, if youare 24 and she is like 41, when you are 35, she will be 52! Forget that bro, she will be old and sagging big time by then, plusyou'll have to del with society always eye balling you, and then there is the issue of having kids, she is not going to wanna pop out any kids at her age, and then you would be missing out on what I think is the best thing life can ever offer you... There are plenty of fish in the sea dude, once you figure out that you do not have to make the next hottie who likes you your girlfriend, youwill start to climb the girlfriend ladder of success becasue the next one is almost always younger and hotter that the last, and in your case, I'd be willing to best the house on that happening!

Just Say No!

A typical Canadian Slut!

When I was 28 I dated a 43 year old

OP, I know many couples in the same situation in regards to age, and they are all still very happy together.

Keep in mind that some women age well. Does she look her age, or younger, or older?

You don't even have to tell anyone the age gap.

Good luck anyways!

women do this when they're teens.

Are you my ex-wife?

When I was 37, I met an 18 year woman who totally blew me away with how mature she was. We had so much in common, and had an amazing time talking. We both realized the age gap was too big for us to try dating, but we just loved hanging out together...eventually one thing led to another and we hooked up. The sex was mindblowing for both of us, and we were inseparable for months. I got a job and moved away, but we're still friends. She's dating someone a year older than her now, she's happy, and I'm happy for her. She said that she'll look me up when she's 23...and see where she's at.

Age is just a number once you realize who you are. I've changed in a lot of ways since I was 18, but I think at my core...I'm the same person. Just more jaded...haha.

If it feels right, it is right. If it doesn't...it isn't. Sometimes it makes sense, sometimes it doesn't.

Just make sure you both have fun, and everything should be fine.

Pedo

Guilty conscience?

Well there was another time also. A guiness book hit. So I turned 16, on the day I banged the worlds oldest woman. She was a 120. If it worked for us it can work for you. Never let a one night stand put you off either

Yeah when I was like 1 I dated a 17 year old. She was hot as hell too.

you da man

My dads step dad and mom were 20 years apart.

I'm 46, my hubby is 59. He's the love of my life and age isn't an issue for either of us.

My husband is 54, Im a few days shy of 36.

I met him when I was 18. So, I'd say it worked out well for us.

I was 18 and she was 67.
She was awesome.
Filthy old whore.

I'm 59, my boyfriend's 26 and we get along just fine.

I am 40 and she is 54. It is great and they way I see it she will live longer than me.

age is just a number my friend

just because she is older dosen't make her different

if ya got feelings, roll with them.

AJK...


When I say "FUCKING GO FOR IT."


I couldn't possibly mean it more.





And I totally dislike you (known your posts since day 1 bro, look at my member number).

So if I'm actually giving you an honest word, you know I mean it.

Totally, some women do age well. Look at Madonna. Or, Amy Whinehouse. They still are the hallowed pillar of beauty!

Please, stay out of this. Go to a Starbucks or something!