women, do you really like sex? what turns you on *seriously*? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9230107 United States 08/12/2012 01:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some women like sex and some don't. Alot depends on their upbringing and views of sex from young age. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21729672 A woman who doesn't like sex can be changed by the right man and technique...and a woman who likes sex can be changed also by the WRONG man and technique. Nothing is written in stone. What turns one woman on would turn another off. If you want answers you gotta have a specific woman in mind and ask HER. I was sexually abused as a child and needless to say I had a VERY negative view of sex as an adult. But I married the right guy and he had the right technique and I love sex now. But if I would have gotten with the wrong guy and he had used the wrong approach, considering my past abuse, I would have FOREVER HATED sex. Like I said...nothing is written in stone. So what do you consider good and bad techniques? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21729672 United States 08/12/2012 11:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some women like sex and some don't. Alot depends on their upbringing and views of sex from young age. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21729672 A woman who doesn't like sex can be changed by the right man and technique...and a woman who likes sex can be changed also by the WRONG man and technique. Nothing is written in stone. What turns one woman on would turn another off. If you want answers you gotta have a specific woman in mind and ask HER. I was sexually abused as a child and needless to say I had a VERY negative view of sex as an adult. But I married the right guy and he had the right technique and I love sex now. But if I would have gotten with the wrong guy and he had used the wrong approach, considering my past abuse, I would have FOREVER HATED sex. Like I said...nothing is written in stone. So what do you consider good and bad techniques? Bad technique - look at the post just above this one. Selfish, quick, wham bam thank you maam, blah blah blah. No concern for the fact that for women, sexual pleasure is as much in the mind as between the legs. No romance. I think you get the idea. Good technique - Exactly the opposite of the bad. Always in tune emotionally as well as physically. Doesn't go for his cookies until she has hers. Remember the song "slow hand"? |
Vesper33 User ID: 5245441 United States 08/15/2012 05:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Um hmmm..I'll try to answer this. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18266813 What turns me on: confidence, humor, a man who knows what he wants. In every day life, I have my own career, make good money and I don't need a man to take care of me. In the bedroom, I prefer a man to take charge. I don't mean get on top, bury his face in a pillow and hammer it out, I want to feel wanted and I want him to pay attention to my body but I want him to be in control. The more positions the better, there's nothing more boring than not switching it up. As far as oral, I have friends who hate doing it, but I love it and I view it as a challenge. Any man can get off from sex but with oral I know it's up to me to get him there. Edit: deleted my statement. I need to stay off GLP late at night. Lol. Last Edited by Vesper33 on 08/15/2012 06:57 PM Perfer et Obdura;Dolor hic tibi proderit olim.Fortes Fortuna Iuvat! (Be Patient & Strong; someday this pain will be useful to you. Fortune favors the brave) |
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Face Palmer User ID: 21997878 Germany 08/15/2012 05:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 15234517 Canada 08/15/2012 11:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, what the hell are you talking about. Women like sex, ya sure, there are some that could do without, but most of us like it. I love it! I wish my husband was more kinky actually! I don't think I want to get into what turns me on, but even the simplist things turn me on. Just seeing him naked or in his underwear does it for me. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21998256 United Kingdom 08/15/2012 11:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, what the hell are you talking about. Women like sex, ya sure, there are some that could do without, but most of us like it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15234517 I love it! I wish my husband was more kinky actually! I don't think I want to get into what turns me on, but even the simplist things turn me on. Just seeing him naked or in his underwear does it for me. only women with high testosterone genuinely crave sex, but women with high T tend to be psychopaths, hence the females replying to this thread. Then there are the kind who don't like sex, but they want to feel beautiful and desirable, so they persecute their inattentive hubbys for it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1503102 Mexico 08/15/2012 11:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | women are fucking vicious. The ones the average guy is attracted to. Fucking chimpanzees with mascera on. They'll make you jump through every god-damn hoop on earth to prove how little you care about them or how little they mean to you. You flinch for one second it's over cuz it's not fun for her anymore. EVERY WOMAN WORTH HAVING IN AMERICA DOES THIS. Or you go to iraq or afghanistan and her emotions get the best of her. All women worth having in this country are interested in is how cute they look to passer bys when they stand around gesticulating outside of a shoe sale or dumb shit like that. Like i said fucking chimpanzees with mascara on. Remorseless cunts. Best bet is hold eye contact and never give her a chance to machinegun you with questions. It's a fact of life. