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You want to know what really happened, than you men and Women READ THIS!!!
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thank for sharing this
forgiving yourself for your choice that night has clearly catalysed a powerful release in you allowing you to 'let go' of your self blame for your inaction that night
not that i think you were to blame btw , just seeing that you had held that belief yourself but were releasing it -
your wife is and was ultimately responsible for her choices that night too( unless she was forced/raped of course) and it is her journey to forgive herself -although your forgiveness might catalyse that- might have already
but you two managed 21 yrs after that-enormous well done -that's fast track learning , the hard way -so it not for nought , there has to have been a lot of love there
i've read it takes 3 lifetimes together to get it right
so i find we're are awfully hard on ourselves for our beautifully human( nod to jill scott awesomeness) but oft crapulous ways
we all make crap choices - all the time it's what we do next that matters imo
and it is so very good to be alive
letting go of the pain of self loathing and receiving the peace of self acceptance
you're a cool bloke marty :-)
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