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21998256 United Kingdom 08/15/2012 11:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | women are fucking vicious. The ones the average guy is attracted to. Fucking chimpanzees with mascera on. They'll make you jump through every god-damn hoop on earth to prove how little you care about them or how little they mean to you. You flinch for one second it's over cuz it's not fun for her anymore. EVERY WOMAN WORTH HAVING IN AMERICA DOES THIS. Or you go to iraq or afghanistan and her emotions get the best of her. All women worth having in this country are interested in is how cute they look to passer bys when they stand around gesticulating outside of a shoe sale or dumb shit like that. Like i said fucking chimpanzees with mascara on. Remorseless cunts. Best bet is hold eye contact and never give her a chance to machinegun you with questions. It's a fact of life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1503102 same in this country. i used to wonder why it was a natural feeling for many men to feel shy and anxious around women, but now i know it's our guts way of telling us, to proceed with extreme caution as imminent danger lies ahead LOL |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 15234517 Canada 08/15/2012 02:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, what the hell are you talking about. Women like sex, ya sure, there are some that could do without, but most of us like it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15234517 I love it! I wish my husband was more kinky actually! I don't think I want to get into what turns me on, but even the simplist things turn me on. Just seeing him naked or in his underwear does it for me. only women with high testosterone genuinely crave sex, but women with high T tend to be psychopaths, hence the females replying to this thread. Then there are the kind who don't like sex, but they want to feel beautiful and desirable, so they persecute their inattentive hubbys for it. Well, I don't have high testosterone, I've had it checked several times, so that theory is wrong. Your full of shit! |
Willlow User ID: 21876893 Canada 08/15/2012 03:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Of course we like sex. Is this high school?? I prefer to be a lady and wouldn't discuss what "turns me on" to a bunch of pervs online however......if a woman is in love - pretty much anything you do that is sweet, caring and loving...turns us on. Grow up OP. We are all one xo |
eve incognito User ID: 25176502 Bosnia and Herzegovina 10/09/2012 11:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | being a guy i can't understand why a guy (even a ripped adonis) would make you want to sex him. also, you only produce trace amounts of testosterone, so you're never as readily horny as us guys are. AND when a guy gets you in kinky positions or wants oral, do you *really* like it, or just doing it to please him? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21764718 well i have a lot more testosterone than most girls,(unfortunaltey) so it maybe just be me, but i love sex, and giving oral is very nice, and kinky positions too.but it's mostly about the right guy....if you are very in love with the man you are sexin, as you put it, than you have a great desire to be touched by him, to touch him,to kiss him, to smell him, to hear his breathing, voice, to look at him, to feel him inside you, everywhere he can possibly squeeze in without killing you. at the risk of sounding corny, sex is mostly about love. so when you are in love with the wrong person it can be tolerable, even nice, but when you are in love with the person you are made for(each other), that amoutns to crazy, hot,wonderful, lovely, kinky sex. sometimes i put my bf penis inside my muouth for comfort, it sooths me:)) or sometimes if i am freaking out (ive go major issues, so i tend to freak out over silly things), he simply puts his penis inside my mouth and i calm down and think aw wow this is nice, ok life is good....:)) |
Where Woman There Solution User ID: 25281154 Germany 10/09/2012 11:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The debate men-women has only one return, to school the scheme. The basic pattern that turns us on is to do anything for another. No higher pleasures are available than in this attitude (The sandwich done by another always taste better that...) But this basic of morality is conquered by the heroes that murder, rob and steal from others for to spend a living. On the highest stages of society and act there as models. He-he. Our patriarchal matrix. Bad is good and the good behavior is the drudge to carry on that idea. So therefore what is to consider as a honorable represent of the patriarchal mindset to come to solutions always will make his lunatic jokes about that people who is not corrupted by the advantages of murder, rob and steal. Who just does what nature has displayed. Is gay to the others. As return here there is in store pure, undamaged feelings. Ready to get raped, if not physically, then mentally. Bring that into the mind of a war-head whilst he is still living. |
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Von_Boner User ID: 320079 Australia 10/09/2012 11:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As far as I know, farting turns every woman off. So don't do that.... Yup, I'm just a well of information.... Turn ons? Not farting is up there toward the top of the list. But I have a set of balls, so what do I know.... In fact, I don't even know why I commented. Being able to type fast has it's drawbacks.... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 22095867 United States 10/10/2012 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As far as I know, farting turns every woman off. So don't do that.... Quoting: Von_Boner 320079 Yup, I'm just a well of information.... Turn ons? Not farting is up there toward the top of the list. But I have a set of balls, so what do I know.... In fact, I don't even know why I commented. Being able to type fast has it's drawbacks.... This is good advice for anyone. |
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Raven 4 User ID: 19866620 United States 10/10/2012 12:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm weird because its not about the body, the looks, money, or power. I love a combination of humor, confidence (not arrogance), and an open heart. So I really don't get turned on by any guy until I've known him for awhile and we have a connection. An Adonis type could walk down the street and I have no interest until I know him, he has the type of qualities I stated and we develop a connection. And yes, when I love a man, I enjoy performing oral sex immensely, it gives me great pleasure. No anal though, never anal. Moran for life <3 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21211135 United States 10/10/2012 12:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some women like sex and some don't. Alot depends on their upbringing and views of sex from young age. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21729672 A woman who doesn't like sex can be changed by the right man and technique...and a woman who likes sex can be changed also by the WRONG man and technique. Nothing is written in stone. What turns one woman on would turn another off. If you want answers you gotta have a specific woman in mind and ask HER. I was sexually abused as a child and needless to say I had a VERY negative view of sex as an adult. But I married the right guy and he had the right technique and I love sex now. But if I would have gotten with the wrong guy and he had used the wrong approach, considering my past abuse, I would have FOREVER HATED sex. Like I said...nothing is written in stone. thanks for feedback and being so honest. and glad you overcame your past... a REAL woman right there. Thanks! Just trying to keep it real. BTW...speaking from a woman's perspective...the biggest turn on for any woman is a man who doesn't play head games. Just fuckin be REAL. That's number one...and number two close behind is a man who is secure enough in his own masculinity that he can actually let his guard down and be loving and unselfish...and he doesn't give a shit what the others guys think about it. I don't know about that. I tried being real my entire life and it never worked out for me. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9231012 United States 10/10/2012 04:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love for both of us to have fresh showers on fresh linens and then we give each other coconut oil rub downs. My husband give a great masseuse quality 45 minute back rub. He turns me on because he is slow handed and not rushing to get it over with just so he can have sex. We're older now too so oral is pretty much off the table for both of us, we kind of grew out of that stage. Now we are into, slow, romantic, touching, caring that usually turns into sex, or not....just depends on our moods or if he is really tired from a long day at work. We've been married for over 25 years. Some years back we thought we had to have sex all the time, now that we have both grown into waiting for us both to be in the mood we have better sex now but not every night. When we were younger and in our 20's we hit it pretty hard, like the day we broke our record of sex 28 times in a 24 hour period. Hard hitting youth sex isn't as emotionally rewarding as it is now. -------- If your asking what I know in general about most other women including myself, Just being one on one with a nice evening in a hot tub surrounded with nice soft music and twinkle lights and good wine turns a lot of us on. Something about getting hot in the tub and the wine hitting us and the pretty lights...ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh :) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25267920 United States 10/10/2012 04:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | you should have seen the first woman created. Lilith was a nymphomaniac and she almost killed Adam with sex. A couple behavior modifications to tone it down to wit they added menstrual cramps, monthly period, moodiness, bi-polar, etc was added so women didn't kill men. And Eve was created as a replacement. now we have the restricted version of the female species. do you want them to turn the Lilith effect back on ??? you may not survive the estrogen onslaught !!! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 11602264 Netherlands 10/10/2012 05:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your first mistake OP, is that you ask to much questions. Woman dont like that. Secondly, dont lick these females asses. Majortiy of the woman want man leadership and do everything you like. You have to see them as objects and use them how you want to, but dont insult them. Sex, it's easy, do what you like how you want to. If youre good at it the woman enjoys aswell and you will be able to make her cum 10-11 times, when you suck at it, you make her cum not even once and they will leave over time. Woman like it you dont really give a fuck about them, but still give a fuck about them - some wierd complex shit but it is what it is. |
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